Boyfriend lose erecting during sex but still cums ( read for more details) ?

[Anonymous]

I’m 26 and my boyfriend is 29 we both will be turning a year older in February. We been together for 10 years now and our relationship been through so much like him cheating on me several times. We talked about it and we decided to work things out and moved on. Anyways I can’t remember the first time i notice he would lose erection during sex. For example ;

let’s say I start giving him oral he gets hard and stays hard. He might get a bit softer but stays hard and I get him very hard. He tells me he wants to fuck me so I position myself and we started having sex. He penetrates me and sometimes I feel him get softer to the point that I’m able to notice it inside me. Or most of the time he fucking me and he gets soft but still continues to fuck me. But tbh doesn’t feel good so I don't know why he would continue. ( probably not trying make it obvious he got soft ) I don't know. There’s been times he gets a bit hard again but not like in the beginning and he end up busting. I had a talk with him last month about this situation and I will be honest , I was a bit rude and told him how I notice he get softer when he inside me and that he probably not into me. He said it didn’t true and that he doesn’t “ lose erecting “ but I can clearly touch it and confirm it. Back then I would stop when I notice this problem but lately when we having sex and I notice this I just try to ignore close my eyes and hoping he finished. I been insecure thinking so many thing. Is he cheating? Am I not attractive to him anymore?

[RearEntryGuy]

1) Medically this is a form of erectile disfunction where the guy cannot SUSTAIN an erection.

There are medication for it.

2) it could be he overly familiar with you. Not that he doesn't fund you sexy, but 10 years is a long time.

A possible non medical way is to use butt plug in him.

There is no shame for guy to use it because it stimulates our prostate and gives us "deep" orgasms, analogous to your G-Spot orgasm.

3) he is addicted to porn and masturbation.

Ask for an honest answer without discrimination.

4) others like drug use, alcohol, anti-depressant may contribute to it.

Go talk openly. If it's a relationship problem, then I think its time to reevaluate openly and honestly.

[RearEntryGuy]

Update: WTF with you guys? Is there a need to be so calculative even when you're fucking? Gosh! Please! Make love, not war! Isn't this what sex is suppose to be?

[whosnumber1]

he might not be being totally honest with you as to why he's loosing it. he might not even really know or understand himself. this kind of thing is natural and can happen to any guy and at some point will happen to most. sometimes it can just be a little thing that sets it off, loosing concentration. sometimes he can develop a bit of a complex about it and that can make matters worse. he probably feels bad about it so I would try to be a bit understanding. there are things you can do if you want to discuss further DM me

[whosnumber1]

dm me

[Bricealan]

Well, different strokes for different folks as the saying goes. Usually guys in that age group, get hard and stay hard up through ejaculation, although, different things affect penis hardness. I understand that a half-a-hard-on does not feel as good to you, nor to him. Sometimes it may be a loss of concentration or similar, thing. At his age, Viagra may not be necessary, but I know some young guys use it for longer, harder erections, and also using 'cock" rings may help.

[Asker]

When I first introduced him to a cock ring his dick would get automatically harder and thicker now it doesn’t 🙁 I also have asked him “ are you concentrated while you fuck me “ he said yes.. I don’t believe him but apparently to him , he is into me.

[Bricealan]

I use both, Viagra, AND cock rings, one around the base and balls, and another around the base of the shaft, and my penis does get longer AND thicker (the extra thickness surprised me) Try the combination of Viagra and cock rings.

[Asker]

I know this is a random thought but can I secretly put viagra on his drink 😂 will it be noticeable

[Bricealan]

Probably not, since the Viagra is usually swallowed whole. I never tried that, but assume it has to be swallowed as a whole dose. I take 100mg pill and wait about an hour. Not the pill has a blue covering. You might try dissolving a pill in water first and see what it does?

[ashish804]

he is losing interest in u so u should also cheat

[Asker]

What can I do when he deny it?

[ashish804]

u should try something new to get banged

[dudeinohio]

Medical. issue... even though you don't believe it. Also... dogging him over it won't help... it'll make things worse. He needs to see a doctor.

[Akumuviral]

Multiple different reasons...
Sometimes, dick just has a mind is his own

[Twalli]

If he masturbates to porn he may be getting porn induced ED.

[Zygum]

Medical reason

[tobr83]

He may be loosing interest

[Anonymous]

Don't think he cheating you may be so wet not feeling him inside you
are you a woman with many orgasms and soaking wet to where he sliding in and out
very easy. Now the reason I ask is you said when sucking his cock lt stays hard
do you swallow his cum. just a thought has he fucked your tight ass and stayed hard
or did he get soft there to .. think about it before you say something you don't mean
But nothing wrong getting that wet lots of women squirt cum like you peeing
Love to connect and chat with you jamesbridges210@gmail. com share our
real life experiences if you reading this just think about me eating your pussy
sucking you clean before I give you a long hard fucking
If they one thing that I could do to you that would drive you out of your mind
with orgasms hope to hear back from you but no angry

[Anonymous]

So you were still in high school when you started dating him