What should I do and say when i’m on top? What do guys like?

I haven’t done it in a while and I’m going to have sex with my new boyfriend when i’m ready. like should i tongue kiss him most of the time or suck on his fingers , what do y’all like to hear lol also i dont want to sound like a total whore & make him feel like he’s got me locked in lol i dont know
What should I do and say when i’m on top? What do guys like?
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great now what things should i say? i don’t want to say cum in me because we’re having sex with a condom lol even though it wouldn’t matter but still
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  • In that position, I love watching a woman pleasure herself - the genuine expressions of passion on her face and the way she undulates her body as she grinds her pussy against me to stir my cock inside her and focuses on what will make her orgasm. Working my cock for her own pleasure is as erotic as watching her masturbate. Aside from what she is doing to my cock, I imagine the sensations she is feeling.

    So I recommend focusing more on what feels good for you than on trying to 'act' sexy, because what feels good to you will feel good for him and he'll be entranced by your hungry pursuit of pleasure. If you are inspired to entwine your fingers in his and press them against the bed, or if you want to gain leverage for humping by placing your hands on his chest, go for it. Again, do it in pursuit of your own pleasure. Feel free to be a hungry animal.

    It's also hot when she stimulates her own tits and/or rubs her clit while sitting erect. Again, watching her get herself off is erotic af.

    And my favorite thing is when she leans over so that her boobs are dangling. I love watching dangling boobs bounce, sway and clap together. She can brush my chest with the tips. And in that position, I can squeeze them, lift them to my face, stimulate and feast on her nipples. If her tits are erogenous and she gets hornier from having them fondled and sucked, it's a total win-win.

    As far as what to say. I enjoy hearing how she feels. Along with genuine sounds of pleasure like grunts, gasps and exclamations, I like things like "You're cock feels so good inside me." "I can feel you inside my tummy." "I'm so wet right now." "I want to cum all over your cock." "I'm going to cum." If he's doing something to your breasts that feels good, tell him so and encourage him.

    The only other thing I'll say is, in that position you can easily kiss his neck, collar bone and chest, lick his nipples, or stimulate his nipples with your fingers. Some guy's nipples are sensitive and erogenous and some guys don't like it. So it depends on your boyfriend. I, personally, love it.

    • nice got it

  • 1) most important: moan naturally.

    Always grid where your clitoris is stimulated. Then moan naturally when you feel it.

    2) "grab my boobs". Tell him when you want it to go to next level.

    3) "grab my butt". Butt guys like this. Then relax and reach the next level.

    4) "spank me". Guys like it. Learn to enjoy it.

    5) cum. Yes, guys like to see, hear and feel you cum. It'll probably "induce" him to cum too.

    PS: If you are the type that doesn't cum from PIV, then prelude with foreplay in other position (s).

Most Helpful Girl

  • Don't overthink it. You can ask him what he wants you to do. In that position, I like my butt tightly grabbed. You can put his hands there too if that's what you like

    • yeah i’m definitely going to tell him to suck my boobs and grab my butt & stuff. i’ll ask him i guess lol

    • Nibble on his earlobe and whisper what he wants you to do in a very seductive way.

    • Works when i do it

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  • Ask him if he likes to talk during sex, loudly or quietly, or just keep doing it with no words except, yes, no, again, don't stop, that's it, oh yeah, faster, stop it, switch positions.

  • Eye contact, Holding on to me, touching me, kissing me, or me touching her.
    this position is always a big turn on

  • Hold his hands and or cover his mouth he makes any noise. Or you could put your hands on his chest, as long as your humping him good, it doesn’t matter much what else you do.

  • Do whatever works for you.

  • Hold both hands, have eye contact and rock and roll. One thing. No posting (bouncing). It can hurt both of you.

  • Guide his hands to your breasts and talk dirty to him. Tell him how much you like riding him, and ask him to squeeze your nipples. I'm pretty sure he'll like that.

  • Know his kinks and fetishes (if he has them) and apply through mental stimulation.

    " i dont want to sound like a total whore & make him feel like he’s got me locked in". You should know the whole "locked in" thing doesn't apply or register in the minds of guys in the same way. IF he thinks you're a whore he is going to leave at some point. Feeling that he's got you "locked in" can be good or bad depending on the guy. If he feels like he's got you "locked in" he might trust you more anyways. I personally wouldn't invest in a girl I didn't know was "mine" or willing to be with just me.

    • "IF he thinks you're a whore he is going to leave at some point.". LMAO. That's not true. If that was an issue, then he wouldn't be there underneath her in the first place.

  • Just ride him like a rented mule and don't worry about the narrative.
    I'm sure you will be able to tell if what you are doing to him is effective.
    Have him hold a vibrator on you while you are going at it.
    Once he sees your reaction to what he is doing to you he wouldn't be listening to anything you are saying anyway.
    Just watching your eyeballs roll back.

    • i dont believe in vibrators and toys lol

  • Mix it up a bit. But definitely let him know when you are climaxing. It’s so hot to hear that.

  • I heard spelling "coconut" with your hips does wonders

  • Put your hands around his neck, ride it like a rodeo and tell him to cum in a sexy but bossy way. Guys are always in charge of everything and have a lot of stress. It's nice to be on the opposite end sometimes

  • Instead of "cum IN me" try "cum FOR me" that sounds pretty hot.

    The tongue kissing sounds good too.

    Rub your hands all over his chest. I guess just be handsy in general.

    Give him a good view of your tits bouncing.

    Whip your hair around.

    All sound very erotic to me.

  • Just enjoy yourself, knowing that you are feeling good is very sexy. Also eye contact.

  • "I don't want to sound like a total whore.".
    If you're acting like a total whore, why do you care about sounding like one?
    SMH. See, this is what annoys me about you people. You make decisions but you don't have the guts to own those decisions.

    I mean, if you want to have sex, just have sex and enjoy it! Fuck. Don't ruin the experience for yourself because of stupid insecurities.

  • I love it when a girl shoves her boobs in my face. But just let your hands wander and pay attention to how he reacts.

  • Tell him I own you or this dick is mine. Be a little dominant put your hands on his chest and hold him down or take his hands a put them on your body.

  • Plain moaning does the trick.

  • Not a hole lot! I love it this way as I see boobs play with boobs and can help lift herby holding her under her boobs so have your boobs on show and say what ever you want if you want him to hold back tell not to cum and ask him what to say that will help

  • I hear guys like to hear there best friends name. Try that.

    • i’ll try his moms

    • Babe if you do that and get a video you will win the internet.

  • Whatever comes to mind. That's what's great about sex, pretty much anything is allwoed

    • allowed*

    • A good thing NOT to say though, would be, the wrong name, if you were to yell out his name

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