Girls, Why do Many Women stay with a Man who is a Liar and /Or a Porn Addict/Female Idolizer?/Problem Partner?

[Paris13]

**I answer many Questions on Other Sites where I see this Problem in Droves. Your Opinion, Gals? xx

[sage2021]

Because they are so damn good at lying to us and we think they are telling us the truth. After a while you don't know if they are lying or telling the truth. They are
so convincing when telling us lies. And they are very good with convincing their victims that they really do love them.

[Paris13]

I like that.

[Paris13]

xxxxxxxxxooooo

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’m not sure. Sadly there’s probably lots of different reasons.

[Paris13]

There are, girl. xx

[AmericanxIdiot05]

I think it is because they think they can "fix them" and it just takes a toll on the women because 9 times out of 10, he doesn't want to change. Or they are worried they might hurt the guy, even if he has already hurt them enough, constantly giving second chances in hopes of him getting better and not repeating the same mistakes.
Or at least that is what I have heard

[Paris13]

That makes Sense, girl. I Feel For these Girls every day!!! xx

[AmericanxIdiot05]

Me too, it's so sad especially when it happens so often

[Paris13]

@americanxidiot05 It's getting Worsexx

[Aerissa_Jade]

There are many reasons people stay in a bad relationship. Many of these tie together.

1. Not thinking they can do any better, this is as good as it gets - no confidence
2. Stability, he takes care of her and life single trying to live alone is too much to bear.
3. She excuses his behavior as he apologized and says he won't do it again.
4. They don't think what is happening is a big deal - Such as a little porn isn't a problem.
5. Overwhelming love and the desire to solve all problems.

I personally don't have a issue with couples porn, it gives me/us idea's but I have an issue with a guy who'd rather watch that and get himself off than be with me. I have left guys over that before.

If someone feels the need to lie, then there can be no trust. No trust means no relationship.

[Paris13]

Beautifully Said. xx

[menina]

I think they're either afraid of being single or they believe their boyfriend/husband is going to change. Some don't believe that the man they love is like that, they're in denial.

[Paris13]

Denial is right. xx

[menina]

I think so.

[Flower7]

Because they are desperate.

[Paris13]

How sad... xx

[Roguehoneylife]

It’s extremely hard to leave someone you love if you have trauma, insecurity, If the person is abusive in any way and many other factors

[Paris13]

So Right. xx

[Cherry234]

There are a variety of reasons. It could be because they're desperate and lonely or maybe they have trouble getting out of that relationship. They may not have money so they're financially dependent on those men. Or they're too much in love with those men that they don't care they're wrong for them.

[Paris13]

So many Reasons. xx

[Koneko911]

Most women claim any man who watches porn is an addict. Porn isn't a big deal

[Paris13]

I feel as a Couple it's Okay. xx

[Paris13]

I have Seen Every day how Women suffer with the ADDICTION And then Some... xx

[Koneko911]

Yeah and most of those women exaggerate about it

[Paris13]

I am Not seeing That. You should REad what I DO.:((xx

[Koneko911]

Then you must not read the post by women here always complaining how their man is cheating on them when they watch porn, and making a huge deal out of nothing

[Paris13]

Not hearing So Much of That. xx

[dumbbuthot]

bad self esteem

[Paris13]

That's Good! xx

[KatherineJ]

I don’t know the answer to this one. I don’t think I could stay with a man like that.

[Paris13]

Many do. Very sad... xx

[KatherineJ]

@paris13 yes it is.

[douride2]

Most likely they are desperate & don't want to be alone. Myself I would never put up with such behavior.

[Paris13]

Me Neither. xx