Guys does it bother you when your girl needs a lot of work and extra time to finish?

I feel guilty for needing more time and effort than he does.
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  • Not generally no, but once in a while everyone wants a quickie.
    Lots of guys are happy to do the extra work to make sure their girl cums, me included.
    But if I were totally honest there are times when a quick bang is what we want.
    Its not that we don't want you to cum in those situations but sometimes time is at a premium.
    Take for example the morning pre work fuck.

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  • A lot of? 15 minutes or a couple hours? It’s not that it bothers me, but after a while my tongue gets tired. If you are having a hard time climaxing, perhaps you should do a lot more foreplay before sex. It’s also possible that watching porn may prepare you mentally for sex and get you closer.

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  • I bring her along with oral before I mount up.

  • She usually orgasms before I am ready to, but it doesn’t bother me if she needs more time and stimulation.

  • Nope, all part of the pleasure. I have to work to make her cum, so when it happens it feels great to know i'm bringing her pleasure

  • Nah. I'd see that as a challenge and, to quote Barney Stinson, "challenge accepted"

  • No; that's fine. That just means more time I get seeing her naked and playing with her.

  • I usually can make women cum pretty quickly but the extra effort doesn't bother me. At this point I just want a partner who won't make me want to feel like jumping off a cliff haha.

  • No not at all this why I learned the art of massageing an being able to touch them sensitive spot's that makes u wiggle so uncontrollably.
    God Bless

  • It wouldn't bother me aslong as she could guide me to help her get her off.

    I hate when girls assume a guy should know what get a girl buzzing.

    Like what parts of your body do you like being touch the most, do you like you ass spanked or grabbed soft or hard. Do you like you breasts sucked or played with, if so hard or softly.

  • no absolutely not. I'll take as much time as she needs. I don't always work like clockwork either and a good partner will be engaged and take the time to satisfy.

  • That’s more on him. Get a guy who knows

  • No not at all

  • No, not at all. That’s natural.

  • It’s fine. Won’t bother me

  • No, I don't mind at all. It is very often like that. Better for me, I have more to do 😅

  • girls always need more work... guys are fast... you can make it easier for him, learn your body... masturbate and experiment to find what works best for you, every girl is different, if you do Not know what works, how do you expect him to figure it out... after you know what's really you hot button... show him and act like a swimming coach... show him how to move in the DEEP WATER...

  • That is normal and part of the fun of sex is spending the time making her cum. Some women are lucky and cum easily and multiple times while many like you take a lot of time and effort. It's perfectly natural and normal. Any good man is happy to spend whatever time it takes to pleasure you.

  • Nah she deserves the attention

  • I like it lol
    Means ill do her longer time

    • Does your guy complain about it

    • He never complains but I worry that the work it takes for me will takeaway from his enjoyment.

    • No, tbh he can enjoy it more since you are eager for long time

  • Absolutely not! I actually prefer it! My favorite position is her thighs on my shoulders so I’ll stay here as long as it takes! It’s all about the journey, not the destination!

  • I make sure my girl cums once before we start sex and again at least once during sex.

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