Embarrassing myself? Have you ever?

Me and my husband (me 21 him 30) have been married a year and I seriously just begged him to have sex with me because we haven't in over a week. (He jerks off twice daily so he doesn't have low sex drive I think)
He yelled no and told me I made him feel shit about himself then stormed off. I feel so embarrassed and stupid..

Does anyone have to beg their husband for sex? Is this normal or am I in a sexless marriage one year in?
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  • I’m sorry but if my husband would rather wank that tap me I’d be extremely offended. If I were you I would tell him that straight. If he seems uninterested 1 he’s a cunt and 2 maybe try a different tactic?

    what about you pleasing yourself maybe even let him hear, give him a taste of his own medicine. Better yet do it next to him, touch yourself next to him while he’s going to sleep see what he does. If all of those fail I would swiftly kick him in the balls with as much force as I could muster and tell him to gtfo.

    on a serious note maybe try some of those, sorry to hear about this I really do wish you the best

    • I pleasured myself before sleeping while he was next to me a few times. He reacted the first 2 times then never after that. Might go for the kicking in the balls idea lol thank you

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  • That is kinda weird. He should want to have sex daily with you rather then jerking off. Yes all guys jerk off even in a relationship but it sounds like he is not really into sex. It will not get better until you two talk about it.

  • Your husband is acting like a woman, also why he married you if he prefer to jerks off.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AManIsAlwaysEager

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  • Why did he say that you made him feel shit about himself? Because you asked him to have sex?

    • Because I begged..

  • This is a horrible sign. At this point, he should still be slipping you the sausage at every opportunity.

  • It’s a very bad sign and probably indicates a problem with or that affects the relationship. If you can resolve the underlying problem and mend the relationship, the sex life should be healthy again.

  • Wow. What the hell is wrong with him?

  • He is an idiot

  • Ahh I’m sorry u have to deal with that. If u want or need someone to talk to, u can message me. 🙂

    • Thank you 😊

    • Sure, just hit me up or follow me

  • He should fuck you rather than wank maybe need go spice things up in bedroom might help

    • Any ideas?

    • Well sexy out fit or lingerie sex toys role play bdsm loads of things you can do

  • I `m really sorry for you. But why does he prefer jerking off instead of fucking you? I do not understand. I hope you at least have good toys 🙄 It's a shame

  • sounds like he may have issues, try to have a Calm, Quiet, Private discussion... NO blaming...

  • definitely not normal. You need to talk to him and ask why he is jerking off instead of screwing you. Twice a day when your available is a sign there is something wrong.

  • WTF is wrong with the guy

  • İs he have some kind of health issues? Because that is not normal, you need sex or course, every woman need that, that's why some women are cheating their husband, Sorry but if you don't fuck your wife someone will do that...

    • Not that we know of. Sometimes he can't keep it going other times he's rock solid the whole way through.

    • How you pleasing yourself if he don't have sex with you?

    • My toy has come in handy 👀

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  • I’m confused 🤔 why does he jerk off?

    • It's easier apparently

    • That’s incorrect

    • He said it's quicker because he doesn't have to put in as much effort (like turning me on/foreplay)

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  • Gay as hell

  • It seems he is not into you. Life is too short to be unhappy and treated the way he treats you. Plan your exit.