Do you prefer being dominant or submissive in bed? Why is that?

Do you prefer being dominant or submissive in bed? Why is that?
You have to choose either dominant or submissive. Also, please explain why you prefer whichever your preference is
Dominant
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Submissive
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Superb Opinion

  • It’s not just bed, it’s a lifestyle thing.

    I have tried a bit of sub with a partner and it was really bad lol, zero feedback for either of us.

    I have had a thing for being a Dom since young and it’s pretty much part of my character.

    Also being a Dominant is not just about control or being the Dominant person in bed, it’s being the anchor for them, that strong pillar in the turbulent waters of life, bring strong and firm for them and with them.

    it’s being that safe space, that pace of comfort, that place to find release.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I am the kind of dominant that loves to make a Woman take control as she doesn't even know that she is doing so.
    This is the best kind of dominant a Man can be because I am incontrol of u an ur incontrol of me an ur knowing so but ur body is doing things u just can't stop doing this might be hard to believe but u really need to come visit me just follow me an send me a Pm then ask me how u can have this happen to u.
    God Bless

Most Helpful Girls

  • I can't really vote on this one, cause the sex quiz I took said I'm 50/50 I like to switch from dominant to submissive.

  • I know I would be submissive, but I would really like to be a switch.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Dominant comes natural.
    i do admit on occasion I like taking on a more passive/submissive role when I want to relax, it feels like I’m being worshipped

  • Dominant, mainly because I trust myself more than I trust a female lead.

  • Virgin, but submissive, because I love the idea of a woman taking control, just sounds hot.

    • That's why u learn how to make her take control in such a way that she will not even know it. Once u learn the art of that she gonna love u in ways u haven't even thought of yet or might not ever until she shows u. Just remember that we all come out of a Woman an that's the way God intended it so let it be so. God Bless

  • Sub, and why? just my type I've always liked the crazy kinda girl who are way more open to making you get into things than you taking the lead. The kind who is more seductive and making her yours. Just hot no other words needed really.

  • I prefer being dominate but I do like to switch it up from time to time , just depends on what kind of girl I am with , I mainly like being dominate cuz it turns me on to make her cum , when I make her cum it’s the best feeling

  • See you forgot to add Both. I like switching between Dom and Sub

  • Submissive because it feels natural to me.

    • why do you think that is?

    • I have no idea

  • it depends on the person im with, If its a 6ft 5 hunky stud that is dominate af, I would love to be conquered by him in bed , If im dating a shy cute guy i will be dominate, Im 50/50 , However i perfer a parter that is dominate so i picked submissive

  • Dominant because that what my wife and myself like. I would never feel sincerely dominated by a female in bed.

  • submissive, because I'm not a beta cuck

  • I like both. like to mix it up. sometimes I like to take control and lay out a good fucking. recently my partner sat on my reverse cowgirl and jerked me off and I couldn't do anything about it. it was awesome 👌. loved that!

  • Dominant. Probably because of my past and my personality

  • I like both, but a dominant woman is a lot of fun, she knows what she wants... and tells me... no guessing

  • Switcher because I enjoy the variety tbh

  • they call me submissive the way im getting bred also i love her anythign seh does is perfect

  • option c) democratic

  • I only like dominant women who take what they want and make me service them, then beg and plead for any kind of release.

  • Depends on the day.

    • Which one do you tend to prefer more often?

    • It’s usually neither which is what I prefer. It really does depend on the mood and when it strikes though, as it will occasionally.