Do you think I'm a prude?

Im 18 and I've never gone on a date, had sex, kissed or partied. Its not that I don't want to do any of these things it just never really happened yknow. I mean I don't wanna hook up bc id feel awkward but if I was into someone and I'd known them for awhile I'd be down.

Ig what I'm trying to ask is would other people think I'm prude bc I'm inexperienced
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  • You're 18. I didn't start partying really until I started college. Didn't really kiss anyone until I was 19.

    That being said, you don't need to party or do any of that stuff if you don't want to. You're not a prude. Just do what you're comfortable with. Find friends that are the same. Have your own fun!

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  • You're basically still a kid! And only just now reaching the BEST PART of your life where all of those things will happen! Don't let yourself get bogged down in such trivial thoughts, just enjoy what you do, say yes to everything that won't harm you or conflict your morals, and in 10 years time you'll have had the best of it all and look back at this as a silly spot of mindspace in your life.

  • Being inexperienced has nothing to do with being a prude unless it's your choice to be that way. Being a prude means that you want nothing to do with sex unless MAYBE it's your decision to try to have a baby!
    Anyway, so far, I've spent the first 25 and the last 26 years of my life without a relationship!! NOT of my own choice!!

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  • Wait for the right guy at the right time in your life.

  • No you're not. Nothing wrong with being picky and waiting for it to be special. Don't let others pressure you. There's no hurry.

  • No rush. Get to it when you are ready.

  • You’re not a prude. Don’t let yourself feel pressure to do anything before you’re ready.

  • nah not a prude at all you just look for the right person

  • You are simply shy. You don't know how to get to the point of getting with the boy.

    Which is as easy as spending ALONE time with him, or the closest to that. And just keeping the interaction going till it happens naturally.

  • No its better that your not sleeping around. Just wait and when the time is right it will happen for you. Dont worry about it. Enjoy being single... while you can

  • No its ok same story here still didn't try anything but i really want to but i didn't have the chance maybe

  • That sounds perfectly reasonable and understandable

  • You're ok, you're still young and you can find someone you like to do those things.

  • No, I do not think so. Your life is only just beginning. Everyone has their own pace. At some point someone you like comes along who likes you and then it will happen. Don't worry about others. Live your life as you see fit.

  • Don't worry. I am 20 and my situation is same😂😂

  • no, everyone starts at the beginning, it's a very good place to start

  • Likely it'll happen before 25 for you

  • Men and women are the opposites in that regard. Guys get made fun of for being virgins and having no experience, but when girls your age tell guys that they haven't been sleeping around it's wonderful.
    Whenever guys hear an 18 year old girl bragging that she's had sex with a bunch of guys we cringe.