What do you do differently when you are making love versus using a woman for sex?

[Kitty_V]

[Anonymous]

A lot of differences.

foreplay : Longer and touches her from head to toe, where it isn’t then mainly touch her to get her off and also to enjoy the parts of her body I do.

Kissing : If it’s just sex then it’s once at the beginning of foreplay, before I insert and after it its over. In a love making it happens much more often.

Positions : Sex? Any position but mainly doggy. Love making usually in missionary.

Inserting : I push harder and deeper during sex as it’s for me to enjoy. Love making, usually it’s slowly and gently put into her and takes a while before it is fully inserted into her, she would also be kissed during the inserting and she may be held where in sex she won’t be held as I keep my hands by her hips.

Penetration and strokes: Mainly deeper and mixed strokes, mix of fast and slow. Sex usually long and deep strokes, will be fast.

After it is over : Sex. Cuddle for a while and that’s it. Love making, longer cuddles, some talking and usually sleep the night.

[AviatorTom]

When you make love, you take your time and do things that pleasure your partner as well as yourself. The goal is joint pleasure for both of you.

When you use a woman for sex, your selfish animal instincts kick in and all you care about is getting your rocks off. It doesn't matter what, if anything, the woman feels.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for the mho

[Snow-Man]

I'm usually in love with a woman that I have sex with so she gets the full range of sex.
We start out holding each other, touching, kissing and being affectionate.
I'm usually kissing her everywhere and loving her body before I fuck her good.

[jobego]

with love making i talk a lot more and tell her she's beautiful
with just sex i still make her feel good but don't really talk to her in a loving way

[Kitty_V]

That’s interesting

[jobego]

maybe i also put more feeling into the sex with love? I don't know i guess i can only compare it to a threesome with my ex and her friend my ex i gave more kisses and compliments and the friend i just did because she's hot and ate her out more

[Kitty_V]

Why did you eat her out more?

[jobego]

she had a better body and pussy tbh and she was someone i had never eaten out before so it was new

[Kitty_V]

How did your ex feel about that?

[jobego]

she was too busy with the other girl's boobs lol

[es20490446e]

I don't "use" women for sex. I treat each women kindly.

[Nigjt]

Well it's not what I'll do it's what she will do to make it feel different to us because if I have it my way I will make her take control of how we have sex or make love an show she will do this is very much with her body twisting an turning as it uncontrollably wiggles around for me while she also continues to quiver about in such a way.
God Bless

[Rudon00]

When I'm making love I engage in a session of foreplay to get her heavily aroused Before sex.

[LaMiSch]

Never have I ever used a woman for sex. Either it was love or we were both very horny for each other. But either way, I've always made sure that the woman can fully enjoy it.

[Waldoe]

when making Love you care about your partners enjoyment... if your using someone you only care about your own...