Would you want to fuck on the first date?

[HelenJacob]

[TheorionMage]

IF my Companion is of a like mind, ... is disease-free and responsibly in control of her fertility as she EXPECTS THE SAME of Me... that possibility exists.

NEVER FORGET what the root function of 'dating' IS.
It is underlain as a MUTUAL audition for a long-term commitment to 'pool' our resources to ease life's burdens, functioning as a 'mated pair'.

What distinguishes this relationship beyond and SINGULARLY ABOVE all others, is the intimate access to each's physiology potentially resulting in new life and the responsibilities this entails.

WOULD YOU and YOUR values MERIT a further interaction?

[AncientWisdom]

Most people do nowadays. Women know with in the first few seconds if they’d fuck you just like we do. They play a lot of games about it ( can’t really blame em for that tho) because of the stigma they face from others for being a hoe? If she don’t fuck you with in three dates ( with a very few exceptions ) she isn’t going to move on and find another they are virtually everywhere. Don’t pay attention to females with questions like this they will lie like a caught criminal on these subjects for the most part.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Hell no lol. I don’t put out easily. I gotta get to know the guy and actually have an emotional connection 🤷🏻‍♀️I date in hopes for long term relationships. Hooking up on the first date doesn’t give the right impression and we probably won’t last long term.

[DizzyDesii]

Would i want to? Yes. Would i allow myself to? Not a chance in hell. I've got too much respect for myself to buss it open that soon. Plus i hardly know the bastard. He ain't gettin none until we’re in love with eachother.

[Jamie05rhs]

I wouldn't even want to.

[DizzyDesii]

@Jamie05rhs normally i wouldn't want to, but there's such a thing as temptation that would cause me to “want to”. But having morals, not knowing his sexual history and not having that emotional bond would stop me

[Jamie05rhs]

Interesting. Okay. I just wouldn't even want to. I'm being completely honest. Maybe it's just because I'm a virgin; I don't know. If a girl tried to have sex with me, I would just be like "WHOAH! Hold up!! Wtf are you doing?"

[DizzyDesii]

@Jamie05rhs yea its a turnoff

[Honesttguy]

@Jamie05rhs if you wouldn't even want to then you're on date with wrong girl, simple. You're not attracted to her and you're wasting your time and hers. Walk away.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Honesttguy Not true, bro. Sex is a serious thing. I can't just have sex with someone "just like that" even if I am very attracted to them. I'm not an impulsive person. I don't move that quickly.

[VanessaSession]

Yes! Every time. It's the best part of the date. Plus, how would I even know if I want to go out with him again if the sex isn't good. It'd be a waste of both of our times if the sex wasn't good and we ended up going on 3 dates before doing it.

[MrNameless]

but people can improve over time with sex. Might just be getting to know what the partner likes. You wouldn't be patient with them?

[VanessaSession]

I've had enough sex to know if there's potential there. And if I happen to be wrong, in the time it would've taken for one guy to get better, I've been with enough guys to find one who can make me happy.

[MrNameless]

What positions get you off the most from a guy, Doggy and missionary?

[DaveJord]

If she's hot and sexy hell yes... but only if she is looking or wanting that. I would not push for it or expect it. But I would definitely want to... kinda checks off a lot of things really fast.

[wtf636]

If they are hot, and we had a good time. Sure why not?

[Little_Bumblebee]

No, I wouldn't be comfortable with that.

[Daniela1982]

If you do it wasn't a date, it was a hookup.

What Everrrr!

[jaybee281]

I'd have sex before the date itself if it was an option what is this question

[MsTaniaUncensored]

Sometimes. It depends on the chemistry.

[Lliam]

Sure. If we really hit if off and wound up having sex, it wouldn't diminish my respect for her at all. I wouldn't necessarily assume that she was promiscuous. She might just be really into me and have a strong libido. I'd have to assess that if we continued dating.

[Daniela1982]

Come on! Anyone who has sex on the first date weren't in it for the date, they were looking for a hookup.

[Lliam]

@Daniela1982. Whatever you say. I don't think it would necessarily preclude them from wanting to be in a relationship. And not everyone who wants a monogamous relationship is looking to get married. The idea that the only reason to seek a relationship is to find a marriage partner is absurd. If that was the case, then only married people would ever have sex.

[Daniela1982]

Well that would solve the creation of millions of single mothers every year.

[Lliam]

@Daniela1982. Some people have heard of contraception.

[Daniela1982]

You can't be seriously saying that when the million teens who get pregnant every year have heard of it but don't bother using it. How many times here have you heard people say they like it raw without a condom and then ask if they can get pregnant. * shakes head*

[Lliam]

@Daniela1982. You are making a straw man argument.

[Daniela1982]

Bah! Humbug!

[nachosaresexy]

*want* to? Yeah hopefully, since that would mean the date is going really well.

But actually try to make that happen? Nah bruh. Good stuff is worth waiting for.

[OlderAndWiser]

Physically, it might feel great, but I am dating to find a long term partner and I don't want a promiscuous partner, so if a girl offered me sex on the first date, I would probably be disappointed.

[Daniela1982]

But. . . would you turn it down?

[OlderAndWiser]

@Daniela1982 It would sound very lofty to say 'of course, I'd turn it down,' but I'm not really sure what I would do. I have turned down sex when a married woman offered it to me, because married people are off limits. If I had not had a sexual partner in several months, I might cave in to weakness. The kind of women who I saw on first dates (I'm in a relationship now and out of circulation) were not the kind that i would expect to offer sex on a first date.

[Daniela1982]

Good answer. :)

[MCheetah]

Nah. That's a bit too extreme. I love the T-shirts, though.

[Mango-man]

No, I date for long term relationship, not for flings.

[dustybiker]

It happens. Not exactly something planned.

[PinkMichae]

If it feels right then to me days don't matter. The man I've been with for almost 7 years now started as just a hookup. But the passion and chemistry was so strong we couldn't help but fall in love.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I appreciate the offer but my G/F might have something to say about that!

[Mandylynn]

Depends... most of the time I fuck on the first date but with my hubby we waited for like the 3rd or 4th date

[Roguehoneylife]

I have and it usually just turned into fuck buddys or I never talked to them again

[melanieeeB]

Nope

[Lyndsielee666]

Guess it depends who we’ll I know the person and if we talked for a while previously.

[Adam1978]

Maybe but that would also mean she isn't girlfriend and relationship material. But I would probably just reject her and end the date. Women don't sleep with the man you want on the first date. Your are just increasing your odds for failure.