Have you ever got Molested/ Abused while Growing Up?

[priyakigaandme]

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes, at least twice.
First two times by my next door neighbor. I was about 14. Not long after, I was sleeping on the front porch swing when I felt someone bump the swing. Whhen I woke up, some guy was standing directly above me beating ooff!!
Then, in the early `80's, I started seeing this Dr. at a church in the same room as the day care center. I had a terrible case of zits and he kept having me come in for a semi-weekly update on the condition but kept checking my nuts! I think he got off by touching my nuts!! The first 2 times, okay but after 3 or 4? Something''s not right here!! I wish I could get that much attention from girls!!

[priyakigaandme]

@funkymonkee Yeah But when you was 14 then it was not like a Molestation or abuse type !

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, it was! He took me up to his room, pulled down his pants, made me pull mine down and play with his dick while he played with mine!

[priyakigaandme]

@funkymonkee how old your Neighbor was? did you tell someone about it? You may follow me, I can PM you !

[FunkyMonkee]

I'd have to guess he was at least in his late 20's to early 30's. He was living with his mother. I don''t know for sure but I suspect it was him that was on the porch beating off and that, had I not awakened, he might've tried to blow his load on my face, or something. As it was, he shot it on the wall behind the swing. By the time I woke up enough to see what was going on, he'd pulled up his pants, jumped over the railing and dashed off around the side of the house! As far as I know, I never mentioned the porch incident but I could have. I know I said nothing about the molestation until about 10 years ago when I found out that he also got my brother and one of my sisters! I DID tell a friend about it, though, maybe 8 years later, and we had a good laugh about it when I told him that this guy said he wanted to become a priest!! My friend said, "THAT figures!".

[GoPhuckYaself]

no, and thats not possible either, because if a woman "molested me" i would of liked it... and since i like it, its not considered molestation or abuse,
i wish a woman "molested me" when i was younger lol, i remember jus sitting around in my room thinking about my teacher for hours lol, unfortunately nothing ever happened :(

but maybe a male could molest me, although i wouldn't really care cos i dont really have feelings or care about anything, so it wouldn't bother me, even tho im not gay, i simply wouldn't care

[priyakigaandme]

@gophuckyaself You wanted to get molested by a woman when you was younger? its kind strange !! I got abused when I was young by a woman !

[GoPhuckYaself]

yeah but it wouldn't be called molest if i like it, but a innapropriate touching lol

[GoPhuckYaself]

oh, why didn't u liked it? was she ugly?

[priyakigaandme]

Noops, she was not ugly but I didn't like it for other reasons, You may follow me, I can PM you

[KrisPW]

A few inappropriate hands here and there, but nothing traumatic or hurtful.

[priyakigaandme]

@krispw You know ALL HANDS are Innocent 😂

[KrisPW]

I didn't even think about it when I was younger. Now that I'm older, I recognize some things probably weren't so innocent, but while not right, also didn't get to the point of harming me.

[Mikeybear]

@priyakigaandme @krispw Once when I was younger, I fell asleep in a change room, and felt this hand down there.

[elizamichale1]

Yes got raped and abused by a group of men

[priyakigaandme]

Sorry to hear !

[elizamichale1]

thanks honey... but well it was pretty painful both emotionally and physically

[whosnumber1]

omg! I can't imagine! love to you!

[shroomerite]

Yeessir, molested by a “family friend” when I was 4. This piece of shit was staying w/ my family for a bit because he was one of my dads best friends.
I know it happened 4 or 5 times while he lived w/ us.
Then: that friend went back to CA, didn’t live w/ us again until a couple years later. Luckily he never did anything to me that 2nd time he stayed w: us but he was an extreme asshole while he was around. My dad eventually told him he couldn’t stay w/ us anymore because the friend was literally just being a lazy piece of shit all day instead of finding a fucking job.


When I was 20, my mom told me that friend was coming to visit and i just did not want to see his face ever again so that's when I stopped being afraid to speak up. I told her what he did when I was younger and she took my side (as any mother should do)
That same day, my mom and I told my dad and brothers about what happened and guess what the fuck we find out? My oldest brother was also molested by that low life piece of shit.
My dad was so shocked he almost didn’t wanna believe it because it was his “best friend”. [he cut the friend off completely though so that’s all that mattered to me]
Am glad I spoke up though, I always hated how uncomfortable and scared I’d feel whenever I’d have to see him during family visits to CA.
Thank fuck I’ve never had to feel that way ever again after finally telling my parents.

[Oigit]

Yes at the age of 6.

[whosnumber1]

I can't imagine. love to you brotha

[ushagomez]

Nothing bad, just naughty hands

[dustybiker]

Attempted. I was young and defended myself, he then went after others. I heard he had his own children taken from him by the state.

[Lyndsielee666]

Unfortunately

[priyakigaandme]

Was that person your Kin? or in school?

[Lyndsielee666]

My moms boyfriend, best friend in second grade, boyfriend when I was 17

[scooogy]

@lyndsielee666 so child-on-child abuse in second grade?

[Lyndsielee666]

@scooogy she was in fifth but yes.

[scooogy]

@lyndsielee666 did you meet her again afterwards?

[Lyndsielee666]

@scooogy we were still friends for a while cause I didn’t know she was molesting me

[scooogy]

@lyndsielee666 did she do it more than just once?

[Lyndsielee666]

@scooogy she did indeed. Said we were playing house.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Yes! Some therapy helped and i am over it.

[Agape93]

*hug*

[Jaximus-Lion]

@Agape93 awww 🥰 thank you.

[Agape93]

If you ever need to talk I'm here hon

[Jaximus-Lion]

@Agape93 very kind of you. I worked a lot on my mental health. It's pretty stable now. Very sweet gesture of you

[Agape93]

:) I'm glad you're better now

[whosnumber1]

love to you brotha.

[Jaximus-Lion]

@whosnumber1 thanks, much appreciated 🥰

[Sevenpointfive]

no, but i did save my sister from being abducted for a sex ring at the age of 11

[Stoner710]

Abused yes hence why I’m adopted, I was left outside to sleep with dogs in the winter, I was beaten when I was hungry locked in the car at 105° weather for 6 hours and was never fed or bathed when I got to my adopted mothers house the water turned black because I was so dirty

[josephinelcajon]

Never! Most naturalist are not they are less interested and far more aware!

[Razp_Sorbet]

I've been groped multiple times in public.

[Singlebimom]

Sad wow

[elizamichale1]

@Singlebimom well being groped is something pretty common these days tbh

[helva]

Happy this did not happen.

[Shaggy_KW]

Nope

[cth96190]

Yes, probably more than most.
At the age of three the homosexual next door began to molest me. He made a BDSM game out of it, which might explain why I like BDSM so much.
That went on for years.
At the age of 10 the same queer and two of his friends began to sodomise me. That went on for a few years, until I realised what was going on and said 'no'.
At the age of 16, while I was on work experience, the manager of a radio station drugged and raped me.
None of this was complained about by me at the time.
Why?
Because I was bullied to relentlessly at school and by my psychotic father (Korean War PTSD, among other things) that I was so used to being mistreated in all manner of ways that being gangbang arse raped was just another day at the office.
I had also been groomed since the age of three.

[XXblack88]

No thankfully

[Subarugirl]

yeah, I was sexually abused by a few different people, and experienced physical, mental and emotional abuse at the hand of my mother

[whosnumber1]

love to you

[Subarugirl]

@whosnumber1 thank you but I don’t want love I want justice and accountability

[whosnumber1]

I would too! I can give is a virtual hug and someone who will listen if you ever want to talk

[elizamichale1]

oh gosh i am so sorry to hear n yes i do wish u get ur justice and very very soon was it your step mother though

[Subarugirl]

@elizamichale1 no it wasn’t, my biological parents never divorced, they are still together

[elizamichale1]

Oh my goshh then how could she have the heart to abuse u

[Subarugirl]

@elizamichale1 In her mind it was discipline and she was doing what she thought was best

[elizamichale1]

Oh i have heard few of such incidents n i always felt so sad n thought how could they... U never reported her?

[Subarugirl]

@elizamichale1 I was a child.. no I didn't. I didn't have the resources to be able to even if I knew how.

[elizamichale1]

Oh myy I am sooo sorryy honey Have u at least made her realize now

[Subarugirl]

@elizamichale1 yeah she is aware

[elizamichale1]

Better then

[call_me_scar]

Not really but I feel asleep to the sounds of people arguing every night which definitely is not healthy

[ZooLander1]

No. It must be hard to have that happen to you as a child and i feel for anyone that has.

[priyakigaandme]

Yes it was hard but due to some circumstances I felt more upset when I grew up little older !

[ZooLander1]

As we get older we think about things too much and as children we are more carefree and get on with things a lot better than we do later in life.. i think so anyway. Im sorry for your pain and i hope you can heal and move on with your life

[priyakigaandme]

Yes being a small boy I didn't get what was happening with me, I didn't feel okay even then but after 3-4 years I got to know that it was a Pure Abuse/Molestation !

[DaveToo]

Got my first blowjob when I was 10.

[AndrésC64]

Yes I was.

[priyakigaandme]

how old was you then? In school, home?

[AndrésC64]

If you are speaking strictly sexually then it happened at home. If you're talking about abused / bullied then it happened at home and to school. The sexual stuff happened when I was elementary school or maybe younger. The other stuff happened later.

[Jessicajochen]

No thank god