A boy has crush on me he said that I want to loose my virginity with you, Need help ?

He lives in my neighbourhood. He texts me everyday and says that he likes me but most of the time his conversations are related to Sex and asking about my virginity... He said that he wants to have sex with me. I denied him clearly... but I am afraid that he could rape* me? HOW should I deal with him?
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  • Get your parents involved if you have any fears of rape. No point handling it yourself, you're young and vulnerable on your own.
    If he can't accept that you don't want him, but persists to talk, tell him once more and if he doesn't leave you alone block him and tell your parents so that you can safe

  • you need to publicize this make it known that you are not interested in him. you need to stop talking to him. use the phrase "do not contact me!!!"

    do not talk to him. be very clear and verbal that you don't like him and you will never have sex with him.

    • do you have any updates on this?

    • I have blocked him forever and will never talk to him again and will nver meet him in alone place

    • ok good for you. 😘 be safe!

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you have told him NO!!! And he still keeps asking and pressuring you to have sex. My advice is to RUN! Drop him like a bad habit now before its to late. You deserve someone who respects you and what you decided

    • Great advice the guy shouldn't push a girl into sex it should be when she is ready

  • If he is over 18, block his number, tell your parents and they will call the police. Under 18. Block his number, tell your parents and then they will talk to his parents

    • He is 21

    • Yeah. Go to your parents asap.

    • ^^^This!

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  • How well do you trust him? sounds like not at all, so he isn't just a friend.

    If your friends, and you trust him he might just be stating something to see if you are interested.

    If your not friends and I don't think you are, you should probably block his texts, or at least not respond to any of them. That way they are there as a legal record if police need to get involved.

    Talk to your parents, let them know what he is doing and you are afraid. Since he hasn't technically done much of anything there may not be much anyone can do, but someone, could talk to his parents about it and they may have no idea he is even doing this.

    • He is not my friend.. .. His sister is my friend they live near my house..

  • I'm sure he wants to have sex and masturbation, while fun is not the same thing. If he brings it up again look him in the eye and state very clearly that NO means NO.

  • He only wants sex. You are right to reject him. If he harasses you, report him to the police. Also, tell your parents.

  • Don't be alone with him ever. If you are afraid someone is going to rape it's not a good idea to remain in contact.

    • I mean he has so keen desire to have sex with me.. I have no idea what he may do

    • Then why talk to him. That is pretty moronic


  • Wow you don't but please be careful don't turn your back on him

    Really hope he all talk no bite

  • talk to you Mother... NOW

  • Block his number and quit talking to him. Totally distance yourself from him.

  • Stay away from him and his male friends. DO NOT be alone with him or them. Be sure to carry something to defend yourself, and make sure to let him know to leave you alone and you in no way want him,

  • Dont meet him im weird places

    • Tbh care from him

  • U should tell your parents for your safety

    • But my parents would get furious

    • Well i think they should know to take care of you.. Your parents are ur friends, u can tell anything i think

    • And u shouldn't talk to him anymore

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