Ladies, you been there. A guy wants to have sex. Nothing wrong there. He ask to hook up. So he is asking permission and consent, which is good, but HOW does he do it? The delivery of his question might be the difference between a yes or a no. He has to ask confidently, or he might appear timid and be refused. On the other hand, if he is too pushy, or even crude, he might even get the shit smacked out of him. So, if a random guy approached you at a party, even if you said no, what is the most respectful and confident way to ask?