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Would it be weird to ask this guy to put his finger on my butt?

My ex did it for the first time & I shockingly liked it. Now I want my new boyfriend to do it he already licks the inside of my ear and stuff. if most guys like doing this then should I ask him when I’m riding him from the front or when i’m facing backwards so he can easily do it.
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i meant to say * in LOL and also anal is not in mind for me i would never. maybe once if i ever get married
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he said yes , also anal is marriage material stuff 😂 but i would never have my butthole be spread that’s nasty. i thought about it longer lol.
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  • Yes, you definitely should. But know if you ask a guy to stick his finger in your ass, he is already mapping out in his head how he is going to get anal out of it. But heterosexual guys like anal sex with women, and they like ass play on women... so yes fingering the sphincter is super hot.

    If you want him to lick your ass then shower with him better moving to the bed room so he know your clean down there... I mean when you do oral sex your practically licking her ass anyway... well if you are doing it right we are talking centimeters to millimeters away form the brown eye. But a shower is always preferred before oral... but that might just be me... I am sure some guys don't give a shit.

    But if your not into anal sex, meaning penis in your ass, then I would leave it alone.

Most Helpful Guy

  • No, I like doing that when a lover is just at the peak of her orgasm. It's what Cajun's might call a lagniappe. One way to get his to do it would be to do it to him just as he cums and if he enjoys it- and it's definiteky an erogebous zone though some guys can be weird about butt stuff. If nothing else maybe some anal beads lying aroubnd in a noticeable and handy place might help. You might want to try this as I'cve had good results with it. I often keep a glass that has ice cubes in it (sioftened a bit over time) and when a lover is peaking during her orgasm will slide a couple in her pussy and a couple more in her ass. It's taken a perfectly good orgasm and made it intense. The combination of body heat in those areas along with the chill of ice can be intersting

Most Helpful Girl

  • Ask for it while you’re on your back getting oral sex. My boyfriend has been anal fingering me for about two years now.

    • omg i forgot about that yess

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • When he's fingering you, just take a finger or two and move them up you ass.

    • i dont finger myself

  • It is not weird at all. I also like a finger in my butt when having sex. Sometimes my wife will give me a handjob (with some lube) and gently massage my prostate during the handjob. I get incredible full body orgasms.

  • Not weird at all. Probably best to be specific about not wanting full anal, just a little finger play around the butthole. My wife does not specifically ask for it, but when I eat her pussy I usually put a (very wet) small finger on and eventually a little bit inside her butthole. Sometimes she only wants her pussy eaten, but her orgasms are stronger when she is stimulated anally as well.

  • Nah, been asked that before, and I always do it.

  • Ask him, I bet he will get on board.

  • oh I'd get you to give up your anal virginity for sure, I can already tell you're into freaky guys like me.

  • no. but make sure stuff is clean. poopy smell fingers aren't sexy.

  • On or in your butt?

    • Both feel nice

  • No, not at all. If it turns you on, than I would do it.

  • Nope

  • I would ask if he's interested in playing with your ass first. Ear and asshole are very different.

    • they are.. and i know i’m just saying he’s the minor things he does he does a lot more lol

  • I don't do finger to ass, or mouth to ass, sorry

  • I love doing it. I also love to massage her asshole with my thumb while I'm doing doggy

    • apparently someone doesn't like their butthole rubbed

  • Ask away.

  • No not weird at all! Ask him

  • No not weird at all. Have had a few women request it in the moment, during oral or doggy style.

  • Easiest way is to take initiative yourself. When your boyfriend rides you, finger his ass. His reaction will show if he does it to you.

  • Ask him, im Sure he has no Problems with that. 😁🤪

  • you do not get what you want.. unless you ask for it... no one will read you mind... this applies to all areas of you life... a Raidse at work, a promotion, and 2nd piece of pie... "ask and you shall recieve"

  • Nope.

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