Do you care if your partner has had sex with someone else in the past before they were with you?

It shouldn't matter but knowing your partner has had sex with someone else before you sort of leaves me feeling uneasy. Probably more so my ego. I'd probably rather not know either way.
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  • This is part of life you better accept it now because you always think about it and never be happy three questions on here I have learned that many guys has the same question and I think it's because they feel they're in competition with the girls ex-partner and that's so stupid they think about it because they're afraid of their dick size and maybe the partner had a bigger dicks in them and when I say all the time to eat worried about this crap could be time you could be learning how to use it no matter what size it is

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  • Nope it’s the past, I don’t care if she’s had 1 or 100.

    it’s the present that counts, how things are with the person you are with.

    also she could say 2 and it could be 200 but you would never know unless she said.

    also it would be bloody hypocritical if I was concerned about it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, I'm certainly not a virgin, so don't expect them to be either... And the past is the past... I'm more concerned with if they're having sex in the present with others while having sex with me. That I don't do, I don't cheat, and I don't share dick with others... If I'm not enough, than they can keep it moving...

    • Exactly, bbb. :-)

    • @Lliam thanks 😊

  • No. At 30 I expect it. At 16 I cared a lot (though even then I was realistic enough to know that the hot guy I was crushing on had probably messed around with somebody else before).

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  • I personally don’t care because I have myself a valuable partner that sees me as more of a potential than his past partners. I fit his lifestyle and that’s why he even budged to date me.

  • Mine did and I didn't care in the absolute slightest. The way I see it, I have them now so their partner couldn't have been that great to begin with.

  • I don’t care that my partner has had sex with someone before me, but deep down I know I would probably compare myself to them in a moment of insecurity.

  • I care in such a way that I want him to have closer to my number of partners, otherwise guys tend to have issues that I have more than he does. At least historically for me.

  • Basically like every adult has had sex. It is a natural, normal part of life. So no...

  • No, she told me that I'm bigger than any she's had and I know how to please her with it. No worries there. She also said that she's in love with the guy that comes with the dick. No worries there either.

  • No not at all! Whatever his past included it was before I was with him so it is not an issue.

  • I couldn't care less. The past is the past. I don't need a resume to assess her character and personality. I never asked a woman's body count and none ever asked mine.

    People live their lives, have fun, make mistakes, and gain experience along the way.

    I prefer someone who loves life and celebrates her sexuality.

  • I will be 67 years old next week. What are the odds I would find a partner who has never before had sex, but she wants to have sex with me?

  • Hopefully she did a good job training him…

  • His sexual past & body count doesn't matter to me.
    Our togetherness in the present & future and his agreement with me regarding this are what counts.

  • Our pasts are our pasts... no big deal.

  • Their past made them who they are in the present. Get tested, nothing else should matter. in my opinion

  • At your age it is all but guaranteed.

  • Yes, I care about if she is a slut or not.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyGirlIsNotASlut

    • Having sex makes a woman a slut? You're 34, are you a virgin? If not, does that make you a slut?

  • I mean it bugs me but I’m 29 years old. Can’t really expect to find a Virgin, especially when I’m not one myself lmfao

  • No you can't expect to get a virgin unless your like 15 yourself.

  • 🤔Why would finding out she has a sex drive bother you?🧐

  • Honestly if my partner is and has always been safe when it comes to sex , I don't really care if he's been with a community before me🤷‍♀️

    • so long as he knows that when he gets with me he can't fool around , I'm honestly open to breaking things off then cheating.

  • Everyone has a past.

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