Have you ever revealed a sexual kink to a partner? How did it go?

[LivAndLearn]

[ChrisMaster69]

A couple of times yes.

bring in a lifestyle BDSM relationship is very much a show and tell thing.

with you each openly talking about what your likes are, limits and boundaries.

with my current girlfriend, I was not actually thinking of dating her etc and assumed she would just be a running Buddy.
This meant I opened up to her a bit more, we chatted about BDSM, about previous GFs, having a dungeon in last house, various kinks etc. all this time she was just a girl I went jogging with.

she then asked if I wanted to go on a date, which sort of means she knew all or nearly all my kinks before dating lol.

@livandlearn what about you?

[LivAndLearn]

I've dated a few guys where I told them my kink was rough sex and bdsm. But they were not into it and eventually we would break up because we were too different for each other

[ChrisMaster69]

@livandlearn yes that is fairly common where a sub or Dom even, has a partner not in to BDSM or not in to rough sex or the more edge part of BDSM that is needed to get release. Going from BDSM to vanilla is a bit of a challenge. I don’t think many people realise how big the need can be.

[ChrisMaster69]

@livandlearn thank you for MHG, most appreciated.

[Dez_37_46]

My kink is wearing lingerie. I’ve been open about it with all of my partners since I was in my late teens. I’ve had the full spectrum of reactions ranging from disgust and being called faggot, to enthusiastic support and encouragement. My policy is to be honest with the people that I’m that close too, and I didn’t want anyone to find out by surprise. It’s not for everybody, but it makes me feel sexy.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I accidentally figured out my kink while with my boyfriend😳
We were kissing and he put his hand around my neck. Definitely wasn’t expecting to feel my stomach explode with butterflies. He understood it once he saw my reaction lol.

[LivAndLearn]

Yesss!

[DizzyDesii]

I jokingly ask about it. If they say no/hell no/hell nawl/ew/um what or any negative shit then i know not to ever bring it up to them seriously. I can live without it so we may still have a chance of being sexually compatible

[minu1234minu]

Would you mind messaging me to tell me your kink?

[Shy80sgirl]

My husband told me a while back that he wanted me to pet him. I think he was trying to spice up our sex life, which is something I’m trying to work on right now because my libido is seemingly nonexistent. We did do the act, and he did enjoy it,

[ChrisMaster69]

@shy80sgirl Pet or Peg?

[Shy80sgirl]

@ChrisMaster69 peg, sorry

[ChrisMaster69]

@shy80sgirl I had visions of him getting a tummy rub and pats to the head.

[CubaPirate]

@ChrisMaster69 LMFAO. Me too

[OlderThanILook]

Not with a partner, but I told some girls once. They laughed. Now that shit is under the highest level of security. Not even Batman can get this info out of me.

[OmegaSTC]

What is it

[slatyb]

We’re married now.

[anon1903]

Boys are usually thrilled to hear about my kinks. My partner? Not so much.

[My-lover]

If i could ask what are they and why is that mate your partner isn't intrested?

[jobego]

yea i revealed a kink and she got pretty weird about it
never again lol

[elizamichale1]

yea many times n we tried it n enjoyed it hehe
we are pretty open to enjoy n try each other's fantasies

[Kabluie]

It always had gone well. There are surveys you can both take too, and can share results kind of thing, and that can boost some confidence of talking about kinks or things both may want to try.

[Danny_dan92]

Yep. Each one. And good

[Subarugirl]

Yes, it went fine even though that interest was not mutual

[Massageman]

A minor one. Minor disaster.

[VikingWarLord]

I let them reveal their deepest darkest kinks first.
I've found that over 90% of these Heauxs have raape or abduction fantasies.

[Desconhecida]

Yes. The entire list.

[Wise4myage]

Yes I have.

[Naughtyboy71]

Very lucky the partner helped worked out good

[FadoraTheExplorer]

Well with my ex he got excited.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I have a few times. Quite well! Anal penetration took a lot of negotiating, and so I finally got it!

[Nigjt]

Well it's like this all the one's that I have an wanna try are all good so I my self stop worrying about my sexual kink's because what I thought I know just wasn't an them they started asking me to do these other one's now my mind is a lot bigger.
God Bless

[LegendaryIcon]

Nope

[Honestguyopen]

Yes. She just listened.

[OddBeMe]

Not well. My wife allowed me to give her a facial and it took hours for us to comb that shit out of her hair.
Anal didn’t go well either.