You are overthinking this.
First, yes, he is a teenaged boy and he has a natural instinct to want sex. That is a given.
However, that does NOT, by any stretch, mean that if you sit on his lap you will have sex. Because that is up to YOU.
Odds are, first of all, he may not even be aware that he is seeking something sexual. Yes, yes, teen boys want sex. However, they also want closeness, friendship, companionship and - for lack of a better term - connection. He may want that as well and he may NOT be starting looking for sex but if you sit on his lap he may head in that direction.
Guess what? It does not matter. Because only YOU get to decide if and when you have sex. Even if he asks or "makes a move" you can say no. You can say it harshly - which will have bad implications likely for your relationship - or you can say no kindly - with understanding and explaining that you are just not ready yet.
To take something as simple as sitting on your boyfriend's lap at turn it into sex will only deprive you of a lot of life. To borrow from Freud, "sometimes a cigar is just a cigar."
Instead of fretting about whether sitting on your bfd's lap is sexual, just experience life with a young man you care about. Just enjoy his company and draw and re-draw the lines as you go.
Who knows? He may just be a high school bfd, or he may end up being your husband and the father of your children. There is no way to know as you start out. The best advice though, instead of writing scenarios in your head, follow an old bit of advice - "Participate rather than anticipate."
At the risk of this being wrong since I don't know your age but:
The odds that he wants you are overwhelmingly likely. That is sort of part of the being a couple mechanic.
The odds that he will want you while you're on his lap? It could be. Could be he just likes being near you.
Wanting someone does not mean having to have them right away. He can want you and still not do anything. When I was a kiddo we had two months as about a commonly accepted timeframe for when a relationship was serious. Nowadays I don't care about timeframes much. But bullet point is even if he wants you or you want him you can still choose to do nothing.
Most boys in high school will get a Boner when you sit on his lap. It’s all just part of the fun but it doesn’t mean that you guys are going to end up having sex. That is a totally different decision. Go for it and try sitting on his lap, just make sure that if he gets any ideas that you are not happy about you politely tell him no.
and let us know how it goes.
Do you want to have sex with him? If not or you aren't comfortable with it then tell him you are not ready. A decent guy will respect that. If he pushes or can't respect your wishes then it is a huge red flag
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It probably will... don't do it if you're uncomfortable with it yet.
It's very likely to happen.
Are you referring to video games or kinky roll play? He might get hard either way, but being nude might increase the likelihood of a🦴-er🤤.
He's a teenager, of course he wants to have sex with you. Don't rush into anything.
If he's your age he will get a bone and want sex if you're willing, or whatever he can get, like feeling you up.
Uh yeah, probably.
Fucken children smh
he wants to have sex with you without you sitting on his lap.
It’s ok to sit on his lap, just let him know you will not be taking your clothes off with him rn. Tough to have sex with your clothes on
Lol yeah, probably. (Regarding the boner part. I can't really say whether or not he will try to have sex with you, since I don't know the guy.)
Duh, ya think?
Just because might give him a boner doesn't mean he'll want sex
sit on his lap and when he gets a hard on just move around on his lap until he gets off and it will be okay...
No worries he probably already wants sex with you so no difference if you sit on his lap
if he doesn't, something's wrong
I think its fine as long as u do nothing
It probably will give him a boner , but if you set a boundary it won’t lead to sex
He probably would
Yes he will any weight on lap could cause a boner
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