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Why do some people want threesomes, open relationships, or go to brothels?

For me I just want one partner and that is my boyfriend. Any other man or woman would gross me out I just love him but maybe it’s because I’m demisexual 😂? My bf’s probably not demisexual but he says that he would never want to do a threesome or even have a bachelor’s party. I don’t really understand this new generation I feel like the world has become really sex obsessed and it’s harder to find true love nowadays because of that that’s pretty sad.
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  • When I was in my 20s and thought I was all that. And had many fantasies about having a 3sum. And I live in Nevada Reno. And we have brothels the first time I went I was 17 . and for me and my friends we paid 20. To 30 dollars it was fun. For awhile. but once we started going to clubs and we could hey laid for free it was better. And I can tell you this on the 3sum a good friend of mine and I were talking about it one night. probably about six months later. She and one of her friends came over to my house true.
    Are we had a threesome. Half way through it realized I'm a 1 woman at a time kinda guy. The moment you start getting into it with whatever the other one pulled you off the other one and I thought that you suck. So all I can say is that I understand and I respect the way you are and what you're thinking and you're a girl and see how young you are and you already have it together I didn't realize all the above until I was way over or maybe I did I just didn't listen to myself there's nothing wrong with what you want I think it's a beautiful thing

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  • I wouldn't ever share my partner with someone else, but I have done a threesome with another couple.
    Basically she wanted to do it because she wanted 2 dicks in her and it was as simple as that.
    Open relationships I don't really understand, why even have a relationship why not just sleep around and stay single.

Most Helpful Girls

  • We are ok with a threesome, but not actively seeking it. We are poly because we realize that it's just impossible to completely fulfill every thing the other desires. It doesn't mean I have any less feelings for my partner and most times I'm not even looking for sex. I just want certain parts of a relationship my partner can't do. It would be the same for them too.

    • Like what parts? If I could ask maybe?

    • She is good with the idea of sex with a man and has done so in the past. I'm not into guys that way. I crave affection and certain kinds of experiences based around that. Downside is, most want sex from that and I'm not interested. Want a cuddle buddy and someone to just talk to and have sort of the whole girlfriend experience (minus sex)? I'm your girl and it doesn't matter what your gender is.

  • Because we feel secure enough to try it with the one we love and trust. And at it turns out... Wet both think it's hot and fun. It is just yet another way to please each other.

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  • I have no idea. Some people are just gross like that.

  • I have tried a threesome, but I don’t “want” Or need them. I have a soul mate relationship with my fiancée and the both of us want it to be just the 2 of us. We were happy to have an intimate experience with a friend of ours , maybe because it was it was a unique situation that we didn’t seek out.
    I don’t think all of these situations you mentioned can be characterized as sex crazed or slutty.

  • Yeah it seems like that but I just focus on myself

  • Some people are hedonist and others monogamous in their sexual appetites.

  • What is "demisexual"?

    • Demisexual people only feel sexually attracted to someone when they have an emotional bond with the person. ... The prefix “demi” means half — which can refer to being halfway between sexual and asexual.

  • Because Monogamy is NOT natural for humans.
    Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan.
    This will open your mind.

  • In the last chapter of a LDR I had, I suggested an open relationship, because my now LD ex and I were not clicking sexually, after 3 years. Days later, the relatiin ended. Do I regret it? That was after a first breakup, months back. I just didn't have the courage to end things definitively.

  • Because they don't value monogamy like we do.

  • They value sex over a loving relationship

  • Ok I have always loved the one I am with at twenty I had four girls on the go and Loved or lusted them all.

  • I did want a threesome a couple times. Never materialized. Don't get the rest.

  • Because monogamy is boring

  • Well, it is fun

  • I hear you

  • I don't know it's kind of retarded and defeats the purpose of a relationship

  • Beacaue they are fools.

  • I think maybe they just want an experience or to fulfill their desire.

  • My guess is you lost your virginity at 16

    • Nope much later than that

    • I assume then 18 or 19

  • my guess is, you lost your virginity at 17

    • No I didn’t

  • Threesoms idea came from porn and brothels existed even 10,000 years back as well and it was those who can't control their hormones or desires

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