Although I see the logic in this idea, and I've heard about it a lot, I would worry that you might later regret that decision. If you were just some random guy who wanted to sleep with a prostitute I mean that's one thing, still not great. But being a virgin and doing it to get rid of your virginity I think will make you feel sorry you did that later on.
I completely get your standpoint of wanting to have sexual experience and know how to please a woman, but it's not entirely hopeless for you to find a girl who will be okay with your virginity. And honestly, 28 is not that bad. I've heard of guys supposedly in their 40s who are still virgins, and that's not so good.
I don’t want to do it for losing my virginity but for getting the experience. There might be some girls who are OK with me being a virgin, but wouldn’t most of them be more comfortable with someone who already has experience?
@josajo You're always going to have the girls out there who prefer experienced men, but that doesn't mean they'll be the only ones you ever meet. And honestly? You shouldn't really try to get involved with those kinds of girls. You need to meet ones who don't have an issue with your inexperience and who don't mind working with you on it. I know it might seem like they don't exist, but they really do.
@josajo Bravo! 👏🏾
Dude it depends on many factors, you should be careful with your decisions because you might regret in the future. I'm not going to be the moralist kind a guy who tells that pay for sex is wrong, if you feel like this is not a big deal then go for it. But the fact that you're asking this question makes me believe that you're at least a bit uncomfortable with your situation.
First of all, why did you remain virgin until now? Was it because of religious beliefs? Do you struggle to be social? Are you somewhat awkward towards women? Do you have a low sexual market value and hence you can't get a woman? Before you go for a hooker, you should try to analise why you let thing go on this way in your life.
I don't really see a problem on paying to learn how to have sex, however, if you don't go deep on the reason why you need to pay for that, you might be doomed to pay forever and this is not good.
I guess I’m still a virgin because I’m shy and struggle to be social as you say. But not having a girlfriend really bothers me more and more so I’m thinking I would start dating and I don’t want to turn off a girl with my sexual inexperience at this age.
Ok so first you have to understand why you're shy. What happened in your childhood that made you develop this personality? Did you like sports when you were younger? This is an excellent way to learn how to be social. Did you try reading books about the subject? Have you ever tried to go to the gym? I'm telling you that because I used to be very shy and this helped me a lot to become more extrovert, and as soon as I learned how to talk to people, It was easier for me to get women. I'm telling you this because I think you're focusing on the wrong side of the problem. Not having a girlfriend is a consequence, not the cause of your dissatisfaction. Think with me, you'll have sex with a hooker but still have internal conflicts to solve, as a consequence you'll struggle even more to have a girlfriend because you'll realize that sexual experience has nothing to do with being attractive to a woman. You don't need to tell a woman you're a virgin, actually sex is very instinctive, you progress as you practice. If you hire a hooker you'll have to pay many times until you get good and this will be very frustrating.
I would say you’ve waited all this time, wait for the right one to come along. As opposed to having someone who doesn’t care about you and just wants your money to take it. Jmo
Thanks, it is not so much about losing virginity but about learning basics of sex, so when I start dating I won’t discourage the girl with my inexperience at this age.
The right one is going to take you as you are!
if you feel like it would be better, sure.
but just sleeping around doesn't mean you'll actually then know how to have sex or shit.
I know but then I'll be more experienced when having sex for the first time with other girl.
you'll know how it feels for you. but that doesn't equal experience in actually giving another woman pleasure.
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Up to you but the better solution is to find a girl you like enough that it isn't as important to just fuck her all the time. And who presumably likes you enough that if the first hundred times you have sex with her aren't anything spectacular to either of you she'll still stick around. There isn't really a secret tried and true method to please all girls. Each girl likes something a little bit different,
Probably, maybe even ask her to teach you.
Why waste money on a prostitute, when you can have sex for free? And you’re probably still going to have that issue the first time you have sex with a regular girl, so again why waste the money on a prostitute? And a lot of girls have bland/boring sex or might even be a virgin themselves, so they might not even notice it’s your first time anyways. So again we make it back to the moral of this answer: why waste the money, I don't know how much prostitute cost but I assume it’s quite costly, when you can meet a girl and have sex for free.
Remember confidence is key.
lmao!!! "sex for free" dude you mind explaining to me how you have sex for free? cause I been dying to find this out since high school
Prostitutes are usually focusing on money tendered, and not the best way to learn sexual appetites from.
Up to you…. It could be a good “practice” but does it align with your moral compass? My advice find a girl who does’t care my friend… you don't want your first tome to be with someone who is pointless
That's not a bad question. I'd say if you find a nice, kind and comprehensive professional, you will certainly learn something. But keep in mind that the first time is seldom excellent, which is not a drama ;0)
Gain the experience and an STD all in one night. It's a two'fer. Buy one, get the second for free.
How about you just find a partner you like/love and tell them and then you can work on the one you care about.
Of course I would wear a condom.
1. Insert tab, A, into slot, B.
2. Push tab, A, into slot, B, as far as it will go.
3. Slide tab, A, OUT of slot, B, but NOT all the way.
4. Slide tab, A, BACK INTO slot, B.
5. Keep repeating numbers 3 and 4 alternately until it stops feeling good.
6. Smoke cigarette.
7. Repeat entire process as needed.
8. Give me all the money you were going to spend on the prostitute.
obviously, I been seeking prostitute services since I broke up with my first girl 12 years ago. I say go for it not only do they not care about your experiences but you sure as hell will have the time of your life with a prostitute.
also dont let women get to you when they say they like men with experiences. this is just an excuse they use to not hurt your feelings
I don’t think you’ll learn much from a prostitute. It might be better to tell the person you’re going to have sex with that you’re inexperienced. That’s completely fine.
From my experience, each sexual partner I’ve had was different anyways, so I had to learn what they enjoyed in order to satisfy them.
i found jerking off more illustrating and pleasurable than beaches.
But jerking off won’t make me better at sex.
sex doesn't require knowing a thing, even cockroaches know how to do it.
It is your decision but i would be super happy to find out that the guy i like is virgin for example
Even if he is 28yo?
Yes.
But not all girls are like you, trust me I'm like you mate
No. I suggest actively using dating sites. Be blatant and open about trying to lose your virginity. There's women that are totally into it. Dare to ask.
But wouldn’t most of the girls prefer to date someone with experience?
some do, some don't. but there's girls that have a virgin fetish... ask me how i know xD
Yes. For a few reasons but most importantly it will help you to bring women down off a pedestal and get you to see them as just regular human beings.
Go for it.
It depends on you and how you value sexual interactions and where you live?
Lol. First of all, no.
Second of all, you're not going to learn anything with a prostitute. What do you think she's going to teach you in 1 hour, bro?
a lot more than what your typical prude girlfriend will be too afraid to do or let you do to her. oh and for cheaper too
I will learn some basic movements? where exactly to put it? where to grab her? you know, so I won´t be so clumsy next time and I will last longer
@josajo just go for it brother! stop letting other people's ignorant opinions slow you down
absolutely not
No, lol how did you come to that conclusion
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