Do you keep your masturbation a secret? Or is there someone you tell? Would you like to be watched and by whom?

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Superb Opinion

  • I tend to keep it a secret, because most of the time when I masturbate I wear lingerie. I’ve always told my girlfriends, and a few of my closest friends also know. I have a few friends that are women that I didn’t have a sexual relationship with that I can tell anything too. If I were to be watched I would prefer it to be a group of women and crossdressers.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I think it’s healthy to be open with the appropriate people in one’s life. And yes, I think it’s erotic, healthy, and educational to let someone else see you masturbate and experience what it’s like when your body releases. Ejaculation can be fun for women to see and I love seeing a woman release because I know she is feeling so good.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I masturbate in secret when in my dorm, but I also masturbate in front of the guys I date and have sex with.

    • Super hot!!!

  • Mostly a secret irl but I talk about it a lot on here

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I share with my partner. Not every single time that I do it, but she knows.

  • Usually I do, as for watched that is always nice in person if I know they won't freak out... but that requires some trust first.

  • I certainly don't go around telling people about any self-molesting-practices... lol

    but sometimes, some people I ask, and then it depends...

    • some people ask me*

  • Besides my girlfriend? No I don’t think I’ll tell anyone. Sometimes I don’t tell my girlfriend so it doesn’t distract her when she’s busy

  • I've never had an opportunity where it has come up in a conversation. I would not be the first to bring up the topic, but if I am with a female, I certainly would not waste my time doing myself! Guys don't normally brag about having self sex... they normally would brag about having it with the opposite sex!

  • Somehow a good question. In normal daily life one does not speak about ones masturbation habits, as is the case about going to the toilet or the bathroom. Usually I don't feel like telling or showing anyone, except possibly with regular or casual partners and on porn sites. This subject is more complex than it seems at first sight.

  • I would really like to watch a women do it in person, but so far every time I've ever asked, she has always been too nervous, shy or self conscience. Hell I'd pay to watch that in person.

    As for telling someone, not really close enough to anyone to talk about that, and indifferent on being watched myself as I know women do not get off visually like guys do, so it would probably be boring to her.

  • I don't feel the need to tell anyone

  • It makes no difference who watches or catches me masturbating but I make sure it's a female of legal age and no males/ no catfish etc

  • I usually keep it to myself, but on occasion my SO and I enjoy watching the other or masturbating together.

  • I don’t tell anyone about my masturbation habits, nor would I like to be watched. I’m not an exhibitionist.

  • When I masturbate I imagine some one. Would be nice to have it done before her.. that I am imagine. 😜

  • Nope. My wife knows and sometimes joins in.

  • I am not shy about it. My friends know

  • Its a secret in real life except for one person. On here I'll talk about it all day long

  • I would talk about it with partners and have done some wabcam stuff

  • Mostly a secret, but have been open about it with a friend and open here as well to share and learn things.

  • I’ve mutually masturbated with a lot of women. Yes, I like to watch and be watched

  • I talk about with my girlfriend. She tells me about her being horny and getting herself off. I like being watched and watching. I find it very hot.

  • I mean everybody pretty much knows that everyone does it. It’s just one of those things you don’t really talk about to someone that isn’t a SO.

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