How would you make your significant other first time having sex not only memorable but also comfortable?

[Lucy68]

[Honestguyopen]

You have to know them very well and create the environment that both of you would appreciate most as far as relaxing and cuddling.

When the time comes, remember to give yourself to eachother, rather than be selfishly just trying to get something from your partner. Forget everything you think you know, and just be in the moment with them. Be open to whatever they want and be aware of whatever they need.

If it doesn't all happen in one night that is ok. You will have other nights. Too much honey in real life is not going to sit well with you. It will likely make you sick. So pace yourself, as if you were tasked with eating a pound of honey.

[whosnumber1]

by reading her body language. I would bank on taking things slowly, like lots of foreplay lots of oral. I would let her energy set the pace and go with it. I would take control just enough that she could relax and enjoy.

I would also communicate and compliment. tell her that she tastes good and feels good. ask her if it feels good.

she would know that if for some reason she wasn't ready of that things were moving to fast we could stop and that I would be ok with it.

[SecretsofKB]

How? Biggest thing is that I would wait unit the time was right. Not to force it. That is the biggest thing for me.

If I like the person enough, it is going to be memorable anyways.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao no comment. My first time wasn't comfortable with a nonvirgin and then my first time with a virgin wasn't exactly comfortable for him. It is what it is. At least the times after improved 🤣

[Stevepro68]

It's really about being patient waiting for the girl to be ready. Not forcing it. And I don't mean penetration, but yes that too.
In a bed, have some romance about it. Go way slower... way way slower than most guys do.

[Mark987]

Don't rush. take your time... make sure you are both wanting too. Play music.. and foreplay is a huge must

[Jamie05rhs]

I feel like that shouldn't be posted on a public forum. lol. Because this is something that is actually going to occur between me and my wife. That's a very private matter!

[jahaims]

Love them

[Nigjt]

Well to tell u the truth I wouldn't even give her this Dick for it lest 3 to 4 hour's after I get all of her clothing off completely off an this is why I'd will make her cum for me at lest 5 to 7 times an break a very good sweat because not only do I enjoy seeing her move around uncontrollably I need to see that look in her eyes that she is now willing to do fall things that I want.
God Bless

[LegendaryIcon]

I'm a non condom virgin, but im not a condom virgin. The first time I have sex without a condom, I need to at least know that she's on some sort of birth control, show me proof, somehow, so that way, if she does get prego by accident, I can prove it was birth control failure on her part... as she told me to not use a condom, so that I can blame the accident on her, right?

That's the whole point of birth control, on both sexes, whos fault it is, when you do "accidentally" get prego.

That's what would make me feel the most comfortable

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. That's a lot of negative energy, bro.

[LegendaryIcon]

nah, just saying the truth

[In_Trance]

wear a horse mask

[888theGreat]

it would be the nice thing to do

[Rudon00]

By first asking her what she likes, How does she likes to be touch and pleasure.

[hhhffg7889]

Show off the tongue skills for and for a long time

[B4852]

Give her a full body massage and don't rush anything.

[sattii2607]

Well it was with my wife on our wedding night, I gave her the time and space in fact we had intercourse after 3 days it was difficult for her as she was very tight on the first day.

[Anonymous]

Communication is key. Go slow, lots of foreplay. Try to make her as relaxed as possible.

[Anonymous]

That's movie stuff.

First time sex is awkward 99% of the time.