I'm 18 and still a virgin I feel like such a loser?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

Stop it.. there is nothing wrong with you . Your not a loser.. your Great. Your smart. Your wise. And you like who you are with in stay this way as long as you can your a strong person and your a better person than me that's for sure.. your special in many ways

Let me tell you what could happen when your in a hurry to have sex. You might start dating and the guy wants to have sex..
And see you're already thinking about it so let's say you go for it

Okay so the guy that you just started dating you guys decide to have sex I see he just started dating you because he wanted to get in your pants too you start making out everything gets hot and heavy you get undressed he last for 2 minutes and you're going with the fuck dude did you even put it in LOL

He's only going to be thinking about himself so he can tell all his friends what a big stud he is and then he breaks up with you

Or let's say you're at a party A Guy starts flirting with you she takes you into one of the bedrooms you start making out next thing you know you having sex let's just say he's a bigger guy and he's so excited but he makes it all about him and just pound your ass it's not pleasurable at all it hurts it's terrible you feel like you just got ran over by a freight train and fucked by a telephone pole what I'm trying to say it's you have to make it perfect you have to make it right don't just go out and throw yourself at some guy don't just jump into it experience it wish clothes on or something first it needs to be special and you got to find the right guy that's going to do that for you and if the guys bigger down there it's all good just make sure he knows how to use it and no matter what guy you're with make sure that he's going to make it all about you did he's going to please you and not make it all about himself otherwise you're going to be pissed off and angry when you're finished

Because once it's over and you put it on your clothes a lot of things are going to be flashing through your head well the first thing is your life just changed everything is different now you're going to look at yourself different you're going to have different you're either going to be happy or you're going to be mad or upset depending on how it was done there's ways to go all about this the reason why I say you were better person than me is because I was 15 and a half and thank God it was with the girl that I did it with because she was 19 years old when school break from college and the way it all happened it was for the best the first three times were terrible I thought I was so angry I was so pissed off I thought it was going to go to hell I lost my virginity and the sex sucks I thought she said it was great the first time the second time in the third time all three of those times I was disappointed the first time right before she went back to school I thought about it hard what could I do to make it better and on the 4th time I did that and it was the hottest thing ever I will never ever forget that what I'd learned what I did because I still do it today and that is I make it all about the girl but you still be in such a hurry because your life changes very quickly in every manner the way you hold yourself the way you carry yourself the way you talk the way you think about yourself everything just changes and if it changes I'm not going to say they're bad there could be some bad parts to the LOL I'm just joking don't be in such a hurry though good luck find a guy that cares about you and he wants to make love to you he wants you to feel it deeply he doesn't want to just get on you I'm few a few times and he's done don't go with that guy LOL

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

Enjoy it you only loose it once. Yes you can fuck anyone but save that for the extra extra extra special guy. We all know what it is like to feel the way you do. My wife and I waited acouple of years to FUCK but we enjoyed everything but and believe me my dick was at the opening of her vulva and she and I were ready to go but somehow we did not do not ask me how. We started out making out and petting and progressed to hand jobs blowjobs eating pussy for hours and fingering. On a ski trip girls slept with girls in a room guys with guys in a separate room with adult supervision [ wink wink ] and parents were satisfied hymen were intact yeah. we were not going I was injured and had 3 broken ribs and a couple of fingers broken but went for the booz and food already paid for. Everybody went to a local ski lodge for sking and drinking for the day we were left for the day. I do not know if this counts as fucking but at the lounge we were drinkin feeling good she said she want to freshen up and would call the bar for me to come to the room the room was dark and she had bra and itty bitty panties on and we started hot and heavy then she lubed her hand with the idea she was giving a hand job but what she really did was lube her anus real good and she made like she was going to put my dich in her pussy and put my dick at the entrance of her ass and she slowly impailed her self on my dick in her anus up to the nuts and she bounce for a while till we both came. her pussy was safe. For a coulpe of years we butt fucked never fucked her pussy till married for me that was the greatest present she gave me. So after my trip down memory lane I still remember the first time my dick went into her pussy for the first time worth the wait Looser no making sure it was woth the wait yeah you can do everything else but and really have a good time and be avirgin and if you dont tell anybody they will never know. It is really up to you You control what your pussy does Enjoy you body!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Having sex/not having sex, being a virgin/not being a virgin isn't what makes someone a loser. Anyone that judges someone for being a virgin or not being a virgin is the "real" loser... Better to have not had sex before you're ready than to regret having sex just to have sex... Being a virgin isn't something to be ashamed of..

[laurieluvsit]

Not sure why being a virgin would make you a loser?

You are going to have to help me with that one, because I don't get it?

[WindAtMyBack]

How can you be a loser when you are completely normal?

People your age tends to think that "everyone is doing it" when they aren't. You are completely normal whether you realize it or not.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Don't be, it isn't a race in fact wait until your ready and it won't be hard to lose it at all.

[SweetDumplings]

Oh please, I'm 28 and still a virgin

[Vikkrram]

I am 24 but i am a virgin what should i do in ur opinion , i must have died.. till now...

[bigbluey]

You’re not a loser!! Maybe you just haven’t had a chance to have sex!! Although I guarantee it is awesome

[OlderAndWiser]

What do you think your body count should be at this point in your life?

[SnakeBoop]

then pick up a new hobby because obsessing and thinking THAT'S what makes you a loser is dumb

[InventorofWarp]

I'm 25 and still a virgin. Am I a loser?

[ushagomez]

You’re not a loser, you just haven’t met someone with whom you wish to share that pleasure yet

[Berethor]

Women are like a lock, so you don't need to feel like loser.

[Elliegirl]

You’re not a loser! There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.

[oliver4love]

It's a sign of proud not loser.. You are like a fresh flower 🌸 and man is lucky whom you marry and he enjoy your beauty in real life

[normalice]

There is no reason to feel like a loser. It shouldn't be hard to find someone who will "service" you if you just want to be rid of it. Women generally aren't chuckled at for a lack of sexual experience the way men are. Indeed, it is more often the opposite, though after 25 or so it does start to get a little odd. Still pleanty of time..

[AndyOh]

Not even...
I would continue on and you will find plenty of opportunities to lose that cherry.
I would suggest a boyfriend who you can have some kind of emotional connection with.
Losing your virginity is one of those events in your live you will Always remember. So make sure it is a good one.

[AncientWisdom]

If true I’ve got nothing but respect for you. Thankfully there are still women who have respect for themselves. Be picky and take your time and choose wisely. Also remember if the farmer gives away the milk no one will buy the cow. Absolutely nothing wrong with being an unmarried virgin at all.

[slatyb]

Forget about it, you aren't a loser. You are still in high school? There was no one in my high school class I was interested in. You'll be in the wide world soon and your dating pool will greatly expand.

[LiamSawyer]

You're in no way a loser. Be proud of that accomplishmen. In today's world it's much more difficult to stay a virgin then not.

[Citizenkirk]

It's not a contest, so just don't worry if you don't find someone right away. It will happen when it happens 🤤. Just enjoy the moment when it does.

[Somegirl678]

i did too thats why i quickly tried to find someone to lose it at 18

[Twalli]

Do you regret it?

[Somegirl678]

@Twalli nope not at all, and its been more than a year since it happened

[Gabboo]

you're not a loser for that, anyone who thinks that. you are has serious issues that need to be worked on, you're a virgin and that's admirable to be honest 🤗