Should you have sex on your first meet?

[Manisha18]

[MrOracle]

If your hope is for a serious, committed relationship, it's one of the worst things you can do. It's not that the guy won't accept - he will - but he'll also permanently downgrade you from potential "relationship material" to "good for casual sex only" - and when I said permanently, I mean there's no way to recover.

If you are only looking for casual sex, then that's fine - it doesn't matter in that case. But if you are looking to have a relationship with the guy, understand that for most men, having sex with him on the first date will permanently disqualify you from ever being seen by him as "relationship material." It could also disqualify you from being seen that way by others as well - i. e., your reputation for being "easy" will spread and then every guy who approaches you will already only consider you for casual sex.

[RobT312]

Some of my best relationships were ones with sex that happened on the first date.
its a personal thing, there’s no right or wrong. Should you? I’d say no unless there’s is a mutual connection of some kind such as emotional or physical. At least that’s what I need. Don’t just do it to do it.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Ultimately it’s your decision. There’s no should or shouldn’t. It would make it a hookup though.


I personally don’t think it’s a good idea, I think it gives a bad impression if I am looking for a LTR.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

As long as you're both having sex on your terms, and you both know what sex will and won't mean, I think there's nothing wrong with having sex on the first date. You're a consenting adult, so don't feel pressured by vague social rules telling you when to seek pleasure.

[nice-girl]

No, I don't think it's a good idea.

[Berethor]

Usually it means that they girl is slutty.

[normalice]

I prefer It that way, myself. But whatever seems natural.

[slatyb]

Do what you want. Have sex if you want to. If a man dumps you for having sex with hm, he’s not a man you want for a partner.

[Citizenkirk]

You should do what feels right for both of you.

[Dragonpurple]

I am no longer interested in committed relationships, I would love to have sex on a first date but if you are looking for long term commitment that is not a good idea. It is unlikely that if you start a relationship based on sex you can move it to something else down the road.

[Drumlin2001]

There's no obligation but if you really want to, you're an adult, do what you like

[bowenw]

Not usually, but there are no rules.

[Kabluie]

Yes, if sparks fly.

[ChiTown33]

How much can you possibly know about someone after one date? I think this question kind of answers itself.

[gangster123]

Never..

[Wise4myage]

Not a great idea unless your just after a one night stand.

[vald9inches]

It depends on your chemistry between the two if you 😊

[swettannie]

that's for you to decide. if you want it, if the chemistry is good

[Twalli]

I never would

[LegendaryIcon]

nope

[shanshu]

Depends if you prioritize sex a lot in a relationship and if you like him but don't want to be disappointed in the long run.

So you could and if it is great then cool if not then don't continue it.

Those if sex isn't much of about pleasure than it is a bout intimacy and it isn't as important in the relationship then I'd say wait till you know where each other stands

[whosnumber1]

you should only do what your comfortable with

[nawtee_me]

on the first meet you should have oral only. This way you know if he is willing to give you the same pleasure he is wanting. If he is and is good at eating you then have sex with him on the second date... If he is not any good then there will be no second date...