Femdom relationships?

[Anonymous]

I recently experienced for the first time a femdom relationship with a slave man. It was quite a fun experience for me as I am the ruler. I believe that women with certain feminist ideas create femdom. What I'm wondering is why would a man want to be a slave to a woman? Isn't that against man's nature?

[Effably]

Same reasons girls might like giving up control, looking up to someone, feeling helpless or alike. I am sure there's some appropriate reference you can draw from of being submissive to a man. Same the other way around.

I don't see femdom and feminism having anything in common. Bedroom and Politics don't usually mix well.

As for personal reasons it would probably be diverse. Balance? Challenge? Obedience? There's always plenty of reasons. If you like it and he likes it and everyone is safe and happy that sounds good enough to me.

[Kaneki05]

Feminists hasn't really got anything to do with it. I didn't wake up thinking ah yes feminist has turned me sub.
And a little fact, everything humans do is ageist nature aka why we've come so far compared to a monkey.
We don't even shit correctly to how nature would make us, toilets are actually made wrong to according how we should do it.
We also naturally would just see food as food no matter what it is. Yet humans have many objections ageist eating stuff that we just would if we were more following our basic instinct.
And of course a huge one, we don't even hunt anymore. Some might but it's not common place for someone to hunt there food, it's just ah there is a shop.

[nothingtosee]

Yes, but that's what makes it so hot! While men are programed to be dominate, the idea of allowing a woman to use us (men) for their sexual pleasure is really hot! Especially if she makes me do things that are very naughty, kinky, or taboo. I like the idea of having to do anything for her (sexually) without question and without a bit of hesitation. I like the idea of having to ask for permission to cum. I like the idea that my orgasm is for her pleasure, not mine. I like the idea of her bragging to her girlfriends that, when it comes to sex, she's in control, and that the sex is so much better. I imagine that she finds other women who have the same kind of relationship with their men. Then, the decide to swap out boyfriends for the night because they want to try different lovers. Or she insists that I have a threesome with her and another guy.

I would love hear about your sexual fantasies on this topic, or what you've done in the past that was really hot. If you're interested, you can write me at nothingtosee@yahoo. com

[GabiBB]

Femdom has nothing to do with feminism. There are tons of submissive feminist women. In fact, almost all women in BDSM (dominant and submissive) are feminists. Being a feminist is believing in sexual freedom of women, where she can decide if she wants to dominate, submit or be vanilla.

And the vast majority of men in BDSM are interested in dominant women. This is not "against men's nature". It is much easier to find submissive men than dominant men in BDSM. Most people prefer to be submissive because they wanna give up control, give up their responsibilities, etc.

[ChrisMaster69]

You of course realise that FemDom, simply means that the woman is the dominant.

It does not describe the sub.

[Asker]

Yeah. I mean, it's perfectly normal for a woman to enjoy it. But isn't it weird for a man to be a sub for this selfish women's game?

[ChrisMaster69]

Not that hard really, a lot of guys who end up as subs, tend to be high power executives, judges, business leaders, people with cash and power. It’s fairly common tbh. My ex used to do security for some Pro Domme events.

[nothingtosee]

No, that's what makes the sex hotter. Not being allowed to say NO to anything she wants (sexually), especially if it's naughty, kinky or taboo. Knowing that the sex is all about her. It's all about learning how she wants to be satisfied sexually. It's even kinkier when she brags to her girlfriends about it. Knowing that, the next time I'm around one of them, she might be wondering what it would be like to take me to bed and use me for the night, and I can't say no to my girlfriends decision to lend me out to one of them for the night.

[nothingtosee]

No, not really. It's just another role-playing scenario. I like it because she will objectify me, using me like I'm sort of remote-control sex toy. I think it's hot that the night is all about her sexual pleasure, having to pleasure her any time she wants, any WAY she wants, as many times as she wants. I also love it when she tells me that if I want to cum, I MUST ask for permission, and I must do it nicely and politely. That way the sex can last as long as she wants. And she gets to decide when and where I should cum. Plus, if she wants a threesome, that's a good time for her to bring someone over. Especially if that other person also agrees to be her sex slave as well. Then, with her calling all the shots, I may find myself having to do something very naughty, kinky or taboo! AND, there's nothing I can do to say NO!

[Zifey]

Hmm, let's see.. I mean, why wouldn't a man want to be slave to a woman? That's pretty sexy, actually. Personally, I don't think it's against a man's nature at all to want to be slave to a woman, and if anything, I think it's manly for a guy to submit to a woman

[Berethor]

It against man's nature, but there is a lot of beta males nowadays, thanks to feminism.

[swettannie]

it is. weak men want that

[Hanrej]

If it's against a mans nature then it should naturaly mean being the dominant is against a womans nature. Why get Hung up on what's what instead of enjoying it if you're both into it?

[Zlantur2]

Not really, I wanna try it. Even though I'm dominant most of the times, sometimes I like being dominated

[sandokan1001]

If you grew up in a female-led patchwork family, you feel femdom is completely normal. From a young age, I have been used to submitting to and obeying women. Although I am already an adult, I still provide them with menial services. For example, I still clean my older stepsister's shoes and warm her slippers so that her feet are as comfortable as possible in them (in the natural family pecking order, the well-being of her feet has absolute priority over my own sensitivities). Nevertheless, I would not call myself a slave, but a well-mannered servant who knows his place in relation to the ladies.

[Anonymous]

I wish to be in femdom relationship

[Anonymous]

Really interesting

[Anonymous]

Since you seem to be a Gay male Dom. Why so interested in how a Straight male Sub. Thinks?
You make no sense. Unless, you possibly are drawn to being a Sub. yourself?

The cool thing about S&M is that you can try out both until you understand if you're more sadistic, or masochistic. 😉😉

[Anonymous]

I like the idea every now and then. Sometimes I don’t want to be the one in charge. I want my woman to be in charge.

[Anonymous]

I want to be in such relationship

[Asker]

so why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I love dominant women, I love to worship them, I love the humiliation.

[Anonymous]

They must crave female domination, attention and validation.
It might be something that could be traced back to trauma from getting rejected by girls or having a controlling mother.

[Anonymous]

I dont think femdom has anything to do with feminism.

[Asker]

What femdom wants is for those who have a penis to submit to those who have a vagina, to dominated by them. Some partners live it as a lifestyle. I can't be sure but couldn't this idea be coming from some seperatist feminists?

[Anonymous]

I guess there are feminine men out there who that appeals to. I'm sure as hell not one of them.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it is. But many men like me want to be a slave to a Domme Lady.