Sexual Relationships
+1 y

Why do guys think having a bigger penis is better?

I’m fairly large, and a lot of girls assume I have a boner in public when I’m not even erected at all. It’s quite embarrassing, honestly. Not only that, but I have to get condoms that won’t rip. And finding underwear can be a pain because I either have to go up two sizes sometimes. And jeans can sometimes hurt my balls. So I have to look for some with a bigger crotch length.
Updates:
+1 y
Plus, I read that it’s harder for guys with a bigger one to have stable relationship compared to guys who are smaller. Probably explains why I’m always single, lol.
0 3

Superb Opinion

  • Being slightly over 8" (5" limp), and apparently well balled too, I wear boxers and straight leg pants. There is nothing I can do, just sometimes pants are revealing, especially when sitting. You can get oversized pouched boxer briefs for sports. Maybe you're in the XXL range, but you can buy condoms online and you clearly have internet. Once I realized tall women usually* are deeper, I've not dated short women since. Women with big boobs can't hide their breasts, so don't be concerned about your member showing, it's not your fault. Confidence is one of the most attractive things you can do.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guys think it's better because of porn where the guys all have freak penises and the girls all have rare extremely deep vaginas or if you start looking you will see that in porn the dicks almost never go in past about 6in. In these videos, the actresses all say how much better the bigger dick feels and stuff. The truth is that the average range for the depth of an adult women's vagina is 5-7in. I have measured mine with a dildo and anything past about 6in hits the back wall and becomes uncomfortable and even painful. What does feel better though is girth and from my experience, the guys with the longer dicks often have average or below girth. I have talked with my girlfriends about this and they have all said the same things.
    My current long-term boyfriend has the perfect penis for me. He is about 5in but very girthy like I would say not far off a Pringles can. But you would never know while he was soft where his dick is maybe 2in soft lol.

    • It's refreshing you are aware of growers. Probably makes you smarter than the majority of strangers at local clubs. I've gotten used to women running before even attempting to make it grow lol

  • Because it is true. I’ve been with both smaller and bigger guys. The pleasure is insanely different. I figured that I have never orgasm with my smaller ex-boyfriends who were on the smaller side.

    • may I ask what was your ex's size?

    • @nudeNhorny 4-5 inches.

    • Ah okay I see, and your current boyfriend is much bigger?

    • Show All

Most Helpful Guy

  • Because women always say it is. I'm small-ish in size (6.5) and have been noped out of bed multiple times for being too small for them. So, one can only naturally conclude that "bigger is better" but with the caveat that "too big can be a problem" with 'too big' being like 9 and above. That's why most women say 7 to 8 or so is the ideal size.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Guys, if the lady in the picture sends you a risky text, how are you going to react?
Guys would you ever ask this of a woman after suffering a traumatic event? and girls have you ever had a guy ask if you want sex after a trauma event?
Have you had sex with another person while being in a relationship?
Why it feels so empowering to fuck a married man?

What Girls & Guys Said

7 19

  • To me size isn’t important but I don’t like bigger I’ve had guys with bigger sizes like above average and it was more difficult to do stuff

  • I always thought it was fine because you know you will satisfy your woman and never have to worry about her not having an orgasm

  • Yeah, must be terrible.

  • This sounds like a troll lol
    Bigger is better,, Buy some damn cloths that fit ffs.

  • Thanks for sharing...

  • Because girls keep telling them that it is.

  • Oh the struggles

  • So is this a joke?

    • Nope

  • Dunno, some women are picky about it too, pretty rare to find women such as myself who don't care about size.

  • *sips juice* 🧃(‘-‘ )

  • They probably a lot of porn that assumes that fact, or hear from a few women that say so which really true.

    Wearing medium boxer briefs can be a chore for me if I get a boner while in them myself, going to large even if my waist can barely fit it makes that situation way more comfy. I'm not super long or anything just I'm tall and have enough length where M becomes undesirable.

  • weird flex but ok.

    • If I was flexing, I would show my face, but I’m not. I just don’t care.

    • Yes i can sense the big pp stoic don't care energy. no need to be shy. be proud of yourself.

    • @rabbitzzz I know, right? 🤣

  • It seems like there are so many "size queens" in the world though.

  • yeah right mr anonymous stfu and gtfo here lol what a queer

    • You’re a 39 year old man. Act like your age.

  • Would you rather be big or small?

  • Better able to pleasure a women. Honestly their are down sides to both. Their are also good things to

    • True, very true.

  • Because it is

  • Women say bigger penises to a point are more pleasurable. 6-7inches seems to be the sweet spot for female pleasure.

  • It depends on what you define as “bigger” because there is definitely a range

  • It’s almost as bad as having a small one very few women can handle a big penis and the ones who claim to want one have never been fucked by one (Ow! That shit hurt, or Go Slowly 🙄) it’s super annoying by the way going slower makes us finish faster ladies

  • Show More (6)

Latest Questions

Were you ever surprised by a family member coming downstairs naked?
What was your first nudist experience? How was it?
Guys, How would you feel if you found out that your current partner used a strap-on on a guy in the past?
Why do women believe that sex with another girl equals cheating for men?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Why do guys think having a bigger penis is better?