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Is there a secret hiding place for men that go beyond vanilla that I just don’t know about?

Ohnopotato
The last few partners I’ve had all seem to follow this same pattern. Once we are sexually involved, it starts off all sweet, not enough foreplay but whatever.. but after a good amount of time, all that sweet stuff gets really boring.
I am VERY upfront about what I want sexually. I also take A LOT of time to prepare for such things. (We’re talking lingerie, I’ve even fulfilled a prerequisite of cosplaying, studying the character and acting out okay, I’m dedicated) Now in the heat of the moment, If I’m on all fours and ask you to spank me.. I don’t understand how this all of a sudden turns into a “am I being trapped” awkward silence. Record player stops. DONE. ruined the mood scout.
it’s not always at that stage, but I mean it seems to stop there and we go no further.
My fear now, is that there is no one out there who can really satisfy my craving for rougher sex. Drilling your dick in me at a slightly faster pace is not rough XD
i have considered a few things. I am a smaller woman in height so I get a lot of “I don’t want to break you” I had one man tell me “I didn’t think you’d be into that kind of thing”.. I am polite, not prude, but also “spicy” 🤣 whatever that means.
Anyways! What do I have to do, other than draw my name in blood in a circle with candles to summon a man to even get rough with me and eventually dom me?
I find I get more responses like “oh umm wow” than “fuck yeah roleplay/hair pulling/sexual exploration” ugh why is the world so boring
Is there a secret hiding place for men that go beyond vanilla that I just don’t know about?
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