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For those who have only ever had sex with one person…do you wonder what it is like/wish you had or could with someone else?

I do, but the stakes are too high. I would never want to risk my marriage or my family.
For those who have only ever had sex with one person…do you wonder what it is like/wish you had or could with someone else?
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  • I can kind of relate, as with my ex wife, she was my first but she had more experience. I felt like I was being compared to her ex's but at the same time I really wondered what other women felt like or was like. If it was similar or different.

    We ended up getting divorced and I know what it is like now with others. I still can count my partners on one hand but I can say it has been unique each time, very different.

    I can understand why he might think you find someone better, if your needs aren't being met, and you find someone else that meets them that isn't good for your husband.

    • It isn’t that my needs are not being met it is that the rush of being with someone new cannot be replicated.

    • That is very true, the rush of someone new is always very unique and different. I am glad your needs are being met. For me personally it was intense curiosity of what it would be like, I was so curious but never acted on it, as I didn't want to risk anything either. It wasn't until after the divorce I was finally able to experience that with someone new.

    • Makes sense. No divorce here. My kids come first.

  • Have you discussed this with your partner? What do they say?

    • I have. He is very understanding that I would be curious. He is not OK with me having sex with someone else. He is afraid I will find a better dick. Seems unlikely to me. He has only ever had sex with me too and has no desire to with anyone else.

    • I’m surprised he isn’t curious about someone else. And what does he mean by better dick? He’s concerned you will feel more pleasure with another guy and he can’t be enough?

    • He is afraid I will leave him

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Ever so rarely. It's weird though? I actually totally have permission to be with whoever I want and I just haven't seriously made an effort to. I'm beginning to think I may never will either.

  • I've only been with my husband and I have been curious about what it would be like to be with someone else. Not curious enough to actually go through with it since the connection I have with him is most likely better then experiencing others

  • I don’t fit in this criteria

  • No, I’m content with the man that I have.

  • Of course you do its only natural and human to thats why communication and an open mind is extremely important in any relationship imho

  • Well, duh. Being married is obvious for not doing it.

  • Nope. We're super happy with each other. No need to risk it all.


  • Yes stakes are high but you will always want to fuck another man
    It scary but you just got to be careful don't fuck anyone
    that can't keep his mouth shut

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