How to have an intense orgasm?

I'm a girl and I'm kind of tired of the same old. Lol. I don't have sex toys, can't afford them. And I'm looking for any little tips on how to have a more intense orgasm. What are some odd things you do that makes it better? Girls and guys!! Thank you in advance!!!
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  • Does that depend on are you solo or have a little help?

    If you have a little help, the three spot, its a little hard to explain but you can't do it to yourself without some toys.

    It involved someone using their hand, hopefully someone who is really good at foreplay with magic fingers, who can put a thumb to play with it, while reaching inside and finding your G spot to rub, while reaching up and hitting your cervix. That last part may not be possible in all women.

    If your solo, one thing you can try can be a little painful. Rub your clit until you orgasm but don't stop, keep going. You may have to slow down a bit, or just push it for a few seconds but keep on going. If you can, then you can get another orgasm and its more intense than the first. You can do this as many times as you can handle but you may be a little sore later.

    They actually sell clit cream to help it not hurt so much between, and it is one of my favorite things.

    Also if your into showing it off, like me... you can find places where someone 'might' see you to do it. Do it in a safe place, don't need a record or whatever, but the risk is a huge turn on for me, makes things get there faster and more intense.

    • I somehow missed your response the first time around.. Please tell me more about the 3 spot and clit cream, I would like to as much as quickly as possible. Do you have any links with info? And for the clit cream, can you post a link to a product, or put the name of the product? Thank you for posting.

    • @youngmix Something like this, I like this one but there are others

    • @youngmix Damn hit reply before I was done, something like "Adam and Eve Make me cum" clit sensitizer. The three spot is just a way for someone else to hit three highly sensitive spots at the exact same time, the G and clit are easy to get, almost like one in one out, but if the other person has short fingers or your a bit long, reaching up to hit the cervix for a cervical orgasm is not likely. The idea is to get all three at the same time, touching, rubbing as each has their own unique orgasm... and you can either get them all at once or sometimes like one goes, then the other and then the other, they keep rotating.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I read an answer to this, from a girl, a few weeks ago. Men, to have really intense orgasms us "Edging" for have the most intense orgasm, and I believe women can do the same. Edging involves, jacking-off right up to the point of ejaculation, and the stopping, letting the penis relax a little and then starting up again. I have done that for an hour, and when I finally ejaculate, I can still squirt more than a foot or so, and the feeling is so intense as to not be believed and the orgasm lasts for 30 -45 seconds.

    Women can do the same, when rubbing your clitoris. Rub up until you feel you may orgasm, and then stop. You could take a break and go do something else or just continue. The girl on GAG that suggested it said she quit masturbating and did something else and came back and started again later.

    My suggestion is to continue rubbing, and looking at whatever gets you the hottest online, pictures of penis/vagina/ clitoris, couples masturbating together et cetera.
    I, personally, look at pictures of girls' vulvas, girls in just underpants, pantyhose, and then graduate to video of close-up fucking, where you can see the guys, penis going in and out.
    I'm sure you will get lots of suggestions

    • Well, "weird", some of just like 'weird" - we make the world go-round!

  • Shift from watching porn if you do, to trying different genres of erotica.

    try different stories, different themes.

    learn to fantasise about specifics.

    Find out what your body responds to, soft, sharp, heat, cold, pain, pleasure.

    learn to explore all of your body.

    learn to tease yourself.

Most Helpful Girl

  • First, don't masturbate every day. Only do it once in a long while, like try waiting a week, or a month. And when you do masturbate, edge. So get close to orgasm, but don't actually do it. Get a good 1 and a half to 3 hour session in. And only cum at the end.

    HUGE orgasm from masturbation that way.

    Or stop masturbating all together, and unleash the beast on the next guy you play with. I started doing that, and I recommend it.

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  • Longing for someone.
    Or the mind and imagination.

    • Imagination is the most powerful. Erotic stories that I got from YouTube (when they allowed them) were the very best and better than porn. If you had a very open and direct partner, that would be a help also. I had that in my 20's and let her get away

  • Dont orgasm until you can't hold back anymore edge daily. Before going for the orgasm edge as often as you can without failing.

    • Damn, you gave her my exact suggestion!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍 I went into more detail. Great minds think alike huh?

    • Are you edging daily by the way? 😛

    • 👍👍👍👍

  • If you don’t have sex toys use an electric toothbrush

  • Try teasing more n more... n edging more n more

  • is this for sex or masturbation?

    • Masturbation

  • People enjoy different things. Experiment with your body as much as you can. I don't feel comfortable sharing my own experience here online for everyone to see lol. But I know my body very well and you just have to play around until you know what gets you off.

    • Can you tell in private? 😃😍

  • Find a real man toots.

  • Get a percussion massage. Without any adapters attached to it, it is basically a vibrator. You can figure out the rest, I think.

  • Kegel exercises. Need to strengthen your muscles. When you're having the orgasm try to "clamp down" as much as you can.

  • Have you tried edging?

  • try to explore new things?

    • Like?

    • good question, i don't know what you tried, what you wanted to try but never dared to

    • Maybe some of the girls could DM you and give you some suggestions. I am sure that some have some great ideas if they would only share them with you privately

  • Try edging… go as long as you can

  • Electric toothbrush, shower massager, many household items can be used as a dildo.

  • I don't know, but trying different forms of stimulation would be nice

  • Learn to edge

  • you can put cream in your pussy then rap it to cum milk all


  • Bananas , cucumbers , hair brush , bottle , dildos ,
    many things you willing to try
    love to have sexual conversations with you tell you what
    I've experienced masturbate and cum with you

  • Do you have a boyfriend?

  • OMG i have the perfect technique that absolutely blows me out of the water each time... but (this will sound odd) I can tell you but do you own a wetsuit? lol just trust me

    • I dont, but I'd love to hear this. Lol

    • it works, but if you don't have one then there is no point... you need something to wear that is hard to get out of, some suit that you can't just take off and relieve yourself. The building up part is what makes the orgasm so good...