Girls, In a relationship, how long does usually take for you to reach this point?

In a relationship, how long does it usually take for you to reach the point of

1. Kissing your partner
2. Cuddling with your partner
3. Sleeping in the same bed (non sex)
4. Letting your partner touch your intimate areas (breasts, buttocks.. etc)
5. Have Oral sex (Giving/Receiving) with your partner
6. Have Penetrative sex (Vaginal/Anal) with your partner
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  • I've done all of these in the same day I've met the guy. But usually, it seems like girls take a date to jump to each number you've laid out. Sometimes 2 a date. The 3rd date is usually when most girls are open for sex. But again, that's just like the average. I'm a first date kind of girl. But I know girls who are 5th or later. So it just depends. If you're ever feeling weird about hitting one of these milestones, best thing you can do is talk to your partner.

  • It depends on the guy and the chemistry. I can't really assign a time frame to any of these. I do what feels right when it feels right. If I want to fuck his brains out on the first date I'm going to make my move.

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  • I don't believe there's any specific time for touching these *milestones*. I've known couples hooking up on their first date and staying married till they're old and grey and also couples remaining celibate till marriage and divorcing months later.

    What I mean to say is- there's nothing as 'too early' or 'too late'. These are just societal conventions. Its upto you to decide what you want and what you're comfortable with.

    You do you 🌟

  • Depends on both of you boundaries

  • Whenever I want

  • Depends on the person and the chemistry. But it's usually not very long

  • Ima say, 2 months to do 1,2,3
    7 months to do 4 5 6

  • Could be sex on the first date, all depends on the mutual comfort level, strong communication of desired outcomes and intentions

  • well tbh i usually do all of that on my first date except being in bed (non sexual) lol

  • Day 1.

  • It usually took me up to 2 weeks to get through your list but with my curent boyfriend it was all the first day.

  • 1. 1 day
    2. 1 day
    3. 3 day
    4. 1 hour :)
    5. 1 day
    6 1 day :)

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