How to move on from traumatic sexuaul experience?

Question

I've keep this in for a while now, but a last month two of my guy friends invited me to a party. So I went with them I didn't realize there were gonna be so many people I didn't know, I was really uncomfortable and my friends said I should have some drinks to relax and soon after I felt sick and he took me upstairs and I was laying on a bed and I felt him touching my legs. I told him to stop and got up to leave but he picked me up and put me on the bed and got on top of me, I was on my stomach so it was hard for me to move then he told me this is what I get for being a tease and I felt him forcing himself inside of me. I told him to stop but he didn't I was crying begging him to stop it hurt so much, then the other guy I came to the party with walks in and I thought he would make him stop but all he said was give it to her hard laughed and closed the door. Soon after I felt him doing it really hard then a warm feeling inside of me, I felt so humiliated and disgusting he just walked out and left me up stairs like nothing happened I just layed there crying. I try and keep a optimistic look on life but this was really hard on me especially for my first. I don't know how to move forward because of this.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

All you can legally do is report it to the police

Or if you're in like my friend you have a real sick bastard up your sleeve like me
I tracked him down and was all set to electrocute him with his own car battery even bought my own jump cables but he started crying and then he pissed himself and I didn't want pissy fingers so just threatened him that of I heard another story about his antics that next time I wouldn't be as lenient to let him live, nothing's come back to me in the almost 5 years since who knew that a mock execution and threats of a real one could be such an effective motivational tool

DonkeyDan · Accepted Answer

Sorry you've experienced this, I want to tell you and reassure you that not all guys are like this.

Firstly he needs to be reported to the police for rape, none of this was your fault. You need to tell your parents or at least one of them, and you need to get some counselling. The police will most likely arrange this for you when you report it.

Never feel like you can't tell anyone or that in anyway you were responsible for what happened, there is no excuse for what he did.

Oh and that friend of yours, well I hope you're not friends anymore.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

From your account, it looks as if you were partially sedated or drugged and that you were raped by both guys.

There is only one option left to you, even if it is even more humiliating and that is to press charge for a sexual crime, aka rape.

You are a minor and those guys need to be punished to the fullest extend of the law. If you don't do anything, those guys will walk free and repeat their sexual offense with someone else and that needs to be stopped at all costs.

Even if they are friends or acquaintances of yours, this is not a minor issue but a serious crime.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This is a fake story by a guy. The fake girl in the photo is way older than 16, like 30, and no 16 year old shows her boobs hanging out like that.

jaybee281 · Answer

Was it so traumatic you can't write "sexual" right anymore? - Yea looking at the circumstances this is a bad joke - Seriously though - You should press charges as quick as possible - Especially if they're your friends it actually makes it worse if you ask me

mark000h · Answer

I'm so sorry that happened. Have they arrested your rapist? Are your parents getting you counseling?

Drumlin2001 · Answer

You describe a rape. If they have done it to you, likely they will do it to another. You should report it to the police

awkward_author · Answer

I'm sorry that happened to you. Regarding your question, I think the best thing to do, when you're ready, is to process this with a therapist/psychologist. Hopefully, it'll help you heal, so you can move on.

jahaims · Answer

Therapy

ND4SPD31 · Answer

Well after reading that, u were pretty much raped and he needs to b held accountable for his actions.

888theGreat · Answer

You were drugged?

andy530 · Answer

Seeing a therapist and disclosing this could help you process and work through the trauma and heal. So sorry to hear this happened to you!

emperor90 · Answer

I am so sorry to hear that first report it to law enforcement 2 get some counseling and 3 ditch those guys

bestfriend69 · Answer

That's heartbreaking 💔 do you wanna talk? Talking might help.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

Might need a therapist, someone that you can talk to. That was rape. Me personally, if someone did that to a friend of mine, he would be having a problem with me and others.