Guys, any tips for a good blowjob?

What things could make the experience much better? Or what things should a girl avoid?
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  • A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

    Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

    And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

    Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

    Also, look into videos for:

    A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
    B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

    That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
    I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

  • Best advise I’ve heard: act like you’re making out with his penis. You don’t need to be constant bobbing if your head. Sometimes just hold it there and give a lot of pressure. Hum with it in there. And please oh please enjoy it. Don’t act like you’re enjoying it, teach yourself to enjoy it or he’ll be worried that you’re excited for it to end and it could kill the orgasm.

    if he’s clean, lick his taint and tug his balls. As sweet as it is for girls to do things “to please their man” if he sees you’re doing it because you want to it’s so much sexier.

    put your hands everywhere. His pecs, his arms, his neck and face. Maybe in his mouth. Run your nails along his legs and torso. Make the BJ seem like you’re just enjoying every single piece of him you can. Squeeze and tickle his butt. Personally I’d stay away from the butthole unless he’s very very clean and you know for a fact he is. And if you’re being intimate over sexy, I’d say to swallow but not in a way that you stick your tongue out and show him all the gross cum. Just let him shoot it and swallow as it comes with a smile. You can back further back in your throat to avoid tasting it if you want.

    sexiest thing a girl could ever say after sucking on my penis: “Thank You” with a smile. That was just so cute and loving it blew my mind.

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  • Avoid? Teeth.

  • *It's really hand-and oral. Your mouth focuses on the head and your hand (s) concentrate on the shaft and sack.
    *Once you start, always build tension. Don't pause or slow down.
    *When ejaculation starts, stop all mouth motion, just suck only and continue stroking the shaft.

  • avoid teeth!

  • I personally over a nice slow sensual mind blowing bj to a fast hard-core throat gagging bj. I love when she goes nice and slow and takes her time and really just first teases it... kiss, lick and suck the head, and then taking a little bit at a time just nice and slow over and over keeping a nice warm wet suction and continue to take me as far in as she's comfortable with. Else, I'd say be good with your hands and touch. A nice stroke with one hand while sucking and the other hand massaging the balls, etc is absolutely mind blowing! I love when she has nice nails and uses them too like lightly scratching my penis, scratching my balls and underneath, and my thighs or stomach/chet/nipples, etc. I love touch and even eye contact while receiving.

    • Totally agree! Intimacy and love is way hotter with BJs than moaning and weird stuff!

  • try to lick and suck it as lollipop..

  • Look your guy in the eyes, and don't forget to lick his balls. It feels amazing.

  • Deepthroat!

  • 1. Massage the balls
    2. Tender eye contact
    3. Use your tongue to tease the tip and caress shaft
    4. Swallow that load

  • Yes take ur time with him an enjoy him or self so that's he will also enjoy it is much as u do because the more u live on his Dick then more he is going to like how ur participating because that's the way it is.
    God Bless

  • Don't use your teeth and don't be afraid to gag. A gag reflex feels good if you power through it

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