Have you ever asked to see a man’s penis? Why?

[JessicaEarl]

I have a good friend who’s super cute but we’re not involved (I have a boyfriend and also we’re just not interested). But I can tell by his V-line that I’m gonna like what I see underneath it. I think I’m going to ask to see it, just to see if I’m right. I can just sense it lol. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. Have you ever done that?

[GingerGuy]

Well I've never been asked lol. Would I show it to someone that asked though? Maybe. In your case though, if he knows you, and knows you're not single, I'm sure he's never had a woman ask before (which in itself is "weird"), so I'd explain that you just want to see it, that you're curious (so he doesn't think there's more to it). And while most guys probably wouldn't have a problem with it, some might so be prepared for that also. Just like if a guy asked to see a woman, only he'd probably get a slap! LOL

[LaMiSch]

I once did that with a very good friend (female) who also has a boyfriend. She was satisfied, I had no problem with that. We made it clear straight away that no matter how much pleasure we have, there is nothing going on except to show him. It worked out great. But you both have to have a strong will to do nothing else 😅

[youngmix]

Uh, no. I've never asked a friend that I do not and will not have sex with to flash me his dick. It would be like a guy friend asking me to show him my pussy, fucking creep. wtf? You're either fucking or you're not.

[SecretsofKB]

Yes I have. But not in the context you are thinking.

I'm a nurse lol so I have had to ask to see the person's penis... usually I'm holding a catheter also so no one is happy...

[JessicaEarl]

Lol I was a cna, so I was taking the catheters out

[SecretsofKB]

Hey! She gets it then!

[ChrisMaster69]

@secretsofkb like ouch, had a couple times, just sooo not fun lol. Last time they bruised me taking it out, the pain was off the chart lol

[JessicaEarl]

@ChrisMaster69 when I was first learning, I didn’t deflate the ballon and kept pulling and was so confused

[ChrisMaster69]

@jessicaearl yeah not fun that lol

[888theGreat]

I won't allow for that. I will find a way to use a bed pan

[ChrisMaster69]

@888theGreat good luck with that when in ICU, hooked up on life support and morphine drips etc.

[888theGreat]

@ChrisMaster69 when will that happen? I will die in my sleep or heart attack

[ChrisMaster69]

@888theGreat majority of heart attacks are recoverable and you end up in hospital, guess what they put in to you…

[888theGreat]

@ChrisMaster69 Mine will be fatal

[ChrisMaster69]

@888theGreat go for it

[Bricealan]

@ChrisMaster69 When I was catherized for surgery, they took it OUT after the procedure, while I was under anesthesia, but it WAS painful every urination.

[StrongMale]

I feel for you, having to catheterize a guy. Do you find it difficult to do? Do all males squirm and writhe in pain when you do it? Just wondering because it was so horrifically excruciating for me that the poor gal who was tasked with doing it had to stop, and could not catheterize me. I really felt bad for her (and my penis!), as I knew she was just trying to do her job. I cannot fathom how any guy could endure that. It was, hands down, the absolute worst pain I have ever experienced. The hospital had to anesthetize me to put the catheter in, so I woke up with it in my penis. And it stayed in for over a week. That was awful too, as every morning I woke up with an erection, and the feeling of my penis gradually becoming flaccid and my urethra slowly sliding down the catheter was utterly horrible. And even having the catheter removed was terrible. Despite how gently the nurse handled it, she still had to pull it out, and that was not fun. I now wear a medical alert necklace that says “Do not catheterize”. It will never happen again to me.

[Aerissa_Jade]

I would only do that if single and would offer to return the visual favor if he asked or wanted it in return. Like satisfy our curiosities.

Unless I was interested in more from him, that is as far as I would want it to go. It is not a common thing that I have done, only back when I was younger and more curious.

[JessicaEarl]

That sounds like you had some fun! Would it be just a buddy? Like a flash for a flash and call it good?

[Aerissa_Jade]

Pretty much, just decide up front for how long, even have a timer... okay 30 seconds, here you go... I would look away and watch the timer, so he could stare rather than feel like it was wrong. Usually it was more like 10 seconds though, cause 30 seconds is a long time in that situation.

[Leonharted]

I haven't, no.

[Red_Arrow]

If he agrees, will you reciprocate and show him your pussy?

[ohshee]

So that really happens. I thought it was a joke I've had two girls asked me you see my cock I Just Smiles what yeah right whatever I thought they were joking

[Tamera952]

BOY have I !!! Lots of times

[JessicaEarl]

How did it go? Tell me tell me☺️

[Bricealan]

See, I did not think it was a big deal, and I knew other girls did the same thing. Not something you tell your boyfriend or SO or hubby. You have to have some secrets.

[Porter21]

I had a good guy friend when I was younger. One day we were it his room & he asked me if he could see my dick I said I will show mine if you show yours! We both took off our shorts we were both hard & cut & about the same size! We ended up masturbating together we watched each other cum we had a lot of cum! He was the only one though I have often wanted to ask other guys! I often checked out guys in the shower in gym class & when I was in a sauna!

[MelonSoda]

I've asked to see my boyfriend's. Reason was because I was just curious. I like what I saw.

[Bricealan]

I know you are not alone in that thought. A work friend, (who also had a steady boyfriend, police officer) and I played around at work, and I sent her a penis picture through office mail. She eventually wanted to see me with a hard-on in the hallway, which I did show her through my pants. She went as far as asking me to "push it up, so it points to your belt-line", which I did. Weeks later, we went to her car, I showed her my penis, pants down, and she eventually showed me her full 'bush, which was beautiful. She said at one time that she wanted to watch a guy get a hard-on, since "by the time I get to them, they are already hard"! I never asked her if she told her boyfriend and assume she did not. From my perspective, young girls, do have those thoughts and it is perfectly normal in sexual exploration.

Similarly, had a married women in my complex, that was penis curious, whom I showed her a picture of me nude, in bed, with a hard-on, (that my girlfriend took, and then asked me if I showed it to the woman in question) and she and I eventually fucked over a Saturday night with her husband away with the military.

A lot of blah, blah, here, I know, but you are certainly normal. I would not tell your boyfriend if he does show you his penis, as it will do nothing but cause problems.

To answer your question, YES women do, do that!

[elizamichale1]

yup i have asked quite a few guys

[Bricealan]

I did not see it as a big deal for a girl to ask. Besides the times I described in my answer above, I have had work associates, at Firestone want to show them.

[elizamichale1]

@Bricealan and it is not

[honeylover21]

No, I haven't

[awkward_author]

I've only asked to see another man's penis for sexual purposes.

[888theGreat]

gross

[awkward_author]

@888theGreat How is that gross?

[888theGreat]

Two men its gross

[awkward_author]

@888theGreat I like having sex with other men. You don't, and that's perfectly fine. It's just preference and enjoying different things.

[888theGreat]

I think they are same things , maybe one is bigger than the others

[awkward_author]

@888theGreat What do you mean?

[BobbyC65]

Yes I did and why so I can taste his penis and pre-cum then he tasted my penis and pre-cum. 💞

[Staximus]

No, do not ask to see another man's dick if you have a boyfriend.

[JessicaEarl]

It’s a open relationship 😋

[888theGreat]

open relationship means no real relationship

[Wise4myage]

No, did he show it to you?

[Quidthonian]

I would grant such a request, provided that the request is nicely formulated.

[Cowboy6666]

Lol I am straight so never
Also I would never asked for a girl's vagina except for sex :P

[JessicaEarl]

What you don’t think they’re cute? Lmao

[Cowboy6666]

Maybe But I dont want to offend any girl ;) Maybe I would be interested to see boobs instead :P

[Tornado92]

Jessica Earl your prime years are over bitch! You ain't sexy honestly a 21 year old is way better body shape tight and young. Your old hag!

[JessicaEarl]

@Tornado92 you seem like a really happy person who’s life and relationships are going great😉 only someone very socially intelligent treats people like that

[Smartman5]

Because I'm a man, I didn't want to see another man's penis. but I want to see women's pussy. Of course, I've never actually said that to a woman. Bad things happen to me if I want to. they never do. If a guy says he wants to see your pussy, would you show him your pussy?

[whosnumber1]

great way to foreshadow some sexual tension

[2021biguy]

Why do you want to see it unless you are going to show him yours?

[hhhffg7889]

Ask. I've been asked and I was happy to show