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Do guys kind of like when the girl is tight & knows it’s going to hurt her at first?

Like I told him I haven’t had sex in a while so i’m scared it might hurt. I let him take the lead on top and he kept trying to push and pushing deeper and heard me saying ouch each time & he was looking me in the eyes. I eventually got on top and took over and it finally went in but still lol. like we get it your dick is big buddy lol
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y’all he did try to help out when i was on the bottom by doing things he just heard me say ouch two times and i guess that was him trying to be curious & see if it’ll just go in deeper
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  • As a guy on the bigger side, myself, I can say that I don't personally enjoy causing pain or discomfort.

    I take extra time/care to make sure she's as aroused, and relaxed, as possible, specifically so that it doesn't hurt. I don't take it as a sign that I'm too big; I take it as a sign that I didn't spend enough time on foreplay.

    • he did a lot in the beginning i just haven’t don’t much

    • Well, some women are just really tight, even with foreplay, but going slow, and using extra lube can help, as well. I enjoy seeing that "Oh my God" face when I'm entering a girl, but if it turns into an "Ouch" face, then I don't enjoy that, or find it to be an ego boost. I actually feel guilty for hurting her.

  • I'll eat her extra long to make sure it's nice and wet and she relaxed and welcoming

    • yep that’s what he did and i was still a little tight

    • Lucky him and you then.

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  • Tight is nice, but I don't enjoy the thought of hurting anyone.

  • No, I don't like that at all. Quite a few women in their 40's have had a "dry spell" (usually after a divorce). It's not a lot of fun.

  • So bigger wasn't necessarily better? :) :) :)

    • that’s not the point lol

    • No, I don't enjoy making a girl feel hurt. If I ever got a partner wh wanted me to spank her, I just couldn't do it.

  • Yes I love a tight pussy I love the feeling! Though if it is going to hurt her I would take it slow & easy! If it is better for her to be on top I would love that too! After all I want her to enjoy sex as much as I do!!

  • Tight is great but I don't ever want to hurt. I would put some massage oil or lube on first and then just thrust slow and shallow until she seems comfortable and it's all the way for me. I just bought a CBD infused arousal oil and lube pack and we tried it once last week and it so absolutely amazing!! She's usually tight and it hurts too. Bit we ended up both coming so hard. The key is to relax her while she's on her back. I put some lube or oil on my finger and rub it in her nice and easy and not just on the clit, but all over and through the lips and the slit and even a finger inside, while laying beside her kissing or sucking her nipples that she loves. She really gets relaxed, turned on, and lips spread really open for me. Then when I know she's ready, she'll put or ill put some lube or oil on me before inserting and it's all great!

  • Only toxic guys wanna cause that pain. I’m not sure he cared about you

    • he does care lol

    • About? Cuz we learn that foreplay matters, so do safe words and our ears (hearing ouch and ouch means stop and check in)

    • Are you that tight?

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  • Doesn’t float my boat.

  • no such thing as "tight" and "loose"

  • Smh... bruh

  • A normal guy doesn't want to hurt a girl.

  • thats what make it intense and sexy.

  • I bet sadistic guys would love that.

  • You mean "like" as in an ego thing (that his dick is big, at least is what he's thinking lol)? Personally I wouldn't like anything if it's causing you pain. Unless it's a "good" pain, but she must communicate this.

  • My penis is bigger than typical so I give an extreme amount of foreplay and always have her on top initially. Usually the cowgirl position so she's in control of the penetration speed and depth. I don't even want to chance hurting a girl.

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