Why do women nowadays think that sex is a precursor to a relationship?

Why do women nowadays think that sex is a precursor to a relationship?
it seems like baby boomer and even older women understand this part of life better.

I thought that women nowadays would be more open minded to these types of things but it seems like they instead learned how to use sex as weapon to control and manipulate any of the losers they've slept with. is like wtf did all this come from? I thought women's sex drive functions the same way as our? I thought sex was just part of life to them.

instead all I see is them using sex to rush themselves into an unplan relationship and to achieve ulterior motives
0 3

Superb Opinion

  • The word "woman" refers to a population of about 1 to 2 billion sexually matured individuals.

    And I think with this massive population, we cannot generalize them as in the Details.

    I would say, in this population, we have all shades from total conservative (no sex until marriage) to total liberal with all kinds of boundaries we can think about here.

    Yes, there are many in G@G who gave sex in hope to get a relationship. Some regretted, others entered a relationship.

    Thus my Opinion is, social medias may make a certain group of individuals appear more prominent than others.

    This is because conservatives may not even talk about sex online. And hence only the promiscuous ones are noticed.

    If given a poll where their beliefs are put in place, we may still get roughly 50-50 for both conversations and liberals. I don't know. Some institutions need to conduct such a poll.

Most Helpful Guy

  • The price of sex has never been cheaper. Casual hookups/porn/feminism in culture has definitely made society much worse, overall. Women don't realize they have crashed the market for commitment and high value men can keep a harem if they wish.

    • they crashed it but now it suddenly the one they want. how ironic

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think that, and neither do most of my friends. But there are many women like that, and I think there's way less of them. And there are some desperate women out there, so if you care about this, be careful who you have sex with.

    And this is not a women only trait. Dudes do it all the time, and they do it hard.

    • judging from my and my friends/male relatives there are far more women like this. but unfortunately they tend to show this behavior after the sex now the dudes that do this are an extreme minority. most dudes just want to hit and run unless you're talking about incels; who would do anything for a relationship

    • I'd say that incels and betas are the majority of men. But them and some alpha dudes end up getting all hurt if they don't get called back. Every person is replaceable, and many alpha dudes I've ran into hate seeing you with other dudes longer than you were with him, having a better time too. This is especially true if they have to see you every week. They want you to want them. Now there's a bunch of guys that don't care at all, I'm not saying that isn't true, but like I said, dudes do it all the time as well. Incels, betas, and a some alpha dudes are still dudes. Now the consistently least dramatic men I've known have all been hippies. They are down for whatever, and are absolutely free.

  • Because believe it or not, there are man who fall for it. As much as how they can’t make these men stay, there will be some other desperate losers (like you mentioned) who will do whatever it takes to get sex from them. It is a win-win situation. Whoever that is smarter will survive the game.

    • There are men*

    • but I guess its ok for women to think this way though

    • To think what?

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

9 6
  • If you are someone that lets someone else manipulate or control them through sex, you have bigger problems than the shitty person you're with.

    • if you live in America or anywhere else in the west where the person you have sex now has the right to make false rape allegations against you or other vindictive acts that can make your life and image miserable then you will know its not that easy

    • Ok. I didn't think about that aspect of it. Although, how often does that really happen though? I'm sure you have a much greater risk of getting and STI or pregnant than being falsely accused.

    • no offense but if you didn't think about that aspect and asking how much that happens then you live under a rock. false rape allegations have been on the rise since the 90s or even before. talk about pregnancy there are bimbos out there that can get pregnant by another loser before or after you had sex with them and can cry that the kid is yours and often times the justice system will believe them. also STDs aren't that big of a deal anymore. you can always wear condoms and the only STDs that dont have treatments are Herpes, HIV and HPV which are easy to avoid

    • Show All
  • Sorry to hear about your unfortunate picks in women!

    • you obviously can't expect to fish out a clean fish when you are force to fish in a swamp

    • @CasaNorba It's funny that a promiscuous woman like her is trying to use shaming tactics on you

    • @TruthBringer I know right, its funnier how she is using the same old #nawalt derivative

    • Show All
  • Where do you see this at? We must be living in two different worlds.

    • a planet called Earth

    • Reading your comments, I see you have some past trauma and have a lot of pent up anger. Therapy could be great for you. Good luck <3

  • Sounds like you're going down a dangerous path of disillusionment & erroneous assumptions.
    (either that, or you need to get out of your comfort zone, &/or area & meet some different chicks!)

    • "you need to get out of your comfort zone, &/or area & meet some different chicks!" yeah let me borrow your private jet and I will start doing that tonight

  • I mean there r definitely women out there like that, some who have sex w no feelings attached and some who want to love the person first, ya just gotta find the right one for u

    • yeah the ones that expect you to reward them with free drinks at bars or take them out to feed them their free dinner

  • I mean, guys do it too. Just shitty people everywhere, man.

  • There's always the option of *not* having sex with them. Just a friendly suggestion.

    Male players use our emotions against us and now we're turning the tables. It's called tit for tat.

    You have free will, so do the apparent losers in your details. No one is forcing you to do shit.

    • And by the way, as a woman myself, I'd have to say it's pathetic to manipulate somebody into a relationship, specifically as how you can get it outside a relationship lol

    • " I'd have to say it's pathetic to manipulate somebody into a relationship" how about the women who think that one night of sex is an automatic relationship? would you say they are being pathetic to themselves? "Male players use our emotions against us and now we're turning the tables. It's called tit for tat." yeah I gotta say you women in India are doing an outstanding job at this, this might explain why Indian men have been labeled the biggest simps in the world. and the thirst they be exhibiting all over the internet and even here on this site speaks loud enough

    • 1. Yes 2. And yes

    • Show All
  • Because sex is often seen as a commodity and transactional, it's kind of like how lot of men think that paying for dinner, drinks or being in a relationship as a precursor to having sex.

    • oh I see so men today have given women the habits and privilege to act like prostitutes yet for some reason women are ok and go along with this stereotype

    • Men don't give women habits, habits are formed through repetition. If you see a person acting in a toxic way, then the logical course of action would be to not get involved with them. If you see someone using sex to rush themselves into an unplan relationship and to achieve ulterior motives, it would probably be a good idea not to get into a relationship with them. Then again it does take two to tango. I think a lot of problems could be avoided if people used better judgment and were more selective about who they get intimate with. We are all products of the society that we live in, thankfully as members of that society we have the ability to change it.

    • " If you see someone using sex to rush themselves into an unplan relationship and to achieve ulterior motives, it would probably be a good idea not to get into a relationship with them" who said anybody is getting into a relationship with these type of women? they are the ones who can't tell the difference between hookups and relationships apart. " I think a lot of problems could be avoided if people used better judgment and were more selective about who they get intimate with." I agree with you but unfortunately we humans aren't mind readers and the only way we can be selectively is by laying our cards in the table, which is something women nowadays not only hate doing but also find very repulsing. they instead want to be told lies at first just to get their heart broken later.

    • Show All
  • I've never met a woman who has sex with men for the purpose of manipulating him into a relationship.

    • then you are lucky as fuck

    • Maybe. I wouldn't really know.

  • These women are called “sluts” and they’ve always been around

    • last time I checked "sluts" were women that just slept around. I never recalls sluts sleeping with you and then demanding you fall in love with them while acting like there is already a relationship between the two of you

    • They’re still using sex as a ploy I don’t know I think it’s pretty slutty

  • Where do you find women that are like this? I ask because I've never, ever actually met one.

    • your profile says you are from Hungary. maybe that's why

  • it all boils down to a lack of fathers and discipline in general

  • Because women have slowly gotten dumber and dumber over the years.

    • James blonds too (men)🙃

    • @cookiecrusher a lot of them true. But its mostly only men with a braincell left these days

  • Have sex and demand that you fall for them? Have you ever been on tinder? As someone who has, I can assure you that women today have sex just for fun and pleasure whitout expecting anything else from you.

    • yeah too bad I dont live if Portugal and I also wouldn't be surprised if that's were you met your wife

    • It could have been, but it wasn't. Meet her through common friends. I don't believe that only we have women having sex for fun.

    • you may be right about your second sentence. however women here in America are not as easy as the women in your country are unless you look like Jason Momoa or make a over a million dollars a year. trust me, try opening up a tinder account again but this time change your location to somewhere in America. tell these bimbos that you just want to "have sex for fun" and watch how they're either gonna ignore you or scorn you and even try to go as far as telling you that "tinder is not a hookup app"

    • Show All
  • Because they have nothing else to offer