He wants to eat me out, what should I do?

I noticed my friend would check me out but normally I wouldn’t pay too much attention to it cause I didn’t wanna say anything and potentially scare him away for noticing.

But lately he’s been saying sexual stuff to me. Not everyday, but sometimes when it’s just me and him alone. One time I was jogging over to the garbage can to quickly throw something away, and he was nearby watching and said how jiggly my ass was and that he wanted me to shake it in his face.

I said “Huh?” and asked him to repeat himself cause I thought he was talking to someone else. He shook his head saying “Nevermind” and smiled while looking away.

A few weeks later we were sitting together talking about video games, and his other friends showed up and hinted to me asking if I wanted his tongue. I said no and my friend froze like I wasn’t suppose to know he told them about it.

I like him too but I’m way too self cautious of my body. I’m afraid he might not like me afterwards.
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  • It's not particularly likely that he'd stop liking you afterwards; this is a guy who knows you, and has for a while; that's not going to change because you let him do something sexual. It CAN change your relationship, though; there may be people out there who can sex without forming emotional attachments, but if there are, they're rare. If you go through with it, and you both find you enjoy it, and it spreads out into other things, that's great- friends with benefits arrangements are a common enough thing, after all. But if one you wants more, even if it's just a repetition of the same thing, and the other doesn't, well...

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  • You know how you probably like confident guys? We like it in you also, especially body confidence! Super attractive (hard when you don't have it isn't it? lol I laugh because women almost "expect" men to have it, but we're human beings and all have insecurities). But my suggestion, if you want this and like him, just go with it. Have the "F&^K it" attitude lol. These are just your fears and insecurities and they aren't likely to come true. And those insecurities will likely fade quickly in the moment and once it starts and you get comfortable. He's interested in you, and seeing someone naked has never changed a guy's mind about being with a woman LOL

    • In reading other comments, if you're not ready, simply tell him that.

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  • I don't know--if someone who only looked at my body and not me personally as a person--I would turn the other way. Someone who constantly said sexual stuff while I didn't know him well--that would be a red flag for me.

    • He doesn’t constantly say it. Lately he’s been more vocal about it, usually we talk about other stuff like games, anime, food etc.

  • Your friend sounds like a weirdo and a creep. You should stop being friends with him.

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  • Yeah you and every other girl that hasn't done anything before. The majority of you are insecure about their bodies, but their is little need to be, we love the female form. He already likes what he sees, but as you seem to like him make sure he isn't just after you for sex only.

  • If you like him & you feel comfortable him going down on you. I say go for it! Maybe let him finger you first? I had a girl who would love it when I would go down on her I would get so horny I would cum 2-3 times every time I did with out touching my cock I loved cumming like that & I was messy but I didn’t care! She was the only one who make me cum that way!
    I loved to eat her out!! Get me hard & horny when I think about it!!!

  • This should be reserved for a relationship.

  • If you're interested in him, go for it. The worst thing that will, likely, happen is your friendship will be a bit awkward for a bit before returning to normal.

  • He wants sex nothing else, with any type of body.

    • He mentioned he wants a girlfriend, but how should I tell him that I’m not ready for all of that?

    • Tell him you are not ready or already seeing someone else

  • Your friend has seen you enough to understand your body type. If you like him and want to play, go for it

  • Well i haven't had that problem till today on the other hand I've asked a few of ex girlfriends before to actually sit on my face ride my face till she cums and also twerk in that ass rite infront of my face and they get shy when it really comes down to it but im pretty sure that i will find that sexy ass woman that won't have a problem to take care off that for me.

  • Lay down and enjoy

  • Lay back relax and enjoy the experience

  • keep it in your pants till you are 60 lol

  • The only questions are do you like him and is he a real friend interested in all of you or only interested in getting your pussy? I personally would advise being cautious. You're a virgin and he's just a random guy you don't really know well. You should save your first time for a guy who cares about you.

    • He seems to care about me. Sometimes he’ll offer his lunch if I don’t have anything, and he’d want to know if someone is bothering me when I’m upset.

  • If you like him try getting to know him better to try to determine if he's playing you to get sex, or if he's a good guy that's really into you. If he's a player and you have sex with him, he'll move onto other girls so you don't have to worry about him liking you afterwards.

  • All girls I knew always wanted their pussy licked for a long time. Let him do it, you'll love it.

  • Pass him the hot sauce.