He wants sex even though I’m sick?

[Anonymous]

We have sex every time we are together and there was only one time where we were together and we didn’t which was the first time we ever met. He was really touchy and pulling on my clothes but nothing happened. The next few times has been sex every time. The last time I came to visit him which was January 4th. I began to feel sick exactly when I got there and told him. I felt very fatigue with no energy. When I told them he asked why did I even bother to come. Despite me being sick, he initiates sex. I questioned him that I thought he said we were only going to “chill” and he says “we are, “we’re chilling chilling” so we had sex and that was the last time I seen him.

About two days later I started to feel very nauseous. I told him and he told me to take a pregnancy test. I said it was too early to take one because my period doesn’t come to the 20th. I took two last Thursday and one more this morning and they all came out negative. Still nauseous everyday all day, he wanted to have sex today. I told him I was still sick and he says it’s all in my head. He says I’m being a big baby and not actually sick as I think I am. I’m waiting to go to the doctor to get my insurance right because I get charged high bills even though I have insurance. I just got my new insurance and will be going really soon. He says he can wait until I go to the doctor but I’m afraid to deny sex to him because he might just find someone else to do it with. I don’t know what to do...

[ohshee]

The first thing you do is you looking straight in the eye and you tell him no and guess what if he doesn't like it let him go find somebody else and if you guys can find somebody else that means he's not meant for you if he cannot respect that you do not feel well if you cannot be there for you other than sex and that's what it sounds like it's all about him come on stand up for yourself and tell him no if he's going to be a little life and go find somebody else let him go do it you can't love somebody it is going to be doing that or even make you think that way don't back down you need to show him who you are and you need to command our demands respect from him you shouldn't have to go that far but I guess you have to if you can't think about it himself that's just wrong look this is a turning point in your relationship. This is where he gets to prove to you who he really is as a man if he's going to take care of you Arby's going to fucking shit on you don't put up with is nonsense don't put up with anybody spell shitt if his brain is not smart enough to look at you to understand that you do not feel well and he just not respect you and you need to teach you very quickly and like I said if a guy if your boyfriend makes you feel and if you do not do what he wants when he wants I think he's going to go get somebody else you need to be honest with yourself and see dude get the fuck out he's telling you that he does not love you if that is the case he's telling you he's just using you for sex if that is the case think about it honestly to be honest with you I don't see it working I think you're way more important as a human being as a girlfriend as a friend and he realizes do not let him manipulate you I hope you get well soon if I was you I'd cut him off for a week just because he's not taking care of you the way that you should be

[MrOracle]

While I understand him WANTING sex even though you were sick (I'm also a man, and especially in my late teens, there was rarely a time when I didn't want sex), I also wasn't completely selfish, and I didn't push my girlfriends to have sex when they weren't feeling well, even if I was disappointed not to be getting any. You make sacrifices when you are in a relationship - that's part of the deal.

But he doesn't seem to care enough about you or your health or your feelings - he's only worried about himself and what HE wants. And, yeah, we've all done that on occasion - pushed our own desires a bit too much and crossed a line - we're all human and we are all selfish at times. The way you're describing things, though, it seems that this is not just a rare one-off thing, but rather a pattern of behavior from him, and that's a big red flag that you should be taking very seriously, because that's NOT good.

[Ange-Etrange]

Girl, if you are looking for a clue he care more about his balls than your health, that's your clue.

[Leonharted]

I'd say, "Hey. Can I see your hand for a second?" Then, when he presents it, I'd look it over and say, "Huh. Look at that. There's nothing wrong with it. I'm sick, and you are perfectly capable of taking care of yourself."

If he doesn't take no for an answer at that point, then I'd say, "Fine, but only if I'm on top," and puke right on his face.

[DonkeyDan]

So basically he doesn't actually care about you at al, l and only cares about the sex. I think you should probably let him go and find somebody else, because he's only using you.

[slatyb]

Stop seeing that exceptionally selfish uncaring man.

[Miristheiss]

That is selfish of him. Maybe he should focus on taking care of you a bit while you are sick.

[AviatorTom]

If he would find someone else because you're sick and don't feel like sex, it's very likely that he'd be looking for someone else anyway.

You have the right to control your body. That includes who you have sex with, how and when. He needs to understand that.

[Fireguy17]

He should have better manners than that.
If your partner isn't feeling well, wait until she feels better.
It's not always about him.

[awkward_author]

If he's making you feel this way, it might be a good idea to call off the relationship. He needs to be more understanding when you're sick and respect it when you don't want to have sex. You shouldn't be afraid he's going to cheat just because you're denying him sex at this time.

[Mr1derful]

He's an selfish a$%! You don't deserve that and deserve better. Real guys would not push it on you like that and would actually be concerned and try to help you. Wow!

[Wise4myage]

That should have turned you off.

[Draxler719]

Girl just dump him
Relationship is not only about sex
If the guy doesn't even know how to treat his women then what's the point of being in a relationship

[DarkChoc69]

That man is desperate, would recommend taking to him or just ending it

[noohair]

He sounds like a selfish prick. If he does not care how you feel today, it will not get better in the future.

[Twalli]

This early in the year you're probably going to pay full price to meet your deductible. As for him saying he can wait, then trust him.

[EnglishEuropean]

The Supreme Court considers this rape.

[LaMiSch]

He just want to fuck, sorry but thats it. He only cares about his balls.

[kareka]

He just want sex from you...

[Anonymous]

yess

[Anonymous]

If he cares about you, he's not just going to find someone else. And if that's what he does, it shows you how little he cares, in which case do you really want to be with him then?

[Anonymous]

Dump him.