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  • Found out about my bisexuality very recent. It's hard sometimes because you think "do I just think that girl is REALLY PRETTY? or do I want to be with her?". Also, I might wanna be with her, but do I want sex with her?
    Even though I still haven't figured out if I do want to have sex with a girl, I still call myself bisexual, because I'm open to trying and do have crushes on girls.
    Also know that bisexuality doesn't mean it was always there. Your sexuality can develop further through your life I think. Also it doesn't mean you have ti be attracted 50/50 to men and women. It can also be a 70/30 ratio or have a preference. I don't know hope this kind of helped.

    • you now lesbain all I like all lesbain to get me all sex

    • I'm not a lesbian. Stop bisexual erasure

  • If you are attracted to both sexes then you're bisexual. If you are only attracted to the opposite sex and do not feel interested in same sex relationships then you are straight. Think about which gender turns you on or makes you feel romantic.

    • Thanks for the MHO!

Most Helpful Guys

  • If u like getting Dick down an ur into sucking a big fat Dick an u still like pussy an everything about a Woman's as much as u do a Man then ur BI if u can't help but to want one of each at the same time unless u just like fucking both sex meaning Woman an Men as I do then ur nut BI ur just a guy who love's to get a nut anyway it feels good to u because I'll never ever let someone stick a fat Dick in my ASS no matter what or a finger but here lately I've been thinking of a tongue in there.
    God Bless

  • Just checked, yes I’m straight.

    checked again, yes straight.

    it’s pretty much the same really for someone who is bisexual or homosexual.

    You can shove a bit of curious after it until something actually happens.

    there are some other labels that can be shoved in there as well, however why not just forget about labelling and just chill.

    https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a19419311/how-to-know-if-youre-bisexual/

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  • Simple. They like both men and women.

  • Too much rocket science involved in that one, let me think about it... lol

    How does one know if they're Bisexual?
    • *jeopardy theme music plays* :P

    • @Still-alive I have pondered it for the last 16 hours since your rocket science comment, and I just don't know yet? I think this a more brain surgeon question! I have to do some research on this one.

  • If you have to ask then you're probably not.

  • If they have an attraction to and have sexual fantasies about members of both sexes. I figured out I was bi when I was 14 or 15, the realization used to really disturb me but I grew to accept it and fully embraced my bisexuality when I moved away from the bible belt.

  • I'm following this question because I am interested in the topic. I am not bi-sexual nor have any kind of attraction for the same sex--but I am interested in what makes a person bi, or gay. How or what makes it happen?

    • Biology

  • I figured out I was bisexual when I wanted to leave my partner for a girl.

    There was also a girl that I really wanted to be with because I couldn't stop thinking about her.

    I kinda just figured it out. Never dated a girl though. I'm married now.

    • So is my wife, but she still gets girl-girl time every now and then. :)

  • I guess by having sex or dating both genders.

  • There's no such thing as "bisexual." If you want to f*ck the same gender/sex as you, then you're gay. Queer. "On the spectrum." Homosexual. That's it. End of story. All these dumb synonyms for "gay" do not matter.

  • I suppose you can consider yourself bi or bi curious if you are attracted to the same sex. I think it’s a big gray area dude! I have never had feelings for a guy, or wanted a relationship with a guy until I had a threesome. After that I can honestly Say I can at times be attracted to a guy and being in the same bed with one was pretty sexy. So, do I have some bi in me, yeah I guess so. Do I want a relationship with a guy, no.
    so, no probs. testing the waters or doing something that feels right. Also there’s nothing wrong with being in that gray zone.

  • For me it was pretty obvious early on. I was definitely aroused by both men and women I found attractive, and my fantasies were pretty evenly split between both men and women.

  • i figured it out while talking to a girl. no feelings nor sexual intentions involved, we just started talking until trust was built to the point we exchanged nudes in a sort of "rate this one" stlye. then i realized i felt comfortable enough to allow her to see me naked and how her pics turned me on. at first i just thought it was a one time thing since she was quite attractive and felt emotionally comfortable with her. i took a step back because she got in a serious relationship. we never did anything beyond pictures, not even dirty talking, but i knew i liked her a lot in every way. i did some research, i caught myself watching other girls and thinking of them in the same way i thought of boy i liked.
    it took a fess months and some serious denial but i guess i like both.

  • When you feel attracted to women and men. Like I have an attraction to both which makes me bisexual. But I'm attracted to men more. Still the fact that I'm attracted to women even the slightest and have had sexual experiences with them makes me still bi.

    • I think me like girls only to sex

  • You don't know if you want both men and women?

    • Yeah

    • How can you not know that?

    • It's a new feeling I've had and am curious and wondering if it's just a stage

  • Same way someone knows they are not.

  • You are attracted to men and women. Ez.

    • You mean 2+2 does equal 4? Amazing!

  • If they are attracted to and would date both a man or a woman.

  • Have you had sex with both sexes? Do you like both? Do you have orgasms with both?

  • You find both men and women sexually attractive. You'd be capable and willing to have sex with a man and a woman. If you only find one sex attractive and would only be willing to have sex with the one.

    • Not true, people have sex with people they dont find attractive all the time

  • If you wanna bang a guy and a woman, then you're bisexual.

  • If you're presented with an option to fuck a member of both genders and you want them both, you're bi.

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