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If an average penis was not long enough and I wanted him deeper and told him to go deeper and I felt like I needed him deeper... is my vag deep?

I only had sex one guy my ex boyfriend... We had sex only a few times. And i recall one time he was inside me from behind and i said go deeper and he said he was in as much as he could. I just felt like if his penis was maybe a few inches deeper it would feel good. I don't know.
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Never neasured his penis. It was thick and the length in my visual estimation was definitely not "small"... It wasn't huge. So i am guessing it was average if not slightly above average?
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  • Your pleasure comes from nerve endings, and those are mostly in two places - which is really the top and bottom of the same major nerve. Your clitoris is the top end of the nerve and is on the outside, and the base of that nerve is accessible from the inside, and is commonly referred to as your "G-spot". If the guy's dick is rubbing against your G-spot, you're almost certain to feel pleasure - but lots of guys don't know where the G-spot is nor do they understand how to hit it during sex, so if they do, it's usually an accident or the girl making minor adjustments - often instinctually without even realizing it - to help make that happen.

    Also, a guy has very limited angles that he can thrust, so in order to make good G-spot contact, he needs to position the girl correctly. The goal for him is to make contact with the front wall of her vagina, about 2 inches in. To do that, he needs to adjust her height (such as in doggy position - he can lower her by having her bend her knees more or spread them wider, or raise her by putting her knees together or having her kneel on a cushion) or adjust the angle of her legs, which will roll her pelvis forward or backward and alter the angle of her vagina relative to his angle of thrust. Obviously, as the girl, you can make those adjustments and/or give him feedback to help him hit the right places. Different positions will work better or worse for a particular couple, especially if there's a large height difference, but there can be other reasons too.

    In traditional Missionary, you are on your back, knees spread, and feet flat on the bed - but this position is often not great for G-spot stimulation. If you pull your knees back towards your shoulders, rotating your hips forward, you will have a much better chance of him hitting your G-spot while thrusting. Same thing in doggy: you're going to get a much different angle if you are on your hands and knees than if you have your face down on the bed. Jockey is another popular one: you lie face down on the bed, sticking your butt up a bit, and he enters you from behind. The two of you will need to experiment to see what works best for you, and you need to give feedback to him so that he knows what's working best for you. You can rotate your hips forward and back and see what feels best.

    You'll likely discover that minor changes of angle and position make a big difference for you, and it's less about his size and more about how he's using what he's got. Yes, a bigger guy may have some advantages, but it's still important to know how to use it. Plus, every woman is built a bit differently, so there's always some adjustments with a new partner. That's part of what makes sex fun and interesting: exploring those differences and finding what works.

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  • (I hope you're not trolling or a guy in pink.)

    As far as the "magic buttons" on a female is concern,

    1) the clitoris could be stimulated even from the outside around her clitoris hood;

    And of course from the inside or via anal penetration.

    2) the G-Spot is only 2 inches deep, meaning a guy with 3+ inch erect can reach it doggystyle.

    Hence, depth or size are really NOT the issues here.

    This means possible issues could be as follows:

    A) you could be wet, but not aroused enough.

    B) you're too concerned with the mechanics that you missed the point of sex: to make love and have orgasms.

    C) you are too tensed up for whatever reason. Learn to relax.

    Possible solutions:
    Add fingering, cunnilingous, even toys to your foreplay.

    Perhaps request him to give you a full body massage, start non sensual then end sensual, before foreplay. This will help you relax and then begins the foreplay.

    Foreplay is interesting. You may feel wet, but "feel nothing" when he penetrates.

    Hence don't allow entry until you feel so high that you have one or more orgasms.

    I'm sure if you get the foreplay part right, then during penetration, attempt to stimulate your clitoris (like grinding your groin against his in cowgirl), you should have a great climax.

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  • I would try a dildo that is a bit larger than he was and see how you like it. Maybe your next boyfriend will feel a bit different. Were you able to have orgasms with your ex? Was the sex at least fun?

  • Seems so, vaginas also have different sizes.

  • You can figure that out by measuring the depth of your vagina. On average, when you're NOT aroused, it's only a few centimeters deep. When you're aroused, the average depth is 4 inches but can easily accommodate an 8 inch penis.

  • when a girl tells you that you put a thumb in her ass

  • Probably the deepest penetration is from doing it doggie. If I go all the way in during doggie I hit the cervix which is painful for some women.

  • It's a possibility but, they DO stretch out to ENORMOUS proportions in order for a baby to pass through there.

  • Just accept it, you are a SIZE QUEEN, you need a big D like mine.

  • No it's not you, its him

  • I think he was above average based on what ur saying.

    • Why? You could be right though but maybe just an inch or two cause it wasn't a huge dick or whatever.

    • Sounds like me. Lol. But I won’t go into details here.

  • yes your vag could be deeper but not only that some women just have more or less feeling/sensation than other women. also when depending how wet things get sometimes when its really wet some feeling is lost.

  • You could try other positions. Missionary is pretty good for going deep, especially if you can spread your legs wide

    • I was on the road to orgasm when we did it fromthe back... Missionary didn't give me that

  • That or perhaps he needs to hump harder. The vag is a muscle so humping harder could do the trick. Or you may need a longer dick…

  • yes , if he yelled in there , he would hear an echo

  • sounds pretty deep to me... can you hear the bottom if you drop a penny in it?

    • Doubt it. The vagina is soft, like y-- Nevermind

    • haha soft like what?

  • calm down lol

  • This is what happens when women get used to 12" dildos.

  • Lots of women can't be satisfied, you're not alone.

  • Because he doesn't know how to use it. And neither do you. At least you have a valid excuse.

  • Maybe you need to try a bigger one

  • I don't know if it's any different for women, but I'm thinking there is no "deep enough" feeling? Like it feels so good you always want it deeper kind of thing? I know that's how it feels for us. I'm in as far as I can go, but I still want to go deeper lol

    • Maybe thats what happened. I know that i was starting to feel good and like if he kept being inside me i would probably orgasm soon. He never really stayed long inside me, his choice I don't know why but it doesn't matter. I just never orgasmed with him though.

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