Also, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 22. There are men of all ages with common sense and respect. They all aren't sex crazed believe it or not haha.
There are more men in the world then women, it's obvious that there will be more sexually obsessed guys out there, she need to understand that men are very diverse in number.
But you have nothing else to offer but sex, no personality, just sex.
It sounds like you have had interactions with some lousy guys. And yes, there are lousy guys out there. Too many probably. (there are lousy gals too) But trust me, we are not all pigs with a one track mind. Some of us are introspective, intellectual, thoughtful and fun! Don’t give up! Good guys do exist!
Okay, thank you.
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Okay, I know you said that just to make me mad
I did not actually. Although I knew it probably would happen.
I'm not mad though don't worry haha
Maybe it would've been nice if you were - jk😝
She's not being negative. Someone who has an obsession with anything isn't attractive to most women because it indicates they don't care about anything but their obsession.
@thatonearies I'm not sure what she means by "obsessed". It's a prime motivator for most of us. I wouldn't call myself "obsessed" but I'm not going to date someone who has no interest.
I think she means someone who always constantly wants sex and that's all they can think about. From the partner's perspective of someone like that, it can lead to coercion, manipulation, assault, or rape. I have a high sex drive but someone who's obsessed with sex is a major turn off. Makes you think what do they have to offer? What are their values besides sex? Do they really like me or am I just a convince? Can we go out and do something without it being sexual? Can we watch a movie without me being groped? No one wants to deal with that lol. Many women dump guys over this.
I'm not obsessed with it. I'm more looking for a personality.
*Most normal women
Well i for example am not, i have life and other hobbies i prefer to enjoy as well. Obsessed sounds like they have no life.
Puberty n shit I don't know
That's why I dislike them. I feel like they have no emotions and they aren't interested in anything but sex and money.
Nah, that isn't the case. Everyone has emotions. Just because you don't understand something doesn't mean it does or doesn't exist. They are trying to figure out life while their biological programming is telling them to fuck everything. Men with money can have sex more than those without. That is how society works. They value sex so they will value anything that helps them have sex.
I think I will stay away from men then😀 I am saving till marriage and since men my age are pretty much atheist and only want sex I will have no luck.
Because that's the ONLY thing you men want and the thing you want THE MOST.
Why don't you date your friends, without any sexual attraction towards them?Only and most don't go well together in one sentence.Tell me, what do you bring to the table, what do you think a guys should like?And what do you look for in a guy?
I'm not saying sexual attraction is a bad thing, but it's a turn off when that's the only thing guys care about and value.I would bring love and affection, gifts for him, words of affirmation, quality time, money, clothes, children etc.I think guys should like and appreciate the girls personality instead of thinking spending time with a girl is annoying unless they're having sex.I look for a guy who's talkative, who can match my energy and doesn't think I'm annoying.
I don't know what a sexual inhibition is
Yeah, I'll stay single
Yes it is
No that's false.
That's true! Y'all loose your fertility after 45 and aren't gonna have a baby after that, most girls are more obsessed with it but they are professionals in hiding it.
porn says other wise
If I do I'll end up heart broken
I commented without seeing your age. But if that's how you feel, drop that thought immediately.
because you're not even 18 yet. why are you dealing with sex and man? I think you should do your studies, play games, hang out with your friends.