Why does he like to deepthroat me?

I’m dating this guy and every time I try to give him a blowjob he likes to grab my head or hair and just pushes his you know what deeper down my throat and he enjoys it when I gag or even almost throw up. I am starting to enjoy it now but why do men like to do this?
because it’s clear that we can’t breathe well and gag. Do men enjoy seeing the female in pain or in struggle?
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  • Guys like the dominance and control, they like it when a woman will seemingly do anything for his satisfaction, especially if it's something that is somewhat uncomfortable or degrading.

    Yes, he enjoys seeing you struggle and gag, and seeing your submissive reaction. He is well aware that you can't breathe well, that's the idea.

    You say you are starting to like it, you are on the right path. He is slowly rewiring your brain to associate intimacy with this kind of act, until you stop questioning it and realize you want it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Guys see that shit on the porn videos they watch and think it is cool. Just tell him that if he does it again there will be no more blowjobs and he will have to stick with getting handjobs. Does he return the favor every time? You deserve some good orgasms also!

    • Yeah true but I do enjoy it now was just wondering why men like it. He does return the favor sometimes but I don’t mind☺️

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm sure the gag reflex on the head of his dick feels really good. And the domination aspects are certainly there as well. They like to feel in control, and that we are doing things that are hard or uncomfortable just for their pleasure. I don't mind it occasionally, as long as he responds when I need to tap out and have a breather.

  • guys like it deep because it feels good to them and they want deep throating that's simply a fact.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It really should be up to you as to whether or not his penis goes in your throat. You should let him know that

  • Personally, I'm not into blowjobs.. I like handjobs, but if your guy does that without your consent, bite his fucking dick like a lion until he squeals

  • I wouldn't say its a pain thing (at least not for me anyways), for me it's really just the thought and feeling of a girl taking the whole thing down that I like and would say that a lot of guys really like.

  • Well its because it feels really good and its a control and domination thing, but he should never be doing it against your will.

  • Guys that do it have a need to be in control, and this is one way to show that they are dominating the woman.

    I personally have never done it, nor do I plan to. I respect my partner and don't feel the need to dominate her, at least not like this.

  • Nope. It just feels good. There's the dominance and control aspect, which is mental. On the other hand, the physical feeling of a tight throat and gagging is just amazing.

  • i guess there's some sort of dominance and submission aspect to it. however i don't understand why women that don't like this are accepting that this is done to them...

  • he like it rough and hard so does like it.. rest u can dm me to discuss more

  • Its a real turn on, and he probably watches way to much porn.

  • Domination thing

  • Coz deep in mouth is more soft and it gives thrill of fucking the hole in throat equivalent to hitting deep in vagina... so its all mental pleasure of domination.

  • It feels amazeballs

  • yeah, it is great in every way. Agree with most of the other comments here. Fact is, if my old lady negotiated this act with me I would probably give in on whatever, new car, vacation to Hawaii, I'd give in.

  • It's a couple of things. Yes some men like to be dominant like that. I've also found that it feels better for me when a woman gags like that

  • Yeah we do that during high points. My wife keeps her hand at the base of my cock to control that.

  • I can’t speak for all men but I like the visuals and sounds of her struggling with it, it feels good and the play on power dynamics with it is fun too

  • Love this. ❤

  • i think it's because the throat is tighter... i don't do this. I always let the girl control how far she wants to take me

  • Could be a power thing. Kinda disrespectful if you don’t like it.

  • its because it feels really good

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