lol... interesting logic, and in theory (at least in his mind), kind of makes some sense (or I can see how he thinks it). But what he forgets is feelings are uncontrollable and it's not about the sex, especially for a woman (usually). When women cheat, there's often emotional reasons attached to it also. And you should ask him, what about his friends? What if one of them likes it a little too much? lol He's just assuming none will.
But, that's assuming he's just not "pimping" you out to his friends? Being you're married, hopefully he's not that disrespectful towards you? Does he do anything else disrespectful?
But I would just explain this all to him, not only how you feel and what you said, but my questions also. Let him know you have no interest in that and it won't be happening (I'm assuming is how you feel?). That should be the end of discussion if he respects you at all. Another thing is maybe he has some MAJOR insecurities? And if it's that serious, maybe needs some kind of therapy for it?0 1 0 0The only other explanation is he's got that fetish of seeing you with another man? But if that were the case then he'd probably only suggest one, not friend (S)
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It's called hot wifing. It can be a kink. Like some are turned-on with the idea of you getting pleasured by someone else and you come home to be 'reclaimed' kind of thing.
Some of the guys answers are so far off base, It's not cheating if you are given permission.0 1 0 0
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My ex loved watching me do gangbangs. Poker night, football games, parties, he always loved sharing me with his friends. I did it because I loved him. I did anything and everything he wanted. Then he dumped me because he said I was too much of a slut. Let him keep on wanting it. Something change stuff forever
0 1 0 0"I did it because I loved him." or you don't have a self respect and truly are a slut who can take any dick while in a relationship
It's a common fantasy with many men. Go slow, communicate, and give him his fantasy. My husband and I do this, you have to trust each other a lot. If it works for you... It feels so good and it's fun. Enjoy ☺️
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8 22If he wasn’t always like this when dating. I’d be thinking he’s cheated and wants this to alleviate his guilt.
0 1 0 0He is a Loser in Love. He would Get Off On It with another Dick. D. I. V. O. R. C. E. xxoo
0 0 0 0Your husband is a cuckold.
0 0 0 1Sounds like he's wanting to try the whole hot-wife thing. Look what I got, she's hot and mine. I think it depends on you. If you want to try it, maybe start with a little flirting or flashing. Or try something online with a webcam. Push your boundaries a bit and give him a small taste to see how you both feel before jumping in the deep end and drowning.
0 2 0 0Maybe he has already cheated on you and doing this will make him feel that "the score has been evened."
0 0 0 0He probably just wants to fulfill a cuckold fantasy that's been brewing in him.
0 1 0 0does your guy have this fantasy? :P
@Still-alive I recently learned from another GAGer that it can also be "hot-wifing" which he might have played with in his mind. He's never asked me which is good 'coz I'm against that and he knows it.
ah gotcha
To get fucked by his friends, your husband is a beta male.
1 0 0 0Agree until he changed his mind. ;)
But before, your should discuss with him all details. It not only helps you understand your feeling about this topic, but maybe you just refuse this idea. If not, it will reveals your sexuality with a new experience.0 0 0 0If you sleep with his friend, you ARE cheating on your Marriage. I don't know what in hell he is talking about. You have the right to tell him you are uncomfortable with the thought of it, and would rather not.
0 0 0 0Don't women do this? Testing to see if their guy would cheat offering to let their guy f another girl? Same thing.
0 0 0 0Tell him to get it a life, preferable too monogamy
0 0 0 0The question is, do YOU want to fuck his friends?
0 0 0 0He’s turned on by the idea I went through that with my wife we just talked about it and it did make her wet but she really didn’t want to at first finally she agreed nd we set up an opportunity and it happened we both were a bit uncomfortable at first but once it was happening we both got really horny and I found it made me very horny and hard to watch her getting fucked then we took turns and finally me and the friend jerked off on her tits together and she loved it we all had great sex and really enjoyed it
0 0 0 0Damn I wish I was his friend I'd love to fuck you
0 0 0 0Congrats..
He is a Cuck!..
Well...
That's just great I was looking for a cuck0 0 0 0Maybe he wants to try cuckholding?
0 0 0 0Ughh.. another cuck.
0 0 0 0my second boyfriend was the same way, except he was really insecure about his penis
0 1 0 0My boyfriend is huge so why would he be insecure. I’m just confused about why he would think that way
Some guys have inferiority complexes in other ways and want to play it out sexually
How big was your ex coz I'm a little insecure about my size too
The idea turns you on, so just go for it and don't worry about the how and why. But make sure you get something in exchange that you want.
0 0 0 0That's so messed up, and unacceptable
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