In our community and culture, sex before marriage is strictly prohibited, and so we both were unaware of what feels good and what not. We both had studied life science at master level, including reproduction systems – it was theory only, practical things are quite different. We both were asking each other for what we feel good or what we want sexually in initial days of our marriage very openly. Doing it again and again help us to make our relationship strongest. Good communication is important in relationships, and that is just as true when it comes to sex—which is why knowing how to describe what you want in bed is such a valuable skill.
Piping up about a new turn-on, or wanting to try new positions, always increases the intimacy between the two of us and even rekindle the spark when we have plateaued in the bedroom. So we both feel free to verbalize what we want on an ongoing basis. The place where I normally start with asking my husband for what he wants in bed.
Most girls hesitate to ask their husband because they fear that they will bruise their partner's ego holds them back. Often, they do not know how to answer the question even when they are asked, because they do not even know what they want. You do not have to be a hundred percent sure you are going to love something in order to ask for it, but how do we know we like it if we have not tried it yet?
For things such as small adjustments or changing a technique slightly, asking in the moment is totally appropriate. Softly uttered words like "harder," "slower" "faster," "a little to the right," are just everything for it. If you are introducing something new, like experimenting with new position, you definitely want to introduce the idea before you are in the heat of the moment.
If you are afraid to hurt his feelings, be sure to start from a place of praise. During one of those outside-the-bedroom conversations, say something like, 'You know what I really like? - when you do this, this, and this. And you know what I would like even more?
Describe what you want as specifically as you can, asking symbolically your husband moving your tongue up and down or in and out during sex. Once we are in bed and doing what we normally do, we have already planted the seed about what we want. So when we are down there, we can say - this is a great time for the up-and-down! If you are anxious about asking, you do not have to pretend that you are not. Show him symbolically - with your hand and tongue. Taking his hand, use your tongue on the sensitive skin between their thumb and index finger, showing them the type of speed, pressure, and technique you need to take you over the edge. After you have shared, you show curiosity in his pleasure by asking if there is anything he would like to try or asking what do he like in bed?
Long ago when I was very young & inexperienced while my friends have had sexual partners already. That was long ago. I don't ask or compare anymore.
I have never asked friends on this subject. I think we men brag too much about our sexual talent. But in reality we really need to talk more to our partner and learn from them. Communication is the key.
Not my friends, but have talked to my older brother
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!yeah I asked my best mate from college as he's a bit of a stud with the ladies.
Have you ever asked your friends for tips?
For me it's less tips and more is this normal, have you done this before, what did you enjoy etc and general discussions about sex or if anything super weird happened.
fair enough
Not my friends, but I have asked my sister. We are very close.
A few female friends and I have given each other tips.
Yeah all they said was "just practice on me, bro haha"
Yes I have ask and learn a lot more. Have a lesbian friend
who told me how to really eat pussy
Never had complaints so I don’t seek help
No usually the opposite, they use to come to me.
Never needed...
I think for me it's more of watching her during sex and how she orgasms and that tells me if my dick is doing its job or not.
I always went to my mom about all that
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