Can I still be a lesbian if I like kissing guys?

[Anonymous]

While i have never kissed a girl i assume i am a lesbian because i have never had a crush on a guy and i think girls are very beautiful. I had my first kiss ever with a guy a couple days ago and it was really awkward at first and i didn’t really know what i was doing. i also didn’t feel butterflies or fireworks. Yesterday i went back to his dorm to study but we ended up kissing and cuddling the whole time. and the thing is i didn’t feel all the things i was supposed to feel? like i didn’t feel the powerful fireworks or butterflies but it still felt good and i didn’t want to stop. does this mean i’m just extremely touch starved? because if he invited me over to kiss him tonight i would go over no question and i would enjoy it. what does this make me?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Could be similar to me in that I'm sexually attracted to women only but im panromantic so I can have all the other aspects like cuddling, holding hands or even kissing with a guy. It's not a sexual attraction just moment of affection that make me feel warm and comfortable.

[AviatorTom]

If you want a label on yourself (I generally don't like labels), you are "bi-curious", meaning you're not really sure if you like guys, girls, or both.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for the mho

[joe_schmidt]

Sounds like you might be more bi-curious than lesbian. What type of porn do you watch? Do you ever think sexual thoughts about penises?

[Berethor]

Sounds like you are bisexual, which is not uncommon among girls.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe you're just bi.

[awkward_author]

Are you attracted to him?

[VikingWarLord]

You're Bi

[hafinjun]

No, I am sorry but you are required to return your lesbian I'd card immediately🙂

[jasco]

I think you may just enjoy being touch regardless of gender. Maybe that person your kissing just doesn't give you any feelings. Go after someone else

[steveRogers12]

Sounds like you are sexually frustrated.

[Asker]

what do you mean by that

[steveRogers12]

I mean you self identify as lesbian but seem to be pretty content with male attention. And not feeling fireworks from male attention doesn't mean anything. You could be straight/bi/lesbian but are so starved for attention you will go for anything that feels good

[Asker]

that hurt but it’s probably right

[Waldoe]

confused? it makes you confused... time will help, so take your time...

[Z1pTD]

There aren’t always fireworks and butterflies there’s often a lot of meh even with the right person

[kareka]

U are not lesbian..
Try moee than kisses with him u will like

[Anonymous]

Yep. I'm straight and enjoy sucking dick

[Asker]

i can’t tell if this is sarcastic HAHA

[Opinion Owner]

No. Lol. Just different

[MrOracle]

"I'm straight and enjoy sucking dick" It is impossible for both of those things to be true, assuming you are a male.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Im not attracted to men over all. I just enjoy pleasing them orally

[MrOracle]

If you have sexual acts with a person of the same sex willingly, you aren't straight. Words have meanings, and "straight" means "NO interest in sexual activity with the same sex." I don't care what you do with another consenting adult, but it matters that you use language properly, and that means you can't just change the definitions of words to suit your own sensibilities.