My daughter asked me about oral sex. I think its because she wanna try it should I asume thats the reason?

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RearEntryGuy · Accepted Answer

She 13. Obviously she's in puberty and her #1, #2 and #3 thoughts are sex sex and sex!

And you should be grateful that she asks you.

Of course she seen enough from the screens.

And from you, it'll be advices that she can trust. Hence please don't disappoint her.

Like it or not, she'll soon lose her "oral virginity". We were once such aren't we. So don't expect much difference. Kids are ultimately built from our DNA.

Hence my Opinion is, yes, she is for sure curious and definitely want to try it. But you could help her learn to be responsible while teaching her the art of sex. With this balance, she will lead happier life... better than following her classmates or from porn.

Citizenkirk · Accepted Answer

Making assumptions is just asking for a world 🌍🌎🌏 of parental hurt here. Ask specific questions and get specific answers if you can 🥫. It Could be, she is curious about cross talk she overheard at school and wants too know what all the buzz is about.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

It may or may not, she may have tried or had the opportunity to and didn't know what she was doing or just heard about it and came to you ask what it was.

Don't assume anything, just talk to her about it and give her some open frank discussions or else she'll go find it from her friends or online.

nice-girl · Accepted Answer

If she doesn't know what it is, how can she want to do it? I think it might be just curiosity.

DaveJord · Answer

I would not assume anything, but I would be honest with her... chances are she's going to do it at some point anyway. I mean I don't know any grown men or women who have not done it at least once.

KrisPW · Answer

How old is she, and what did she ask? It could be a basic curiosity because she heard the term, or she could be asking about details to try.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Not necessarily, depends on her age?
and context of the question?

Also on how much sex Ed you have given her?

everyone is curious about stuff and asks, the main thing is you decide on how much factual information she needs.

rachel776 · Answer

probably just curious it's confusing when you've never done it

joe_schmidt · Answer

Depends on how old she is, but she's probably just curious about it more than anything else.

slatyb · Answer

I hope you told her the truth. If you don't, she'll get it from someone else. Be happy she trusts you enough to ask you.

Agape93 · Answer

So what are you even asking

ShortnsexyKay · Answer

Firstly how old is she?

genericname85 · Answer

probably. is there a problem with that?

BobbyC65 · Answer

Show and teach on oral sex, 💞

nocturnalbreed · Answer

If she's below 17 beware of what you say to her, if she's above 20 you can speak with her just like you do with your friend.

hhhffg7889 · Answer

Well how old is she?

Gb-Fan · Answer

Well did you ask her why she wanted to know. Imagine that it’s pretty normal to talk to kids once they are or a decent age about this.

Z1pTD · Answer

Yes and also give her good sexual advice instead of judging her. If you can’t beat ‘em join ‘em.

Better_off_here · Answer

be grateful she is asking you about it and not trying to get the info from her friends or from porn. we don't know her age so we are not sure what to think if she is gonna try it or not?

Badrhasan · Answer

OK she must know all sex to be happy no shy

Anonymous · Answer

You should probably give her a demonstration. Then talk about STDs.

Anonymous · Answer

Do you know what they say about assuming? That you make an ass out of you and me lol. NEVER assume. It could be curiosity and nothing more at this point. Maybe she does maybe she doesn't, but never assume it. And if you're worried she is thinking about it, then just talk to her about it and the risks etc.