Is there any dom man (BDSM) who isn't a plain misogynist? Any name?

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  • From my experience, there are many more misogynist men who are NOT into BDSM than misogynist who are into BDSM.

    Anyway, there are misogynists everywhere, even in theorically friendly open-minded communities like LGBTQ+ or BDSM.

    But unfortunately, there are many abusive fake doms who uses BDSM as an excuse to be abusive.

    And dominant people (men and women) are actually rare, so it will always be MUCH easier to find a genuine submissive man than a genuine dominant man.

    • I definitely disagree. There are more dom than sub men

    • No, there are not. Not even close. That's a fact.

  • Most of them, you literally can’t name them though, lol it’s people all around the world that partake in the BDSM community.
    Many people know how to separate being dominant and tough in the bedroom and being sweet and kind outside of the bedroom. Being dominant in the bedroom doesn’t = misogynistic.

    • Actually, it does. I've been yet to find any who isn't to some extent.

    • fucking true

    • @Asker I think that’s your experience, ma’am. You might just come in contact with the worst lol. Few bad apples doesn’t mean the whole bunch is rotten.

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  • Thousands of them, it's a pretty big community online for example. I'm sure there are some misogynists among them but it's unfair to tar them all with the same brush.

    I'm curious to know, do you also think all dom women are misandrists?

    • Most are dominatrix. And no, most aren't. I guess many don't really trust men though.

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  • Most doms I have been with were misogynistic around me but not to any other girl.

    • You're a bit naive and definitely too young to be involved in BDSM.

    • And you're dumb. people assume just because I'm young that means I'm naive but I know more then you

    • You’re insulting. That’s never a good sign lol.

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  • I've never met a misogynistic Dom, unless you consider certain kinks/fetishes inherently misogynistic. In that case, good luck finding one.

    I'm aware sexist Doms exist, but it's not difficult to find one who isn't.

    • I think being a maledom isn't a random choice

    • Some men get off on being Dominant because it arouses them. There's nothing wrong with that. Similarly, Domme's aren't perpetuating misandry. If you have a problem with men being Dominants, I would recommend staying within the Vanilla community.

    • Most dominant women do it for pay lol.

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  • fuck yesss

    • *name then

    • me...

    • I don't know you but it seems very unlikely. You must have some very limited beliefs about women.

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  • Yes. My friend is.

    • I don’t know who your friend is and you don’t give any evidence he isn’t.

    • Was I supposed to give evidence? And he is on here so if I posted his name it would be a member post which is against the TOS.

    • Ok, it doesn't bring anything new or interesting then...

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  • Yep, there are a ton of us. Sorry you've had such bad luck.

    • Just an observation. I don't really care much.

    • Of course you don't, which is why you asked this question on the internet.

    • If I cared much, I would do some study about it lol

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