What is a fulfilling sex life? When I hear that I always think as a guy I'm supposed to go out have sex with a bunch of girls is that just immature?

[poneglyphs]

I never had sex and that's what comes to mind. What makes it special in the first place? Should I try and fuck a lot of girls or just a select few but have amazing orgasms. Is that just my inexperience coming out because I still don't know what I want yet alone even had it. I have a bunch of fantasies and dreams, they involve lots of girls or just one. How do I know which one is better for me? If I haven't done anything sexual at all?

Also, I feel kinda insecure when people talk about thier body count and I realize how far behind I am and I haven't been able to change it? Is it normal to feel this way?

[NathanDavis]

" I'm supposed to go out have sex with a bunch of girls "

that is not only immature, but also quite stupid and very unrealistic

and that is because you are not "supposed" to... that kind of life style requires to be smarter and also responsible, and it should be always a choice... a choice of yours as much as a choice of whoever and how many you get involved with

as to, what is a fulfilling sex life? well, that is different for everyone, because we can all be different people... even you could have a different concept than that of your partner or partners

so, overall... maybe a fulfilling sex life could be when you reach a point in which you are satisfied with the quality over the quantity, at least, that's how I see it and that's just me, others might have different concepts because they've lead different lives

[RobT312]

Bla bla bla on the body count , etc.
I guess fulfilling sex life is different for everyone.
for me it’s having a great partner in crime that wants the same things as you. It includes sex often, an emotional and intimate connection, and friendship

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay I just feel lost and really don't have any experience with any of that?

[RobT312]

U don’t need a ton of girls, just one u connect with! Anyways I guess I’m speaking for myself, that’s what works for me

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay so I just need to find out what works best for me?

[RobT312]

Yeah absolutely. It took me awhile!

[RobT312]

Thanks for the mho

[RearEntryGuy]

Fulfilling.

It's a simple word with a deep meaning.

For one, when you need to ask, your sex life is hopelessly unfulfilled (sorry, don't mean to criticize you).

And that which is fulfilling to a person could be unfulfilled to another.

Sex is like eating.

It's NOT the food. It's the process of eating + the satisfaction thereafter that equates to fulfillment.

A hungry man sharing some spaghetti with his childhood lover now wife in a simple marriage room is more fulfilling than a brokenhearted man who is currently under treatment in a mental institution eating alone in a feast of arrogant strangers.

Is the body count important? To some yes. To some, no.

And marriage statistics had shown that many had married and stay for life together. To me, that is a fulfilling life.

Yet there are many who have body count beyond 50. These too claim to be happy and fulfilling.

Hence, you have to discover for yourself. Be firm with your principles and values. Live by it. Then choose your lifestyle. Be satisfied and you'll have a fulfilling life.

And stop comparing. There's a lot more to life than wondering if your neighbors have better sex life than you.

[poneglyphs]

alright, just that I haven't found a single person yet to have sex with. :(

[slatyb]

It's up to you to decide what is fulfilling.

[Gwenhwyfar]

A fulfilling monogamous sex life is great

[Ms_Vanderquack]

So is a non-monogamous one.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@Ms_Vanderquack it absolutely is

[poneglyphs]

Oh. Okay guess I gotta see what I like most and just have fun doing it. 😊

[Gwenhwyfar]

Exactly 😊

[poneglyphs]

Okay, if only girl's gave opportunities to be able to do that 🥺

[Gwenhwyfar]

I still think in your case you’re better off going for monogamy. @Ms_Vanderquack is a girl and I suspect she’s very pretty, so she might be better equipped to live a non monogamous lifestyle. But good luck! If you can do it, it can’t hurt to go through a wild phase before you settle down if that’s what you want.

[exitseven]

I think it is something that is subjective to each of us. I preferred to have a loving relationship with somebody before having sex.

[awkward_author]

A fulfilling sex life is just sexual activity you feel satisfied with. You don't need to sleep with a bunch of women to achieve that. With regard to figuring out what you enjoy, I would encourage exploring your sexuality.

[poneglyphs]

Kk, once I can get more dates and maybe a girlfriend

[DaveToo]

Have you ever heard the phrase, "Quality over quantity?"