In a healthy relationship, how often should you have sex?

[Anonymous]

And is there such a thing as too much sex?

[RearEntryGuy]

What are included in your definition of a "healthy relationship"?

Many include career, others add a big bank account, yet others want car and house as part of their relationship.

And achieve the above takes time off sex. Yes, career means work life. Assets means commitment. And these means lesser time for sex.

The question hence is, where to draw the line? Many can't and hence their relationship broke down despite a "healthy" sex life.

It all voice down to what you and she wants.

Then balance material pursuits with time for romance and sex. (And sometimes, romance is costly too.)

Thus frequently like bank account. We want more. But reality is, we can only have so much.

[tommyvegas7618]

Sex can get boring if you do too much of it. Ever had a 3 day fuck fest? But, I think once to 4 times a week is a good relationship. Every couple is different, but my ex and I were on average 4x's a week. Even the last couple months before we broke up.

[katiesmuff]

I don't think there is a number, it's all about what keeps you happy with the life you have. Newlyweds can fuck 24/7 minus work time where as when children arrive much of that free time you would spend messing up the sheets is spent on kids and you hope to get to fuck your partner 3 or 4 times a week and the older the kids get that fuck time decreases as well.

[SecretsofKB]

Like @whattheheckkkk said, totally depends on the couple. Some have more, some have less.

It's really whatever you and your partner feel happiest with.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Depends on the couple.

[OlderAndWiser]

As often as you both enjoy it.

[SnakeBoop]

As often as you want

[RobT312]

I don’t think you can go wrong with too much.
I think we average once a day …during the week we may go 3 days without sex but then we have sex 3 times on a Saturday for example

[TheRealPinkSloppy]

Once a year I get the itch.
I trim the beaver, put some lipstck on 💄🐷, take a spin around plenty of fish and see if I get any bites. 🌽👄

[rachel776]

a few times a week is fine for me, guys usually want it every day so i do that

[slatyb]

There's no "should". And there's no such thing unless you are missing work or school or other important things because you can't get out of bed.

[AviatorTom]

As often as the two of you want it. There's no generic rule for everyone to follow.

[awkward_author]

For my relationships, I need it at least once daily.

[ShortnsexyKay]

3times a week at least

[Desconhecida]

It depends. Personally, I'd do every day.

[Cringe]

as much as the couple is willing to have

[Twalli]

I would say at least once a day when you're young.

[Cowboy6666]

For me it would be 5 times per week at least

[Anonymous]

at least once a week