There are always going to be people who just don't like the idea of anal sex because "it's not made for sex". But the same is true of oral sex.
There is also a common misconception that women don't get pleasure from anal because they don't have a prostate. There are a ton of nerve endings around the anus and lower rectum and they are part of the same nerve complex (pudendal nerve) that innervate the perineum, clitoris and g-spot. Women can and do get a lot of pleasure from anal stimulation and anal sex, IF they are prepared and it is done correctly.
Many women report that orgasms from a combination of anal penetration and clitoral stimulation are by far the most intense and satisfying orgasms they can have. A study by the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior found that women who had anal sex during their last sexual encounter had far more orgasms that women who didn't.
From a man's perspective as a "giver" in heterosexual anal sex, it is appealing for multiple reasons. The obvious one is that it's tighter, especially around the opening, but there are others. It's also deeper. My girlfriend's cervix is sensitive and it's often painful for her if I go too deep in her vagina. But when I'm in her ass, once she is fully warmed up and relaxed I can go as deep as I want, which feels amazing. The texture inside her ass is also different. It's silky smooth, more so than her vagina. Pregnancy is also not a concern, so we can do anal without a condom. And for me, there is just something incredibly hot about seeing her have an orgasm while I'm fucking her in the ass, especially while she's on her back. While she's cumming her legs go way up high and wide and she does this "crunch" thing where she flexes her core. It almost always makes me cum instantly.
Anal is not for everyone, and that's okay. Some people will just never be able to get past their mental aversion to the idea. But for those who want to try it, I strongly recommend you take some time to train your ass first, before you ever try the real thing. Get a good training butt plug and some good quality water based lube and take a few weeks or months to gently stretch your ass while you masturbate. Don't try the real thing until you can comfortably take a toy the size of your man, and enjoy an orgasm or two while doing it.
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I'm glad to hear it. Let me know if you have any additional questions.
I mean it makes sense in a lot of ways. I dunno what to really think about it personally not really experienced enough to make a call. But factually there are reasons to like it which means therefore people will do it.
You can look into how it's proven pleasurable biologically and then well it's proven people find it hot i don't think that one needs to be looked up lol.
There is also reasons why it's not great factually a lot to do with medical problems that can come from it. But if that was a reason to stop people? people wouldn't eat sugar as much, people wouldn't smoke, people wouldn't drink etc.
So much to the reason for against comes from the fact of just been grossed out by it which is fair. But in reality that's a less strong argument in my opinion though I also kinda feel somewhat the same so I get it.
Also quick note. I think a good reason why one may find it hot is the position and dominance of it. Now anyone can find it hot due to their own subjective means which would also be a fair argument for it.
Men don’t really have comparable orgasms to women generally. It’s more penis centric than full body. I think for men if done properly, bc of the prostrate g spot, with anal they can experience full body orgasm similar to the kind women experience when they orgasm from the regular way. I feel like when is often done poorly and only bc the pounder gets off on it prob millions suffering for no reason. I have heard it can be incredible for one but I’m guessing there has to be incredible trust communication and care for that. As a Woman I have less than zero interest and nothing is ever going up my butt ever. Ever.
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Yeah I get why guys enjoy getting it done to them. Just don't get why they like doing it
I enjoy it, my husband enjoys it, and it's a different level to trust someone to do anal sex with and it is very possible to get a full on orgasm from having anal sex... my husband has made me cum and organ more times than I can count through anal sex he has even gotten me to squirt as well while having anal sex
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My ex would squirt off anal if u do it right it will be fun
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'll give you an answer from a bit of a different angle than most people: I am a gay man who is always a bottom during sex with guys. I simply love getting penetrated anally, it gives me a feeling of being full and complete unlike anything else… If done right, anal sex can be a great source of pleasure for the person receiving it. I wouldn't exchange it with any other act of sex.
Let me also note that, even though male and female anatomies are different, I have also heard from some female friends that they enjoyed receiving anal sex as much as I did. I think time and arousal are important considerations here, in the sense that, if it's rushed, anal sex may end up being painful, creating the wrong conclusion.
I’ve never understood the appeal. I don’t want to understand it either. I think it’s a very unhealthy practice and contrary to the whole idea of a male and female joining together as each other’s counterpart where nature intended. It’s actually labeled as a paraphilia and therefore a sexual abnormality or mental sexual disfunction. I think it’s physically harmful and degrading to women and cannot understand why a guy would prefer to put his sex organ inside where feces and human byproduct exit only.
That is exit only, if you want to feel like you have to push something out, it is great. I can't stand it, better ways and places to do things.
I guess I can kind of get two guys, they don't have the other options that are necessarily better.
A surprising number of women enjoy it. Despite my being an engineer, I have never figured out how the wiring for women works when compared to men. Even so, if she likes it "Up the behind" (as my SO likes to say) then I'm good with it.
Regardless, my opinion has always been that anything a lady wants, she gets. My limits are pain and humiliation.
I hated it, there is enough places where a dick can go in or on me,
I like it. Not as good as vaginal sex, but feels different, tighter, and is just nice to change it up on occasion. My girlfriend says it feels nice, so we do it. As for guys, it’s access to stimulating the prostate. I’ll have to admit I love a dick or dildo up my ass, the orgasms are incredible.
Maybe tighter for them? Tried it before and not my thing.
I am not into it as well, and I consider it gay.
Do you know that many women report anal being the most reliable means of achieving orgasm?
Read:
https://metro.co.uk/2015/08/25/this-is-the-best-way-to-give-a-woman-an-orgasm-apparently-5359272/
From experience, I can say that most women aren't into anal, but the ones who are into anal, tend to REALLY be into anal.
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the great thing about is that... it's a choice
if you're into it... you go for it
and if you are not... then you just don't it
it is both an option and a choice... never a must have, ain't that great? I think it is...
Everything is a choice. That doesn't answer or explain anything I asked. But ok.
well, if you want me to address what you said... I could simply say that you are absolutely wrong there's at least a dozen differences between the vagina and the anus as well as sex related to both areas so, it is great for some... just not for you, and that's fine
I want you to tell me the difference bud
It’s not that exciting to be honest. It’s truly just the taboo of it all. It’s incredibly painful for the person receiving even with ton of lube. It’s not pleasurable if I’m watching them wincing with pain. Rimjobs might be different but anal sex is rarely ever worth it.
That's what I thought
poop comes from there. not for me. And vagina is so much better looking and smelling anyway. why even pass on it for the exit. Each to their own, though. Some , I here, love it.
It's like everything else. Some people like it. Some don't. Suit yourself. I don't like oysters. That doesn't mean there's something wrong with the people that do.
Didn't say there was anything wrong with people who do it. There's also nothing wrong with people who don't.
It's a pain the ass to talk about and I don't want to stretch the point out more than it needs to.
But some girls like to drop it, and guys can be into that boot loot.
I don't think anal is that great, Pussy has always felt pretty amazing to me. If she wants a dick in her ass I'll be more than happy to do it but it's for her pleasure not mine. Give me that pussy any day
I mean, it's one more place to stimulate. Why not see if it can feel good?
Because that's not what it's for.
Nipples aren't for pleasure either. Technically, sex organs aren't. They're just for reproduction. So I'm not sure what the big difference is between anal stimulation and nipple stimulation, and sex with birth control, and masturbating too. That's not what genitals are for. But maybe you're catholic or something so you agree to all that stuff..
I will admit I'm not a huge fan of anal either, and it's extremely rare for me to do it. I mean, there is an animal appeal to it but it's not my preferred position. I will say that pounding a girl's ass from behind while she's on all fours and you actually cause her ass to jump and make her jerk forward definitely is sexy, but I think visualizing that is really just hotter than the act itself. Like I said, definitely not my preferred form of sex and I've have to really, really be craving that which is extremely rare.
There's nothing good about it.
I don't know why I like it. But I do.
Wife pegging me is a blast of fun
I receive immense pleasure when my ass is being pounded. It's difficult to describe, though. I enjoy it because the sensations are phenomenal.
I understand why guys like to receive it. I don't get why they like doing it.
In that case, I’ve been told it’s a combination of both the physical feeling and dominance factor.
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