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To those in relationships, is there a sexual fantasy you want to try, but you're too scared to ask your partner about? What stops you asking them?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah I wanted to try some leather and bdsm stuff with my girlfriend. I was afraid to ask. I hinted about the idea once and she got really upset. So it never happened. It ultimately ruined that relationship. So it was a lesson learned for me to be 100% Open about sexual interests with your significant others.

    • im sorry that happened man, but hopefully your later relationships have seen great things from that lesson. mind if i ask what all you wanted to do with her? have you been able to do that stuff with more recent partners?

    • Yeah man I’m in a relationship now where we are both open when it comes to talking about sex. I wanted to hop into bed and play out dom / sub roles and use leather gear. I wanted to be worshipped as a sub, then flip the role. Wanted to use leather cuff restraints, blindfolds, harnesses, collars and have some fun... light bdsm

    • that does sound fun! i like being on both sides of that dynamic. shame that girl couldnt get to enjoy it with you, but glad this relationship you're in has much better communication. whats the hottest thing youve done with your current girlfriend thus far?

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  • Nope, they know my past and it’s not a problem.

    especially since it’s a fairly dark n hard BDSM one.

    • haha happy for you then man! hope you're living the good life when it comes to sexual adventure

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, there is this fantasy that I want to try. I want him to get me pregnant and start a family. I wasn't scared to ask him. We agreed after marriage he would indulge my fantasy.

    • thats sweet. how close are you guys to getting married? you engaged yet?

    • @derekano I was engaged as of yesterday! We have not set a date. We are enjoying the moment and letting it all sink in. 😊

    • happy for you guys! how long have you two been together?

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  • No we are open about all these things with each other

    • thats great! whats the most fun thing you two have tried thus far?

    • We both love enjoying ourselves together in new in different places. It’s really fun.

    • that sounds adventurous! have you guys ever had an audience before?

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  • I told my fiance some of mine but the worst is a Taboo and I am afraid he could judge me. Even I judge myself for that.

    • how long have you been with him? how open are you two about sexual fantasies? what kind of things have you guys tried? if youve been together for a long time, communicate frequently and openly, and have tried a few things, i dont think hed care to judge you.

    • Wow! That's a lot of questions! 😆

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  • Hardcore BDSM

    • and what stops it from bringing it up to your partner?

    • @ Pink Anon, you thought of trying him with milder first?

    • @derekano His fear of hurting me despite already having a safeword. He was raised not to hit women or cause them pain.

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  • I like girls that like bisexual guys, but they are hard to meet.

  • Yep anal play on me

    • ha, assuming you're being honest, what keeps you from asking your partner?

    • She hates all things anal, won't even let me near hers so she definitely won't go near mine

    • dang, sorry to hear that. hopefully your relationship is happy enough to make the no anal play worth it

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