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  • Being madly in love, the constant butterflies, and jittery feelings can be so overwhelming. This irresistible feeling can push him to ejaculate immediately even though he wants to go slow and enjoy the play for longer. His hormones might not handle the pressure for long. In short, his body reacts actively, and his ejaculation quality is enhanced when he is indulged in first-time sex with his partner after few days. Causes of premature ejaculation – finishing soon are usually acquired premature ejaculation and it can be caused by psychological factors such as: depression or anxiety, particularly about performance or feeling anxious about rejection by a sexual partner and expecting failure. This can be treated easily by visiting sexologist.

    We both - my husband and I were virgin at the time we got married, (no penetrative sex, but many small games – including sucking him occasionally) and on the first time he lasted about five minutes only. Very first time he cummed in my mouth while I was giving him a blowjob few days before marriage. He erupted a volcano suddenly, it was a surprise for me, and we both were not prepared for it. I swallowed - I find it not repulsive, and now I do swallow every time. We usually have first round of about 15 minutes, and frequently – without withdrawing – we go for second round lasting much longer.

    Usually women can come faster when she is on top and she is able to focus better while she's doing the driving, man usually last much longer this way and enjoy all work done by his girl. After these many years, my hubby always last more than 10 minutes. There is not any specific time that a man can last.

    Each one has their own time and they should not compare it with anybody else. Just stay the way you are and try becoming a better person in terms of your qualities, physique and all of the other important things. Everyone is different. It is common and something that can be tackled. It is believed that most men have poor sexual stamina compared to women. Try different speeds, positions, angles, and depths of penetration. You may find some that stimulate man less and girl more. For example, sometimes you can stay fully penetrated and rock back and forth or let her do this from on top -- this can stimulate her clitoris and deep inside while providing less overall friction on his shaft. Some guys find too much lube reduces stimulation, some guys do not. Masturbate few hours before sex to decrease your sexual energy a bit may also help, and then see if you can do better on your second go round.

    Practice, practice, practice – enjoying sex frequently help to last longer in each sessions and focus on taking enough time to reach orgasm. Finally, have fun and don't try to measure up to some unrealistic bragging of your peers. Many men can orgasm 3 or 4 times if he is treated right, but never judge for the marathon.

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  • Because they tend to be focused almost entirely on their own enjoyment. Usually if a guy is being gracious, so to speak, he'll just offer to eat you out. Whilst nice, that is meant to be FOREPLAY. If they cares about our enjoyment, they'd get us off too during sex, not afterwards and do a half ass job at it.

    • Go ahead and thumbs me down like this one coward did.

Most Helpful Guys

  • This is also called early ejaculation, and it's really, really common, especially for younger people. Being very excited, fear and anxiety about sex, alcohol and drug use, and depression may cause early ejaculation. Wearing condoms can also help reduce early ejaculation.

  • If you’re referring to men your age and younger is because their hormones are supercharged right now and most cannot control their emotions. You’ll either run into that or someone that doesn’t cum because he jerks off to porn too much.

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  • Not all of them cum fast...

    • @lingyrolls @neko_nya @elizamichale1 @shortnsexykay when I used to dance, most of the time, of course, I wouldn't cum fast. However, I was around 5% body fat, and had an 8-pack. Although, when I was sick, or did not feel good for whatever reason, I would cum rather quickly.

    • @Mikeybear but then u were not to be counted as normal guys coz u would know how to hold urself

    • @elizamichale1 how so?

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  • That's a normal thing. Not like they can't make us cum from oral or other types of play. Also helps to communicate with them. Sex with my boyfriend got SO much better when u started telling him how to do it while in the moment.

  • Try dating man instead of boys.

  • Only Indian one's, I suppose.

  • Penis.
    That's why

  • tell them to take it easy haha
    or more foreplay on you lol

  • Biology... There was a time when humanity benefited from being able to breed as fast as possible.

  • Even i could never get my head around this

    • just how we were built lol. i know its unfair huh?

    • @Still-alive very unfair

    • This is why i always try to get her off even if i finish first ;)

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  • If they don't masturbate a lot, then they'll be TWO PUMP CHUMPS.

    This is why masturbation is so important, so you have tons of stamina.

  • Inexperience mostly

  • Maybe we are the ones who take too long to cum.

  • If a guy can’t have the mental control to slow it down it’s natural to cum quickly. He’s got to learn how to delay so she can be ready as well and this takes time to learn

  • depends on how excited they arewhile fucking u

    • rest u can follow me and we can talk in dm more descriptive in our dm

    • u should follow me back so we can talk in private message

    • aur tumko dekh k koi itna jyada excited ho jaata hoga ki jaldi jhad jaata h.. pr actually excited hone se jyada performance pr focus krna chahie sbko

  • Once you get to the point when you are beyond excited & reach the point of no return, you can't stop it. Especially if you haven't done it awhile

  • either PME or you turn them on soo much

  • They get mentally excited ,. Or they are so build up with sperm the pressures , force it , once a guy feels the wet warm vagina of a lady.

  • Age and lack of experience.

  • high sex drives.

  • Cuz boys don't have stamina lol, real men do

    • Hilarious coming from a 16 year old with an anime profile picture 😂😂😂

    • Because I've had more experience with real men than you have? Yikes

    • You don’t know what a real man is yet

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  • I know why

    • Okay good

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