Sex is overrated and foreplay is underrated. Do you think so?

Question

I think people are too desperate when they're on the bed and skip to the real part that takes you to a happy ending.

RearEntryGuy · Accepted Answer

Indeed the big F word is so often neglected or under-played.

Of course, to many girls Foreplay means cunnilingous aka oral aka bj.

But regrettably there are so much more she can ask from her guy even before entering the bedroom.

If she remembers the objective for Foreplay: to relax, to get wet, to get an orgasm,

Then she'll start with a nice romantic meal; a slow walk in the beach or waltz in the house; a bath or a massage;

You see, massage could be full body or a finger job or anything in-between;

And one thing leads to another, with PIV as finale.

In real-life, I think many of us guys know all the above.

It's here, at G@G that we skip to have erotic discussions or chat.

Hence I think we're loud here, overrated sex, but our actions in the bedroom that lasted an hour is usually unheard, hence "underrated".

PS: I come to this conclusion from reading what guys here and other forums wrote: Somehow, without much words but with a "15 minutes", "30 minutes", and their girlfriend orgasm or had multiple, I deduced that they are good with Foreplay.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I definitely agree that foreplay is often underrated. You can stimulate a person for a long time and bring them to the pinnacles of rapture. And that's not just confined to BJs and cunnilingus.
But I don't think sex is overrated, ... not if it's good.

msmissydc · Accepted Answer

Yes. Oral is often our main part instead of PiV. So we allready switched it sometimes but yes, what others consider foreplay is underrated in my opinion.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I think people don’t make the most out of foreplay if they assume it’s what you do in bed.

Citizenkirk · Answer

☯️ your talking yin and yang here. Symbiotic relationship. All the way.

josephinelcajon · Answer

Yes! Foreplay is like edging!

awkward_author · Answer

Nope. I prefer sex over foreplay, unless it includes BDSM.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I agree!

OddBeMe · Answer

50/50

Ignace666 · Answer

most men only think about themselves and just come. I think foreplay is very important and after sex you still talk to each other how it was. I find it important that the partner is more satisfying than myself